I don't know how to answer your racial question without sounding racist (which I'm not). I am a white male, told to be attractive, and always have been in relatively good shape, dress well (not great) and smell good (so, I think), and I'm 5'11". So, I guess I fit your sterio type. I mostly date white women because (here it comes) they don't care what color I am. Black women won't give me the time of day because in general, I find them racists. Asian's won't date me because they are already in ite US, Mexican Women won't date me because I'm here legally, or don't speek Spanish, native American's are to caught up in their culture to date a white man. And the kicker, white women love black guys. Bro, we are all the same! There are dorks among all colors, and races, that will never get laid in their lives. Be patient, polite, don't do drugs, go out and get rejected by women like the rest of us. I've been married twice, both crazy, phycho, bi-polar, schizophrenic, uber religious, chic's. There's one out there for you too!
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"Why are there white guys who can't get a girl?" Because they're either ugly, socially awkward, weight 125 lbs at 6'0, can't dress, have a nerdy neckbeardy voice, live in a small town where the girls are ugly or are next to non-existent etc.
I mean just because ____ is white, doesn't mean that he's going to have girls at his front door if and when he's ugly. Esp if he isn't packing a lot of "eye candy" assets wise to draw them in the 1st place, right?
Mmm, white guys aren't in my number 1 preference, this is a big generalization..
Your race doesn't define your attractiveness, some white guys don't get chicks cause they ugly, and/or stupid, and/or poor. and/or have a bad personality.
Because girls have standards of their own and simply having skin with low levels of melanin will not go very far in making them be able to overlook you carrying a beer-belly or smelling like showers are a seasonal event.
being white doesn't make someone attractive. you can be fit, smell nice, talk well... and still be unattractive lol.
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I'm not saying you're wrong because I don't live in East Asia, but I do live in the UK and have seen posts from the US.
Believe it or not, a lot of white guys get insecure about black guys. There's a rumour (can't comment on how true it is) that black guys have bigger dicks, and I guess this makes a lot of people insecure.
I'm not saying your wrong - some people may be biased towards whites (and if that's true I think that's really messed up and I feel really bad). But what I am trying to say is that maybe race doesn't play as much as a role as everyone thinks - maybe its more about how you look and the other qualities you mentioned.
I'm a white dude and I'm 19 years old, I have never got laid or had a real girlfriend and that's because I'm not attractive.White guys aren't rare in Europe or north america, so they're not 'at the top of the food chain' they just are the food chain for the most part.
I'd also say that you can't say 'they don't need to compensate with money', when to some extent white guys attractiveness in east asia IS the illusion of money (or reality).
When you look at dating preferences in north america, they are not separating those factors. You see black guys get a lower response rate, but we also know guys with lower income get lower response rate, and we know on average black guys have a lower income. How do black guys with 6 figure salaries do with women? My guess: really fucking well. Similarly I'd guess 6' Asian guys with good bodies do pretty damn well.
For most guys, if you are confident, dress well, stay fit and know how to talk to girls you will do pretty well.
Not many guys have all that down." All you have to do is be confident, dress nice, smell nice, stay fit and know how to talk to girls to attract girls. "
Pretty sure that is enough for all races. Sure, being white does net you some special advantages in certain countries and areas of the world but going on sextrips isn't as common as you think. And import girlfriends and wives aren't that tempting either.
I will admit that being white and in shape and average is more or less enough in much of Asia. Not because all Asians go for white guys but because some of them do and if you're exposed to a couple of hundred people, likely someone will want to try you on.Oh mother of fucking cheese get off your damn soap box, when you do this shit you make pussy dry! No one wants to fuck you!
1. Move to the states and get a house with a bunch of white guys. You'll be broke as shit but it will build character.
2. Get a motorcycle, even a 50cc will do to learn on.
3. Shop at Lucky Brand exclusively and cut all of the SJW shit, get some henleys or a leather jacket or something. Do your hair so it looks like you haven't slept in eight days.
4. Join a gym, workout and drink protein. Go up to girls and ask for numbers.If what you say is true, then why am I not already a pimp with a bunch of non-white hoes around each arm?
Simple, because most non-white girls aren't as crazy for white guys as you say. In fact, I have seen lots of non-white girls (internet and real life) disapprove of white guys as whole. The only reason why a particular white guy may not get a girl is because he's probably ugly, awkward and shit. There's handsome and ugly men of all races, well, you probably know that already anyway.... no you see as soon as we are born we are handed piles of cash. Not because we are smart but due to the color of our skin. All other races bow down to us because we are so magnificent and if you gaze too long at us you will go blind... in short no shit can some white guys not get a girl. We are just like everyone else minus the color of our skin tone. The only reason Asian chicks are even into western men is because that's what countries like yours preach in terms of social status.
. Women in poor third world countries want a green card and to answer your question there are many white guys who are insecure, have poor hygiene, bad posture, really dumb and alcoholics. No women want that. There is a Chinese guy in our class, who is good-looking, have a perfect SAT score, confident and play football. All the girls in my class (including myself) have crushes on him.
Because it goes a lot further than just being physically attractive mate.
Why don't you just get down on your knees, kiss their feet, worship them, and tell them you're not worthy because from your detail thatnsounds like where you're headed.
Maybe they'll ever let you in in their secret 😒I think being white is kinda irrelevant in this case, cause you maybe that guy is not very good looking and he lacks confidence so he's not gonna be talking to girls, or maybe he was never put into a place where he could date girls, not everyone is lucky to be around girls they can actually date.
Dude, that is nonsense.
I am 6 foot 5, Nordic Aryan, muscular, I'm educated, articulate, dress well - but girls my age chicken out on me all the time- they don't even talk to me or give me hardly any attention- I can't get girls my age - only older girls around 25 seem to be interested in me.Not everyone puts themselves out there. I don't really have a desire for a relationship. I'm wrapped up in school and I'm working on improving myself. At the stage of life I'm at, a relationship would just be a burden. I can't give a woman the attention she would deserve right now.
Maybe they don't want to be in a relationship.
Maybe they have crappy personalities.
Maybe they don't put themselves out there.
Looks aren't everything. There needs to be some attractive feature to lure a potential mate, sure. I find other races attractive as well, not just white. But once you get to know the person, you can tell if their personality is compatible with yours or not.i've been here in east asia for half my life and most east Asian girls (including myself) drool for ATTRACTIVE east Asian men and some girls like other races. check out the lack of demand for western boybands/singers
Disagree. I always thought that Black guys were at the top of the sexual racial hierarchy followed by Whites, then Hispanics like yours truly, and finally Asians at the bottom.
You're 28? You don't have much experience dating do you?
White guys are the only race of male that can go to any continent in the world and immediately get pussy. And the same in multicultural societies. You can realistically have anything you want white, black, Asian, Latina, yet you're sitting there with your dick in your hand behind a computer screen with a crusty keyboard.
Maybe cuz a lot of us live in the middle of nowhere that and/or we are picky
Because not all girls prefer them like how people think. I mean they're not in my first list but I don't mind dating one if I find him to be interesting.
Just because white guys are fetishized in a country where they are a minority, it doesn't mean their own women fetishize them as well. I guess the only answer that might satisfy you is "because they haven't saved enough to travel to Asia" hur hur
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