Why are there white guys who can't get a girl?

You guys are at the top of the racial hierarchy and girls of all races find you attractive. You guys don't have to compensate with money, muscles, or tall height to attract a girl. I've been in East Asia past few years and Asian girls here drool over white guys. If you're really overweight or below 5'5 then I understand but what's up with few white guys who aren't. All you have to do is be confident, dress nice, smell nice, stay fit and know how to talk to girls to attract girls. Not hard at all tbh.


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  • Because girls have standards of their own and simply having skin with low levels of melanin will not go very far in making them be able to overlook you carrying a beer-belly or smelling like showers are a seasonal event.

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  • "Why are there white guys who can't get a girl?" Because they're either ugly, socially awkward, weight 125 lbs at 6'0, can't dress, have a nerdy neckbeardy voice, live in a small town where the girls are ugly or are next to non-existent etc.

    I mean just because ____ is white, doesn't mean that he's going to have girls at his front door if and when he's ugly. Esp if he isn't packing a lot of "eye candy" assets wise to draw them in the 1st place, right?

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    • You haven't seen the white guys that date Asian girls.

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    • LOL.

    • Lol go, save your people.

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  • being white doesn't make someone attractive. you can be fit, smell nice, talk well... and still be unattractive lol.

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    • You can still be a decent looking non tall, non rich, non buff white guy with confidence, decent body, good hygiene, not be creepy, be funny and attract a girl. That's a huge advantage white guys have. Black guys and really light skinned guys of other races like Latinos and Middle Easterners are also not too behind white guys in the racial hierarchy. However, if you're an East Asian guy, brown or dark skinned South Asian, brown or dark skinned Latino or Middle Eastern, etc then you have to compensate big time.

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    • i see plenty of people who are shorter than 5'10 in relationships. and plenty of non-whites in relationships. from what i've read, about 15-20% of the entire WORLD is white. that's it. you're telling me everyone else isn't in relationships? or has to battle it out to be with someone lol. that's ridiculous. and pretty insulting, actually. i don't understand how someone is willing to end their own life because of these beliefs. that's an immense self-esteem issue...

    • The short non whites you may have seen in relationships may be compensating by being either buff or rich. By the way, black guys don't count because they are right behind white guys in the racial hierarchy. The whole BBC stereotype works very well in their favor. White guys don't have to compensate with money, height, or by muscles in order to attract girls but guys like Asian guys, Indian guys, etc have to. And yes, the Asian guy who wrote the blog needed help but he wasn't wrong in his theory about girls. He pretty much backed up all the argument that girls made regarding this.

  • . Women in poor third world countries want a green card and to answer your question there are many white guys who are insecure, have poor hygiene, bad posture, really dumb and alcoholics. No women want that. There is a Chinese guy in our class, who is good-looking, have a perfect SAT score, confident and play football. All the girls in my class (including myself) have crushes on him.

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    • "There is a Chinese guy in our class, who is good-looking, have a perfect SAT score, confident and play football"

      Never said non white guys like Chinese guys don't stand a chance. It's just guys like Chinese guys for example have to compensate for their racial disadvantage, whether it's by height, money, or muscles. The guy you explained is able to compensate by potentially being rich in the future (perfect SAT score) and possibly buff also (plays football). If he hadn't had a perfect SAT score and hadn't played football, there would be far less girls in your class crushing on him. Even you probably wouldn't be crushing on him. Chinese guys who aren't tall, rich, or buff have almost no chance with girls. Their chances with girls are only as good as winning the lottery.

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    • No, he is neither of those things. He is confident and has an amazing sense of humor. His puns and jokes are witty and groan-inducing. He knows he is short but he carries himself with a lot of confidence and grace and girls notice that. A lot of girls confessed to me that they have a secret crush on him.

    • wilkes888. wordpress. com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/
      There are exceptions and he's possibly one of those exceptions that's as likely as winning the lottery. In this blog above, the racial pickiness of girls is best explained.

  • Because it goes a lot further than just being physically attractive mate.

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    • Yeah but there are enough girls out there who love white guys to be able to make up for all the single white guys.

