Why are there white guys who can't get a girl?

[MyUsernameRules]

You guys are at the top of the racial hierarchy and girls of all races find you attractive. You guys don't have to compensate with money, muscles, or tall height to attract a girl. I've been in East Asia past few years and Asian girls here drool over white guys. If you're really overweight or below 5'5 then I understand but what's up with few white guys who aren't. All you have to do is be confident, dress nice, smell nice, stay fit and know how to talk to girls to attract girls. Not hard at all tbh.

[Peelikeafrog]

I don't know how to answer your racial question without sounding racist (which I'm not). I am a white male, told to be attractive, and always have been in relatively good shape, dress well (not great) and smell good (so, I think), and I'm 5'11". So, I guess I fit your sterio type. I mostly date white women because (here it comes) they don't care what color I am. Black women won't give me the time of day because in general, I find them racists. Asian's won't date me because they are already in ite US, Mexican Women won't date me because I'm here legally, or don't speek Spanish, native American's are to caught up in their culture to date a white man. And the kicker, white women love black guys. Bro, we are all the same! There are dorks among all colors, and races, that will never get laid in their lives. Be patient, polite, don't do drugs, go out and get rejected by women like the rest of us. I've been married twice, both crazy, phycho, bi-polar, schizophrenic, uber religious, chic's. There's one out there for you too!

[Mistnigqa808]

"Why are there white guys who can't get a girl?" Because they're either ugly, socially awkward, weight 125 lbs at 6'0, can't dress, have a nerdy neckbeardy voice, live in a small town where the girls are ugly or are next to non-existent etc.

I mean just because ____ is white, doesn't mean that he's going to have girls at his front door if and when he's ugly. Esp if he isn't packing a lot of "eye candy" assets wise to draw them in the 1st place, right?

[BangBadBxtches]

You haven't seen the white guys that date Asian girls.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol you should visit China or Korea. Basically anywhere in East Asia haha. The white guys you explained will have no problems here. Absolutely none.

[Mistnigqa808]

@BangBadBxtches Explain? ^_^

And I highly doubt that you're going to see a top notch Asian girl (looks wise) with a rated 4 white guy (vice versa).

Now if an ugly white dude could pull a rated 8 Asian girl just by being white, I'd actually "care" about this whole topic, but that's not going to happen 99% of the time. And if it did, it would be by/with a hot white guy to match her hotness, not some fucking "neckbeard"... lol

[Mistnigqa808]

I can believe it due to them wanting a "green card" and or an overall better life. Which would probably cause them to look past all that stuff listed above even though the guy is fucking ugly. But if it wasn't for that stuff, those hoes wouldn't pay them any attention lol.

[BangBadBxtches]

God damn, you are out of the loop. You don't know about WM/AF? Most of the time these are the dweeb, ugly white guys who had no chance with white women. It's a big thing in the Asian community, especially in America.

[Mistnigqa808]

@BangBadBxtches LMAO oh I know about the stereotypical Asian on white R-ship/s. Where the fucking Asian broad is all on the white man's dick. So much to the point of where she'll put her own race of men down to get with 1 or whatever (or defend why she hates Asian guys). But I don't see it IRL, if at all.

But then again it's not a secret that Asian girls seem to worship the ground that the "white" men stand on. So we'll saw that coming hahahahaha

PS most of those guys get with average-ugly looking Asian girls, right? So to me Idc since I wouldn't want the girl that he has now LOL.

[Mistnigqa808]

white man*
(or defend why she hates Asian guys/what makes them better than everybody else in her mind ^_^) *

[BangBadBxtches]

What state do you live in and are there any big Asian communities near it?

[Phoenix98]

See that's why me and you go out together when we go get women mist, because we're yin and yang and people like having choices.

[Mistnigqa808]

@BangBadBxtches I live in St Louis MO and with the way that this city works you're not going to see a white nor Asian person in the city itself unless they either own a Chinese takeout or if you were on the "southside".

Where all races kinda live together. But even then it's 70% blacks, 25% whites, 3% Hispanics and 2%Indian/Asians.

Now when you go to the "counties" of St Louis the same rules apply except it's slightly more white people out there.

Now all of that changes the moment that you go into the true SUBURBS of St Louis where you'll see plenty of whites and some Asian people hanging out with each other.

And also where the stereotype seems to hold true almost everytime. Like before 5 months ago, I had never seen an Asian couple that wasn't working together in a Chinese takeout. Nope, they're always with white dudes LOL.

So I don't know man, they live in my "city's" greater area, but not within the city itself...

[Mistnigqa808]

@Phoenix98 niggas gone be like "so ya wants Mr curls or waves?" LOL

[Phoenix98]

Exactly !

[Mistnigqa808]

@Phoenix98 #TeamWorkMakesTheDream now leave me alone i'm trying to stalk @charismatic110 here on gag #CreeperAlet i1127.photobucket.com/.../...ise-Sniper-Kitten.gif

[CHARismatic110]

Lol, hi.

[Phoenix98]

LOL goodluck.

