What is life like being tall, handsome and rich guy?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well I'm definitely not rich by American standards but I can check the boxes for tall and handsome. I'm not really the tallest or most handsome guy but that's somewhere to start. I'm also debt free as of now which in Americas economy is kinda nice. So pretty much yeah it's a decent life. I can reach most things in stores and around people's houses. Sometimes ceiling fans scare me. People ask me to model sometimes but almost always come off as untrustworthy creepers. Girls make flirty faces at me and occasionally get brave enough to start a conversation with me while they're drunk but often still can't keep it together long enough to take it anywhere. But I mean I've still been pretty single my whole life. Having looks only takes you so far. Hugs are pretty great. Especially when a girls head is like the perfect height for your chin to rest on it. Shower sex is a nightmare. Really any kind of sex standing up is a nightmare. Sometimes if a girls too short you kind of just completely cover her in missionary. Good pants are really hard to find. People assume the weirdest shit about you because your tall. Doesn't help that I'm also black but still suck at basketball. No one ever believes me until after their team loses. But I mean it's not much different from anyone else's life. I'm still gonna die. Still gotta work a boring job. Still gotta poop and eat. Ya know normal life shit.

[Tarvold]

Extremely exhausting and frustrating.

Exhausting is self explanatory.

It's frustrating because you learn so much more about women than your other guy mates, and you can see what they're doing wrong, but they just won't listen or believe you when you tell them what works.

[Bandit74]

But would the tips you tell them really work as well if they are not tall, rich, and attractive?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 Yeah. It would.

[Bandit74]

What tips do you give that they dont believe?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 That money and looks have nothing to do with it. hahaha. Height matters a little, but it's not too big a deal if you've got your shit together.

[Asker]

I lack in the look and height department and it seems I am only attracting people who only care about my money. They are always trying find a way to get their hands on my money.

[Tarvold]

See, your mistake is that you underestimate women.

If you think about it, the whole process of attraction is just a human marketing exercise. You want to attract a girl, you have to present and highlight your attributes that she would be most interested in. So, when you put so much emphasis on height, looks and money, you are essentially saying that women are shallow gold diggers.

They're not.

Women are, afterall humans, and humans seek more in their life than just superficial shit. We all seek a connection with people who understand us, we all seek happiness, and fun, and laughter and adventure. These are basic values that everyone looks for, and yet, they have nothing to do with looks, height and money.

If you want a shortcut to dating women, it's much more effective to be funny than it is to be tall/rich/handsome. But the long answer is that you need to give women more credit than just assuming they're all superficial gold diggers.

[9mfeo]

As soon as I'm reincarnated as one, I'll be sure to let you know.

[This_is_my_username]

I will tell you when i turn into a dude and get $$$$

[Haraklus]

I'm tall and pretty well-off. Maybe rich by some people's definitions (make between 250k and 500k a year). Not super handsome, but not bad-looking, and in very good shape.

It's a positive thing, of course. A lot of it just gets taken for granted, though.

Something that I think a lot of people don't realize is that if you 'have it all', you have to be really nice to not come across as a jerk. I'm not super nice on GaG (because I'm a bit tired of forcing myself to be all the time), but in real life I am very kind and warm towards people. 'Negging' is NOT a good idea if the person you're interested in is already kind of intimidated by you.

Being rich vs not rich (I grew up quite poor) doesn't make a huge day to day difference in how people treat you unless you're paying them. In which case, they tend to treat you well roughly in proportion to how much you pay them. Being rich opens a lot of doors, though -- you get access to nice places/things much easier. Often for free, even. I have a high enough balance with a major international bank, for instance, that there are a few airport lounges that let me in for free if I flash my debit card. But these lounges are nowhere near as good as, say, Delta lounges.

It's also nice no longer having to worry about the day to day expenses of my life. I genuinely just don't pay attention to what things cost at the grocery store. I focus pretty much exclusively on nutrition and general food quality.

I could, hypothetically, fly to a different US city and stay in a hotel and party every weekend. It would be a waste of money, time, and energy, but knowing that I basically have the freedom to do just about whatever I want whenever I want without money being much of an obstacle is pretty nice.

Women tend to like me, of course. They liked me when I was poorer, younger and a bit better looking, but now that I'm older and wealthier, dating was... pretty much easy mode. A rather beautiful young woman who identified as gay once texted me and ask me what they would have to do to get together with me (not in those exact words), women were mostly content with the idea of one-way exclusivity, and once I got women on dates it was pretty much guaranteed they would like me. About 90% of my first dates wanted second and third dates. Even some that said they didn't at first would often text me again a few days later and ask when we're meeting up.

I'm now in a monogamous relationship and quite happy, but I'm even wealthier and fitter now, so I can't imagine it would be worse...

That said, you also have a lot of the same old problems. Mental health is still something you have to stay on top of. Same with physical health. Back when I was dating, I still had to deal with a looot of weird expectations from women, and getting matches on dating sites was not something that just fell from the sky. Your relatives and friends still get old, get sick, and die. You still worry about the future. Global warming is going to hit me just as hard as it will everybody else who lives in the same area. American politics still scare the shit out of me. And I still find it hard to keep in touch with friends as I grow older.

Still, given the chance, I'd definitely recommend it.

[FemWorship]

At first, it seems great that gals say yes, dates are fun & unlimited in venue and what to do, top of the world.
Then the competition begins to hack away with lies & gossip in order to share what you've been given until politics drives you down to their level of limited prospects in their little pond.
My advice is to find a gal and friends that won't believe the crap to come and stay true to them, make a life centered on good people and thus never have to driven out of that nice world.
Be a saint to others is your payback for these blessings.

[Anonymous]

You just concentrate on other problems. It's like Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Ultimately you either try to become richer or more accomplished or you become philosophical and start to wonder what life is really all about.

[loveskittens]

The life of the top 1% is pretty much what you see in the media when they talk about living the dream. I'm sure it's not as amazing as you'd imagin it but it must be nice right!

[Anonymous]

Dunno but it feels good to be short, ugly and poor.

[Klara-Hitler]

I don't know. you should ask my boyfriend.

[Levin]

he has it all eh ;)

[Klara-Hitler]

@Levin normal perks of being a Swedish Jew. ;)

[ColinHarvey]

^^ comedy gold, you just can't write that shit.

[Bandit74]

I imagine it's like an all you can fuck buffet.

[Anonymous]

having all the girl you want

[Asker]

All I need is one haha

[Anonymous]

the American dream lol.

[Prince_teddy4u]

Dream.

[ZaraXOX]

bliss.

[Anonymous]

nooooo