    • and there r enough people in this world for u to find a girl to like u even if u r indian. whats the point of bringin it up bro? who is practically gonna move themselves to a country they dont wanna live in to find a mate who flocks after 'em for their skin color? lol.

    • @Ghosted Lol Indian guys have to compensate by either being rich, tall, buff, or really light skinned to attract both Indian girls and non Indian girls. Indian girls would rather just sit and wait for an arranged marriage to the richest guys they or their parents can find them to marry if they can't find an Indian guy who can't compensate.

  • Mmm, white guys aren't in my number 1 preference, this is a big generalization..
    Your race doesn't define your attractiveness, some white guys don't get chicks cause they ugly, and/or stupid, and/or poor. and/or have a bad personality.

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    • White guys may not be some girls' number 1 option but they're all still open to date them. You don't see majority of girls even being open to date East Asian guys, South Asian guys, etc. There are more girls who have white guys as number 1 than girls who are open to dating East Asian guys, South Asian guys, and some dark skinned guys of other races. Now that's a huge advantage white guys have so I don't understand how there are white guys who can't take advantage of their upper hand.

  • i've been here in east asia for half my life and most east Asian girls (including myself) drool for ATTRACTIVE east Asian men and some girls like other races. check out the lack of demand for western boybands/singers

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  • If what you say is true, then why am I not already a pimp with a bunch of non-white hoes around each arm?

    Simple, because most non-white girls aren't as crazy for white guys as you say. In fact, I have seen lots of non-white girls (internet and real life) disapprove of white guys as whole. The only reason why a particular white guy may not get a girl is because he's probably ugly, awkward and shit. There's handsome and ugly men of all races, well, you probably know that already anyway.

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    • "why am I not already a pimp with a bunch of non-white hoes around each arm?" https://fsymbols.com/images/make-you-smile.jpg

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    • I've been to London. I never denied that Indian guys get dates, they do but only if they're able to compensate their racial disadvantage. And that can be done either by being tall, rich, buff, or really light skinned. Many Indian guys in London are rich so they're able to compensate. White guys don't need to compensate if they aren't rich, tall, or buff to get a girl.

    • Because you're not going for Asian girls.

  • ... no you see as soon as we are born we are handed piles of cash. Not because we are smart but due to the color of our skin. All other races bow down to us because we are so magnificent and if you gaze too long at us you will go blind... in short no shit can some white guys not get a girl. We are just like everyone else minus the color of our skin tone. The only reason Asian chicks are even into western men is because that's what countries like yours preach in terms of social status.

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  • I don't know how to answer your racial question without sounding racist (which I'm not). I am a white male, told to be attractive, and always have been in relatively good shape, dress well (not great) and smell good (so, I think), and I'm 5'11". So, I guess I fit your sterio type. I mostly date white women because (here it comes) they don't care what color I am. Black women won't give me the time of day because in general, I find them racists. Asian's won't date me because they are already in ite US, Mexican Women won't date me because I'm here legally, or don't speek Spanish, native American's are to caught up in their culture to date a white man. And the kicker, white women love black guys. Bro, we are all the same! There are dorks among all colors, and races, that will never get laid in their lives. Be patient, polite, don't do drugs, go out and get rejected by women like the rest of us. I've been married twice, both crazy, phycho, bi-polar, schizophrenic, uber religious, chic's. There's one out there for you too!

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  • You're 28? You don't have much experience dating do you?

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    • If you're a brown or a dark skinned Indian guy who isn't tall, rich, or buff, the chances of getting a date with a girl is as good as winning the lottery. And that includes Indian girls of course cause many would rather stay single and wait to get an arranged marriage to the richest guy they can get instead. White guys don't have to compensate and are seen as attractive by almost every girl.

    • That is an incredibly shallow statement. I am a white guy, lean, almost 6'4". I am about to finish my bachelor's degree in chemistry. Guess what? It's just as hard for me as for anyone.

  • Maybe cuz a lot of us live in the middle of nowhere that and/or we are picky

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    • I guess it's usually the ones who are from small town that struggle. And also guys who only want a dime when they're just nickels themselves.

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