[Mistnigqa808]

@CHARismatic110 crap I meant to #Tag you... so 24.media.tumblr.com/...m0sjy6yLgL1ql141xo1_250.gif >_<

[Phoenix98]

LOL.

[CHARismatic110]

Lol go, save your people.

[ElissaDido]

Mmm, white guys aren't in my number 1 preference, this is a big generalization..
Your race doesn't define your attractiveness, some white guys don't get chicks cause they ugly, and/or stupid, and/or poor. and/or have a bad personality.

[MyUsernameRules]

White guys may not be some girls' number 1 option but they're all still open to date them. You don't see majority of girls even being open to date East Asian guys, South Asian guys, etc. There are more girls who have white guys as number 1 than girls who are open to dating East Asian guys, South Asian guys, and some dark skinned guys of other races. Now that's a huge advantage white guys have so I don't understand how there are white guys who can't take advantage of their upper hand.

[kaylaS91]

Because girls have standards of their own and simply having skin with low levels of melanin will not go very far in making them be able to overlook you carrying a beer-belly or smelling like showers are a seasonal event.

[Toad-1]

If i had green skin would she still accept me for who i am? :,(

[Mistnigqa808]

@Toad-1 hell naw... I'd just paint ya black and my ya my #Brotha HAHAHAHAHA

[FakeName123]

@Toad-1

Yes. You would be like a circus-freak and girls would want to have you done just for being able to have experienced a freak :P

[karahiri]

being white doesn't make someone attractive. you can be fit, smell nice, talk well... and still be unattractive lol.

[MyUsernameRules]

You can still be a decent looking non tall, non rich, non buff white guy with confidence, decent body, good hygiene, not be creepy, be funny and attract a girl. That's a huge advantage white guys have. Black guys and really light skinned guys of other races like Latinos and Middle Easterners are also not too behind white guys in the racial hierarchy. However, if you're an East Asian guy, brown or dark skinned South Asian, brown or dark skinned Latino or Middle Eastern, etc then you have to compensate big time.

[karahiri]

i think your thinking is a bit warped :/

[MyUsernameRules]

If you have time, read this and you'll know what I'm talking about. An East Asian guy wrote this before committing suicide wilkes888.wordpress.com/.../

[karahiri]

i see plenty of people who are shorter than 5'10 in relationships. and plenty of non-whites in relationships. from what i've read, about 15-20% of the entire WORLD is white. that's it. you're telling me everyone else isn't in relationships? or has to battle it out to be with someone lol. that's ridiculous. and pretty insulting, actually. i don't understand how someone is willing to end their own life because of these beliefs. that's an immense self-esteem issue...

[MyUsernameRules]

The short non whites you may have seen in relationships may be compensating by being either buff or rich. By the way, black guys don't count because they are right behind white guys in the racial hierarchy. The whole BBC stereotype works very well in their favor. White guys don't have to compensate with money, height, or by muscles in order to attract girls but guys like Asian guys, Indian guys, etc have to. And yes, the Asian guy who wrote the blog needed help but he wasn't wrong in his theory about girls. He pretty much backed up all the argument that girls made regarding this.

[wegetalittletipsy]

I'm not saying you're wrong because I don't live in East Asia, but I do live in the UK and have seen posts from the US.

Believe it or not, a lot of white guys get insecure about black guys. There's a rumour (can't comment on how true it is) that black guys have bigger dicks, and I guess this makes a lot of people insecure.

I'm not saying your wrong - some people may be biased towards whites (and if that's true I think that's really messed up and I feel really bad). But what I am trying to say is that maybe race doesn't play as much as a role as everyone thinks - maybe its more about how you look and the other qualities you mentioned.

I'm a white dude and I'm 19 years old, I have never got laid or had a real girlfriend and that's because I'm not attractive.

[MyUsernameRules]

The white guys who are jealous of black guys are just pissed black guys give them a competition unlike other guys. They're still way more liked by girls than black guys. And you're only 19. Just focus on getting fit or buff, dress nice, smell good, and not hesitate to approach girls. You'll be fine if you apply all this.

[Anonymous]

White guys aren't rare in Europe or north america, so they're not 'at the top of the food chain' they just are the food chain for the most part.

I'd also say that you can't say 'they don't need to compensate with money', when to some extent white guys attractiveness in east asia IS the illusion of money (or reality).

When you look at dating preferences in north america, they are not separating those factors. You see black guys get a lower response rate, but we also know guys with lower income get lower response rate, and we know on average black guys have a lower income. How do black guys with 6 figure salaries do with women? My guess: really fucking well. Similarly I'd guess 6' Asian guys with good bodies do pretty damn well.

For most guys, if you are confident, dress well, stay fit and know how to talk to girls you will do pretty well.

Not many guys have all that down.

[Anonymous]

" All you have to do is be confident, dress nice, smell nice, stay fit and know how to talk to girls to attract girls. "

Pretty sure that is enough for all races. Sure, being white does net you some special advantages in certain countries and areas of the world but going on sextrips isn't as common as you think. And import girlfriends and wives aren't that tempting either.
I will admit that being white and in shape and average is more or less enough in much of Asia. Not because all Asians go for white guys but because some of them do and if you're exposed to a couple of hundred people, likely someone will want to try you on.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol its definitely not enough for an Indian guy unless we can compensate for our racial disadvantage.

