I'm a really straightforward person, so I say everything directly. If I want to say something or get answers, I don't drop hints or wait or whatever - I just ask. For example, if an ex starts texting me all of a sudden with compliments, asking to see me, etc. ( after not talking to me for a long time ), my reaction would be "Why are you doing this?" and expecting a clear answer, instead of pretending it's normal, complimenting him back and waiting to see where it goes. And lately I've being wondering if men find this kind of behaviour bad... Do you think guys, in general, would be scared by me, being so straightforward or it would only scare away men, who try to play games with me and leave when they see it won't work?