I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. A little background, he lives 30 minutes away from me and he doesn't have a car so I'm basically the one driving back and forth. It's frustrating not going to lie. At first it was cool but after constantly driving back and forth I'm annoyed. Which makes it hard for us to hangout because I work in the mornings then go to the gym at night which leaves no time to go and hangout with him. I like having my own lifestyle and doing my own thing but my boyfriend seems to get upset and whenever we don't see eachother he texts me he feels "lost" without me and that he misses me a lot. It kinda scares me that he feels lost without me meaning he's waaaaaay too dependent on me and it scares me even more if one day I break up with him he's going to be a mess. What should I do? HELP ME. any advice would be helpful!
Most Helpful Guy
People are saying dump him and leave him, which isn't really good advice. I see two things right now, which make your boyfriend dependent on you.
1. He seems free, doesn't have a job, or other hobbies.
2. You are busy and have a hobby like the gym, therefore you don't need him to be by your side all the time.
Maybe ask him to go job searching? Or maybe he can go to the gym. The gym is my outlet for stress from working and school. If he gets busy or consumed with anything else, he'll be less reliant on you0
Most Helpful Girl
Doesn't he bike? Tell him to ride a really good bike1