[ColinHarvey]

Oh mother of fucking cheese get off your damn soap box, when you do this shit you make pussy dry! No one wants to fuck you!

1. Move to the states and get a house with a bunch of white guys. You'll be broke as shit but it will build character.

2. Get a motorcycle, even a 50cc will do to learn on.

3. Shop at Lucky Brand exclusively and cut all of the SJW shit, get some henleys or a leather jacket or something. Do your hair so it looks like you haven't slept in eight days.

4. Join a gym, workout and drink protein. Go up to girls and ask for numbers.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol I've been doing number 4, even though hard to be dedicated due to school here. You're just unaware of how disadvantaged guys of certain races are.

[ColinHarvey]

What does that have to do with white guys being single? Who cares?

There can't be that many white men in east Asia to where you're being blown over trying to find women.

[MyUsernameRules]

I'm not East Asian but I'm just making a point that they don't have to do much anywhere to attract girls. East Asian girls are only open to Asian and white foreigners. In some cases maybe black but that's it.

[ColinHarvey]

Really? Youve never met an ugly white guy before?

[JCT666]

If what you say is true, then why am I not already a pimp with a bunch of non-white hoes around each arm?

Simple, because most non-white girls aren't as crazy for white guys as you say. In fact, I have seen lots of non-white girls (internet and real life) disapprove of white guys as whole. The only reason why a particular white guy may not get a girl is because he's probably ugly, awkward and shit. There's handsome and ugly men of all races, well, you probably know that already anyway.

[Mistnigqa808]

"why am I not already a pimp with a bunch of non-white hoes around each arm?" https://fsymbols.com/images/make-you-smile.jpg

[MyUsernameRules]

You're only 17. The thing with those non white girls is that even though they don't wanna admit that they're highly attracted to white guys, it becomes obvious after carefully observing them that they really are highly attracted to white guys. I'm sure @dominiquois would agree lol. And I've seen "ugly" and awkward white guys getting girls. In fact a lot more than "ugly" and awkward non white guys.

[JCT666]

"They don't wanna admit it". Dude, there are more non-white girls that are genuinely not attracted to white guys than you think. You'd see it all over Tumblr and sites like that. And a lot more often nowadays, it seems.

And these girls who go for the ugly and awkward white guys like you said, is most likely because he has money and some others are only looking at the fact that they will get a free permenant ticket to the West. I am aware it's a generalisation, but you will see that stuff happen a lot in South-East Asian countries like Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines etc. White or not, all guys should stay away from those kind of girls.

[MyUsernameRules]

Those types of girls are just pretending but still can't help it when they get their chance at a white guy. The gag user I tagged says she is barely attracted to white guys yet replies to dozens of white guys in their how do I look questions with compliments. Never saw her complimenting a non white guy lol. Even if Tumblr girls hate on white guys, they're still reblogging pictures of white guys the most. I don't see them reblogging pictures of Asian guys or Indian guys lol.

[JCT666]

This is tiring, I've said enough...

However, referring to your last point, you should go and visit London. You may be surprised to see, but a good number of white women and Indian guys date each other over there.

[MyUsernameRules]

I've been to London. I never denied that Indian guys get dates, they do but only if they're able to compensate their racial disadvantage. And that can be done either by being tall, rich, buff, or really light skinned. Many Indian guys in London are rich so they're able to compensate. White guys don't need to compensate if they aren't rich, tall, or buff to get a girl.

[BangBadBxtches]

Because you're not going for Asian girls.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

... no you see as soon as we are born we are handed piles of cash. Not because we are smart but due to the color of our skin. All other races bow down to us because we are so magnificent and if you gaze too long at us you will go blind... in short no shit can some white guys not get a girl. We are just like everyone else minus the color of our skin tone. The only reason Asian chicks are even into western men is because that's what countries like yours preach in terms of social status.

[MyUsernameRules]

Countries like mine? What's my country?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Countries like yours, i don't know the country you are currently but most Asian cultures such as Japan and hong kong see white people as a social status.

[MyUsernameRules]

I'm not East Asian but I've been in East Asia past few years.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Okay.

[sparkly-crystal]

. Women in poor third world countries want a green card and to answer your question there are many white guys who are insecure, have poor hygiene, bad posture, really dumb and alcoholics. No women want that. There is a Chinese guy in our class, who is good-looking, have a perfect SAT score, confident and play football. All the girls in my class (including myself) have crushes on him.

[MyUsernameRules]

"There is a Chinese guy in our class, who is good-looking, have a perfect SAT score, confident and play football"

Never said non white guys like Chinese guys don't stand a chance. It's just guys like Chinese guys for example have to compensate for their racial disadvantage, whether it's by height, money, or muscles. The guy you explained is able to compensate by potentially being rich in the future (perfect SAT score) and possibly buff also (plays football). If he hadn't had a perfect SAT score and hadn't played football, there would be far less girls in your class crushing on him. Even you probably wouldn't be crushing on him. Chinese guys who aren't tall, rich, or buff have almost no chance with girls. Their chances with girls are only as good as winning the lottery.

