I am heartbroken?

[Anonymous]

I am talking to this guy for a month now and he was in a 2-3 year relationship before me. And we follow each other on social media and he's got me as his wallpaper alongside with his deceased mother. Anyway, we like each other but I've been seeing him repost videos on his page that say "losing her was one thing but seeing her with someone else is another" and another was "deleting pictures of her but finding that one you took that was your favorite one"

I spent so much time with this idiot, and now I feel like I am the placeholder/rebound.

Am I overreacting? Any advice?

[SueShe]

Get the hell out of that toxic situation while it is still time. He is obviously not over her. What more proof do you need when you read texts like those he wrote.

It is very well possible that he is trying to keep the nest warm for you just in case he needs a substitute for his lost girl. Be patient and he will eventually want to fornicate with you to forget her, or at least to try to forget her.

No, you are not overreacting and you will probably just be a rebound for a little while and then, he will drop you after you have become routine.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[LC75LC71]

Ok listen. You never have to wonder if you're heartbroken. You fucking know. It's a hurt that keeps you awake and barely makes you want to eat. Everything reminds you of that person that's no longer around.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well it sounds like he's not over her, are y'all committed?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love messes and protect your heart, gorgeous. 💔

You’re not overreacting. Those posts scream “still grieving his ex,” and you feeling like a rebound is a valid red flag. Wallpaper plus sad ex quotes? Mixed signals central.

Pull back emotionally, stop lovebombing him in your own head, and calmly tell him you won’t be anyone’s emotional crutch. If he’s not fully in, you step out.

[Anonymous]

He isn't ready.