[sparkly-crystal]

"Chinese guys who aren't tall, rich, or buff have almost no chance with girls."

Same goes for WHITE MEN!!!

[MyUsernameRules]

What are you talking about? Many white guys who are of average height with average body and neither rich or poor get dates with girls. Plenty of white guys. Maybe not in high school cause high school girls are the biggest bunch of superficial and shallow girls on Earth but outside of high school, there are dozens of white guys like that who get attention from girls. And if what you say was actually true then that would make girls much more shallower than they already are. Expecting guys to be either buff, rich, or tall in order to like them is insanely shallow.

[sparkly-crystal]

Yes, white men, in general, are taller and have better facial features than Asian males. But not all of them.

[MyUsernameRules]

There you go but that's your opinion about white guys being better looking. This is the thing, girls are just way more racially biased than guys and tend to heavily favor guys like white guys and even black guys way more than other guys like Asian guys, Indian guys, etc. Do you know that before I came to East Asia, I was expecting East Asians to be really short? I thought they would all be around my height (5'8) but I was surprised to see that majority happen to be at least 5'10. The older generation of Asian men happened to be shorter like I expected but the younger generation ones were much taller in average than the older.

[sparkly-crystal]

an East Asian guy of average height with an average face will do just fine.

[MyUsernameRules]

Yeah, if he's rich. Anyways, I'm not East Asian and I know for a fact that my race is hands down at the very bottom of the racial hierarchy. And yes, racial hierarchy does exist since girls are generally much more shallow than guys. Just like how there's hierarchy among high school boys by superficial and shallow high school girls, even in society in general there's hierarchy and one of the main is hierarchy.

[sparkly-crystal]

I hate giving anecdotal examples but my guy best friend is a 5'6 Asian male and have an amazing personality. He has had more girlfriends than many tall and scrawny white guys.

[MyUsernameRules]

Is he buff or rich? There has to be something he's able to compensate with.

[sparkly-crystal]

No, he is neither of those things. He is confident and has an amazing sense of humor. His puns and jokes are witty and groan-inducing. He knows he is short but he carries himself with a lot of confidence and grace and girls notice that. A lot of girls confessed to me that they have a secret crush on him.

[MyUsernameRules]

wilkes888. wordpress. com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/
There are exceptions and he's possibly one of those exceptions that's as likely as winning the lottery. In this blog above, the racial pickiness of girls is best explained.

[CHARismatic110]

Because it goes a lot further than just being physically attractive mate.

[MyUsernameRules]

Yeah but there are enough girls out there who love white guys to be able to make up for all the single white guys.

[Ghosted]

and there r enough people in this world for u to find a girl to like u even if u r indian. whats the point of bringin it up bro? who is practically gonna move themselves to a country they dont wanna live in to find a mate who flocks after 'em for their skin color? lol.

[MyUsernameRules]

@Ghosted Lol Indian guys have to compensate by either being rich, tall, buff, or really light skinned to attract both Indian girls and non Indian girls. Indian girls would rather just sit and wait for an arranged marriage to the richest guys they or their parents can find them to marry if they can't find an Indian guy who can't compensate.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you just get down on your knees, kiss their feet, worship them, and tell them you're not worthy because from your detail thatnsounds like where you're headed.

Maybe they'll ever let you in in their secret 😒

[MyUsernameRules]

I wouldn't do none of that and I'm obviously not even close to doing any of that. It is what is though. Girls love white guys and you have to really be naive to not believe that. I'm just puzzled by how it's possible for some white guys to not get a girl. Being confident, staying fit, dressing nice, etc is enough for white guys to attract a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not naive you are. Yes girls like white guys but there are white guys that are unattractive just like guys of other races. There are poor white guys. There are white guys that stink. There are fat white guys. There are super skinny white guys. There opare over muscular white guys. There are nerdy white guys. There are jerks that are white. Just because you're white doesn't equal you getting a girl.

That's exactly why I said what I said because you don't seem to know the obvious. Skin tone doesn't equal girls.

[MyUsernameRules]

Not being fat, nor being dirty, not being super skinny, not being a nerd, and not being a jerk isn't hard at all. I don't know why the white guys with girl problems can't take advantage of their hierarchy. Being confident, staying clean, dressing well, etc is easy and enough for them to attract a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Omg oaky so what's your excuse as well as every other race that isn't white -_-

[MyUsernameRules]

Black guys have it alright. They aren't at the top of the racial hierarchy but the whole BBC stereotype helps them out a lot in attracting girls. Light skinned Latinos, light skinned Middle Eastern guys, and even really light skinned South Asian guys don't have that much of a problem since their skin color is almost white. However, their chances are still lower than the average white Caucasian usually. But guys like brown or dark skinned South Asian guys, East Asian guys, darker skinned Hispanic and Middle Eastern guys have no shot at girls including almost all girls of their own race unless they're able to compensate their racial disadvantage by either height, money, or muscles.

[Opinion Owner]

So dark skin black guys are above everyone else that you just spname because of that racial stereotype that isn't even true -_-

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol you have to admit that it helps them a lot. A lot of girls admit online about their curiosity for the BBC. But yeah, guys of my race and other races have to compensate a lot in order to get a girl's attention. White guys don't when it comes to girls of all races so they're very lucky.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I said dark because you just said black unlike the other erhnicities you separated the light from the dark but which the black guys you just said BBC.

[MyUsernameRules]

I meant to say black guys are right below the white guys in the racial hierarchy and way above the rest of the dark skinned guys cause the whole BBC stereotype works really well in their favor.

[Opinion Owner]

I get that but you there are light skinned black guys and here are dark skinned black guys you managed to separate everyone else based on their skin tone so why not the black guys or is it because that girls believe that all black guys have BBC

[MyUsernameRules]

Whether black guys are light skinned or dark skinned black guys, they're still black guys so girls believe black guys regardless of how light or dark they are have BBC.

[Opinion Owner]

And if you're black and you know that this isn't true?

[MyUsernameRules]

That's why I said it's a stereotype. Some stereotypes work well for guys of some races (BBC stereotype for black guys) while horribly for guys of other races (small penis stereotype for East Asian guys and being creepy for South Asian guys like me).

[CoolSky01]

I think being white is kinda irrelevant in this case, cause you maybe that guy is not very good looking and he lacks confidence so he's not gonna be talking to girls, or maybe he was never put into a place where he could date girls, not everyone is lucky to be around girls they can actually date.

[Anonymous]

Dude, that is nonsense.

I am 6 foot 5, Nordic Aryan, muscular, I'm educated, articulate, dress well - but girls my age chicken out on me all the time- they don't even talk to me or give me hardly any attention- I can't get girls my age - only older girls around 25 seem to be interested in me.

[MyUsernameRules]

You still have options. Young girls just can't handle you lol.

[Opinion Owner]

But people think it's weird when you date a woman that's 5 or 6 years, so visibly older than you - you'll get lots of crap to hear from the guys her age though

[RedThread]

Not everyone puts themselves out there. I don't really have a desire for a relationship. I'm wrapped up in school and I'm working on improving myself. At the stage of life I'm at, a relationship would just be a burden. I can't give a woman the attention she would deserve right now.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they don't want to be in a relationship.

Maybe they have crappy personalities.

Maybe they don't put themselves out there.

Looks aren't everything. There needs to be some attractive feature to lure a potential mate, sure. I find other races attractive as well, not just white. But once you get to know the person, you can tell if their personality is compatible with yours or not.

[COCOCHANEL]

i've been here in east asia for half my life and most east Asian girls (including myself) drool for ATTRACTIVE east Asian men and some girls like other races. check out the lack of demand for western boybands/singers

[JRICHARDS1996]

Disagree. I always thought that Black guys were at the top of the sexual racial hierarchy followed by Whites, then Hispanics like yours truly, and finally Asians at the bottom.

[MyUsernameRules]

There are still a lot of girls like Asian girls who are rarely open to dating black guys.

[JRICHARDS1996]

True. Also, I'm not sure what color you are (I'm guessing Asian?) but for what it's worth, I can tell you as a Mexican that there is a fair amount of Latinas who are open to dating Asian guys.

[MyUsernameRules]

Even though I'm in East Asia, I'm not East Asian. I'm a South Asian guy ethnically, Indian to be exact. We're at the complete bottom of the racial hierarchy lol.

[JRICHARDS1996]

Indian? I wouldn't say the bottom. Over here in the United States you tend to be around the middle of the hierarchy. A lot of Indian Americans get into the computer industry and seem to be good, traditional leaning guys.

[MyUsernameRules]

But that's only because of the success. My point is that white guys don't have to compensate by being tall, rich, or buff to attract girls. The only reason why there are brown or dark skinned Indian guys attracting girls in Western countries because a lot of those are able to compensate their racial disadvantage by making a lot of money through success in their respective profession.

[10dsw]

You're 28? You don't have much experience dating do you?

[MyUsernameRules]

If you're a brown or a dark skinned Indian guy who isn't tall, rich, or buff, the chances of getting a date with a girl is as good as winning the lottery. And that includes Indian girls of course cause many would rather stay single and wait to get an arranged marriage to the richest guy they can get instead. White guys don't have to compensate and are seen as attractive by almost every girl.

[10dsw]

That is an incredibly shallow statement. I am a white guy, lean, almost 6'4". I am about to finish my bachelor's degree in chemistry. Guess what? It's just as hard for me as for anyone.

[Anonymous]

White guys are the only race of male that can go to any continent in the world and immediately get pussy. And the same in multicultural societies. You can realistically have anything you want white, black, Asian, Latina, yet you're sitting there with your dick in your hand behind a computer screen with a crusty keyboard.

[MyUsernameRules]

Which is why I asked why there are some white guys who can't get a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

I know, I'm giving you a point.

[MyUsernameRules]

Next time, don't forget to give a point here without being anonymous.

[UtopianLobotomy]

Maybe cuz a lot of us live in the middle of nowhere that and/or we are picky

[MyUsernameRules]

I guess it's usually the ones who are from small town that struggle. And also guys who only want a dime when they're just nickels themselves.

[desidoll]

Because not all girls prefer them like how people think. I mean they're not in my first list but I don't mind dating one if I find him to be interesting.

[Anonymous]

Just because white guys are fetishized in a country where they are a minority, it doesn't mean their own women fetishize them as well. I guess the only answer that might satisfy you is "because they haven't saved enough to travel to Asia" hur hur

[MyUsernameRules]

"because they haven't saved enough to travel to Asia"
Hahaha. Probably. Anyways, white women strongly prefer white guys though even though they don't fetishize them. If dating out, they only date black guys or guys of other races who are really light skinned like light skinned Latinos. Asian women go crazy for white guys in Western countries and Latinas too. Even black girls love white guys. Girls of every race are attracted to white guys so I don't understand why it's so hard for some white guys.

[Opinion Owner]

We love guys who are confident in social interactions, especially with strangers. Don't you agree that white, black and Latinos have more confidence compared to Asian guys?

[MyUsernameRules]

They are more confident because girls have always been more responsive to them. Guys can be confident but confidence can die down if girls aren't responsive. It's only human nature. Girls are just way too picky when it comes to a guy's race and skin color. And when it comes to Latinos, the light skinned Latinos success is way higher than the dark skinned Latinos.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess that could be true, but can't you channel the confidence you have from a hobby you're good at? It worked for a Chinese friend. He's married to a blonde blue-eyed Turkish girl now.

[MyUsernameRules]

I'm not East Asian and I never said I was never confident. Confidence isn't enough if you're a guy of a certain race, unless you can compensate your racial disadvantage by being either tall, rich, or buff. And I'm neither so confidence won't do me any good like it never did before. But how tall is your Chinese friend? Is he buff by any chance? Or rich? Just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you honestly think that East Asian guys are more popular than South Asian guys when it comes to girls? He is 5’6 or 5’7, neither rich nor buff. And no, she's not tiny. She's almost the same height.

[MyUsernameRules]

The chances of that happening is as good as winning a million dollar lottery lol. wilkes888. wordpress. com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/ Check out this blog written by an East Asian guy about girls before he committed suicide. He made excellent points about girls and their shallowness regarding a guy's race and skin color.

East Asian guys don't have it better than South Asian guys but don't have it worse either. East Asian guys have more options dating outside their race than South Asian guys but South Asian girls don't put down South Asian guys vocally and choose white guys over them in large numbers like how East Asian girls do to East Asian guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Personal blogs are extremely skewed towards the introverts and unsuccessful. I’m pretty sure my friend doesn’t have a blog and neither do his friends who have girlfriends or wives.
Most minorities date outside their race or ethnicity or whatever you want to call it, when they are a small minority, because there is no pool to choose their partner from. It’s not only what the girls do, but the guys as well, voluntarily.
As for that guy.. He's still alive.. wilkes888.wordpress.com/.../

[MyUsernameRules]

That guy isn't alive. The tweets on his twitter weren't by him but just bots. There was an article I once read that said he jumped from the building. And what he said about certain minorities is very true. Blacks might have an advantage in some cases but girls of all races are very racial. They automatically label decent looking guys of "undesirable" races to be ugly.

[Opinion Owner]

That was a wordpress blog entry, not a tweet. Maybe he survived the jump.
How can you not know it’s not just women who do that. Do you not have many male friends? They automatically label decent looking girls of other races ugly too. There’s only hot (would bang) and ugly (would not bang) in their universe.

[MyUsernameRules]

There are guys who are racially picky, but far less than girls.

[Wellydog1]

Some guys are not confident though, and they hate exercise. Also maybe they don't want to move to Asia.
I'm into foreign guys just as much as white guys

[Mesonfielde]

Staying fit is a hassle and social interactions are confusing and having hobbies is complicated

[MyUsernameRules]

It only requires a little push lol.

[Mesonfielde]

Lots of little pushes so you make it a habit

[cupcakes94]

"Not being a jackass" is sometimes too much to ask for, regardless of race. There will always be some.

[abc3643]

The answer to your question is actually in your question:
"know how to talk to girl"
That is a skill that takes decades to master.

[Ghosted]

race is only one factor in dating, there are many other factors at play. so even a person with a racial advantage isn't guaranteed anythin

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Depends on the white guy. We are not all handsone. We are all our own person. Besides, if there is anyone on top of the heirsrchy its black dudes. They are freaking awesome!

[dominiquois]

I'm non-white and I think white people are vastly overrated.

[MyUsernameRules]

No you don't. I've seen you greatly compliment dozens of white guys here in their how do I look questions but no non white guys. It's not wrong at all of course but if you're highly attracted to them, don't pretend to act like you find them overrated. You might not wanna admit your attraction towards white guys since you're Native American but history is history.

[dominiquois]

That's the stupidest thing I've read all year. I'm just trying to be nice to them.
I think Native American men are FAR more beautiful than white men in my opinion. I'd prefer them every single time. Many Native Americans HATE white people and we usually stick to our own kind. So for you to say that is ignorant and stupid.
You don't get to tell me what I find attractive. The fuck?
Seek professional help you're clearly not mentally stable.

[MyUsernameRules]

Never said you didn't prefer Native Americans over whites. Just don't act like you find white guys to be overrated when it's clearly obvious you're highly attracted to them. Simple as that.

[dominiquois]

I'm not highly attracted to them. I find them to be ok, just "meh" at best. Some are very attractive like in any race but they are not the majority of white men. Even if they were very attractive I prefer Native men.

[ColinHarvey]

Yeah, she Pocahontas, she only dates Elizabeth Warren

[BigJake]

lol Most non-white people do.

[BigJake]

Racial hierarchy lol. Do you people really believe this shit?

[MyUsernameRules]

I don't believe any race is superior to another but when it comes to men and their chances in dating women, there's definitely a racial hierarchy among men.

[BigJake]

No, there's no 'racial hierarchy among men,' as you say. That's only an excuse that socially unsuccessful guys use to make themselves feel better about their lack of success with women.

[MyUsernameRules]

You must be white then, or else you'd know what I'm talking about.

[BigJake]

Yes, I'm white, and I'm also astute enough to differentiate fact from whining. "Racial hierarchies" are figments that live in the imaginations of aggrieved minorities who have deluded themselves into believing that all white people live like minor royalty, that we're all given real estate and a bankroll at birth.

I hate to tell you this, but women of any race have to be persuaded to like a guy. They don't just fall at our feet because our skin pigmentation is different than yours. Either you're one of these jealous dudes who believes that women of your race 'belong' to you, or you're a butthurt guy who can't get laid. The reality is that we all have to work for pussy. Women don't just give it away, at least not any women who are worth having.

[MyUsernameRules]

Yeah, you're white so you'd never know. Never said you guys lived like minor royalty or anything but it's clearly evident white guys are far more preferred by girls of all races than guys of my own race (Indian). Being jealous and wanting an equal opportunity are completely two different things. And some guys have to "work" way harder than others.

[BigJake]

Keep telling yourself that. Keep telling yourself that the world is unfair, that white guys get all the girls, that everyone has it easier than you and see where that gets you. It's sad that you want to believe this, sad for you. You can ultimately believe whatever you want, but just because you believe it doesn't make it true.

If you ever want to actually get girls, here's some advice: get out of your own head and stop acting like a douchebag. Asian guys always complain about white guys, yet when I meet Asian guys, more often than not they exhibit these Napoleonic tendencies to compensate their feeling of being disadvantaged. A good personality will get you laid a lot quicker than good looks, white skin, or great height. So work on your personality and you might have a chance with girls some day.

[MyUsernameRules]

I am South Asian, not East Asian even though I'm in East Asia but there's definitely a racial hierarchy. I am not open to dating anymore but white guys not getting a girl is something I can't understand. Unless they're in a completely white area where there's hierarchy among the white guys for girls to choose, I don't understand how few struggle when they aren't fat, short or aren't only surrounded by white guys. And I know dozens of guys with great personalities who can't attract a girl even if their life depended on it.

[BigJake]

Who cares what type of Asian you are? It doesn't matter! All this 'racial hierarchy' crap is clogging your brain. You've apparently come to imbibe the superiority of the English like a good little South Asian subject. Colonialism is over. Move on. White guys don't have lives that are easier than anyone else's. You don't even understand white guys and what makes us tick, so you shouldn't pretend to.

[bubble_tea]

Asker, you're in East Asia? No wonder you're complaining.

[MyUsernameRules]

@bubble_tea Yes I am and no, I'm not complaining here. I'm just wondering why there are some white guys who struggle with girls. @BigJake Sure, colonialism is over but you've got to be really naive to be girls are attracted to guys of all races equally. You seem to have no clue about their prejudiced generalizations when it comes to guys.

[BigJake]

You seem to have no clue about girls in general, bud. Girls generally prefer to be with guys of their own race and cultural background. That's a fact that's been established by sociological research in academia and in real-world arenas like internet dating sites. Just because you're not getting laid doesn't mean that all Asian girls are dying to be with white guys. I was an engineering student for 5 years, and our department had tons of Indian girls. They'd look at the white guys, but they'd never date us because they were terrified that their parents would disown them if they did.

Grow up, guy. Stop wallowing in pity for yourself, and stop blaming girls with these false postulates about who they prefer to date.

[MyUsernameRules]

This question wasn't even about me. Indian girls to be honest prefer white guys over Indian guys but due to the strict conservative parents, a lot are too scared to. And I never said people didn't prefer their race over another. But in both America and in East Asian countries, East Asian girls seem to highly prefer white guys over East Asian guys. It's just that in East Asia, there are way more East Asian guys since it's East Asia. And if you actually read my profile bio, I've stated that I'm not interested in approaching girls anymore and prefer to be single so I don't care anymore about my getting laid chances. OkCupid did a research on different races and their response statistics and it showed that white guys had the highest response rates by far from girls of all races than guys of other races. South Asian guys were dead last.

[bubble_tea]

Asker, it’s possible that some guys have enough pride to not want to have a girl in his arm who only sees him as an ATM or her green card.
As for girls in East Asia preferring white guys over East Asian guys. You must be hanging out a 'gaijin hunter' bars and clubs to see this phenomena. In all other places, they like to stick to their own, guys who can actually speak their language and share the same cultural values and wants to stay in their country. In those 'gaijin hunter bars' white people are indeed preferred over black people or South Asian people, because they want a green card to western countries, not Africa or South Asia. (Their population is so homogenous, they can’t fathom that an Indian looking person could actually be from the UK.)

[bubble_tea]

Also, you can’t tell me you have never seen whitening creams in department stores if you’ve lived there for years. It’s actually harder to find a non-whitening body lotion over there than whitening body lotions. Given that scenario, do you really wonder why South Asians and blacks are not seen as the crème de la crème to East Asians?
The true order for non-gaijin hunters is light-skinned East Asian > dark-skinned East Asians > people speaking their language at C2 level > at C1 level > ... > B1 level > people not speaking their language at all.

[Phoenix98]

Um ok? lol were there a lot of white guys complaining or something?

[MyUsernameRules]

Not a lot but there are some white guys on here who've never been with girls and not by choice either so it puzzles me why.

[Phoenix98]

Well you shouldn't make accusations or judge you never know what factors may be at play regarding them.

[epiper888]

being white doesn't give you everything... even if your physically attractive it doesn't mean girls will be at your beckoning call.

[BangBadBxtches]

Asian girls will.

[epiper888]

@BangBadBxtches well those are Asian girls. Not all white guys are good looking.

[Anonymous]

Well if your a white guy looking for a white woman, i think its white a disappointment that Mexicans are taking them all, nice looking women too, shut isn't right

[MyUsernameRules]

I'm not white and Mexicans aren't taking them all. Majority of white girls prefer white guys and last I checked, the most common interracial relationships were white male/Asian female and black male/white female.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I've seen it quite a bit lately

[MyUsernameRules]

If anyone should complain, it's East Asian guys cause East Asian girls prefer white guys over them and most don't get any love from non East Asian girls in return.

[Anonymous]

Because white people can be ugly too...
https://i.imgur.com/Lq8OxHE.jpg

[Intraluminal]

All the girls are must in so much awe of us that they're afraid to go out with us.

[Anonymous]

"All you have to do is be confident"

There in lies the problem. That and girls are stuck in 18th century mindset that girls should never ever approach and initiate a conversation with a guy first

[Smells-like-lavender]

not just white guys but the end sentence applies to all guys...

[MyUsernameRules]

Not really. What racr are you?

[MyUsernameRules]

Race

[Smells-like-lavender]

not important. every guy can relate to the last sentence you wrote.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol not every guy. If that applied to all, there would be girls on here saying that.

[Smells-like-lavender]

I dont know man, thats what I think.

[MyUsernameRules]

Exactly. You don't know lol. A lot of guys are mistaken about the last part thinking it applies to all guys when it really doesn't.

[itsallover]

*Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*

[MyUsernameRules]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

You're going to have a tough time in life with that attitude.

[MyUsernameRules]

What attitude? And I didn't believe whites were at the top of the racial hierarchy till just few years back.

[Anonymous]

wtf is with the racist posts. to answer your question they have no game, are too much in their heads, and suffered too much negative feedback... .

[lumos]

😷😷😷 this question.

[ConsultantIsBack]

There's alphas n betas in every race hue hue hue

[Mistnigqa808]

#BetaBitchingMist checking in <3

[ConsultantIsBack]

@Mistnigqa808 ohh breh policee, u alpha n u know it 😘
Lettuce be cereal, you are one handsome ma fucker.

[verticallyinsecure2]

I thought you were done with all this

[verticallyinsecure2]

And ugly is ugly, handsome is handsome irrespective of race

[MyUsernameRules]

Yup, but still wondering why there are white guys on here who have girl problems. There are quiet a few 20+ virgin white guys on this site and it puzzles me.

[verticallyinsecure2]

I would rather worry about my own virginity than others' lol

[MyUsernameRules]

You have no idea how many gorgeous non white girls go for average looking white guys. Even white guys who are below average.

[verticallyinsecure2]

Not really, some are dumb, the ones in delhi are equally repulsed by unattractive guys of all racea

[AmericanPoet]

bigoted much?

[MyUsernameRules]

No? Girls of all races prefer white guys way more than guys of any other races. Other guys usually have to compensate.

[Anonymous]

Because that's not the case lol.

[MyUsernameRules]

What's not the case?

[Sad_Onion]

nice b8 m8...

[Anonymous]

It depends on the girl

[Anonymous]

I'm a Caucasian

[MyUsernameRules]

And?

[Opinion Owner]

Just putting that out there.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol okay. Congrats.

[BangBadBxtches]

You won.