DO you like girl next door look (girly), or soft grunge look?
Are you more attracted to the soft goth look or girl next door look?
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Girl next door for sure. If anyone looks at me they would assume the "soft goth look" (skater, punk band, etc) but it comes down to one thing. Whenever anyone is creating a look instead they are trying to project an identity and it makes me feel that they are not relying on their personality for their self-identity. Its almost like being lazy in my view as your identity is between your ears, in your mind, not your clothes or makeup and if a girl (of a guy) isn't overtly projecting a self identity and more ambiguous, then I interpret it as them being more mysterious and grounded and confident
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I really like your comment xD SOO true a lot of girls think that the goth look is what skate rocker guys automatically like, and do not consider personality at all!
Thanks. I would pick the girl in the photo #1 and #3. The problem with creating a style like goth is you are basically saying "I am mysterious, nobody understands me because im complex and therefore interverted, I hate my dad too" and guys are thinkng, "ok, I know she wants to lure me in and isolate us, but then I will hAve to listen to her complain lots but we will watch lots of vampire movies and get blow jobs in the process" - that's what they think
It's way more cool to just be active and just be yourself, if you are comfortable and not trying to project anything in particular, and don't take any shit from guys, guys like a girl who is a bit spicy and not intimidated, and doesn't care if they are attracted or not; that will make you the sexiness girl of all
I like a bit of edginess, I ride a motorcycle and a typical boy, like cars and bikes and music and I love it when a girl knows the music and a bit tomboyish with a sense of humor who doesn't take their look too seriously. A nice fitted jeans and boots, you can wear all sort of tops and sweaters can be so cute and hot, like pea coats and scarfs like In Europe... I admit eyeliner is hot and like the braids. I'm half Swedish , Maybe that is why lol
Sorry for not being specific, dear Miss. I think you pull-off each look you have represented here. Sure, I favor a particular nature of appearance that I'm mostly attracted to. However, my instinctual allurements recognize no parameters. A graceful, delicate beauty can be appreciated as much as a stone-cold sexuality. It's all about the... mood... a look imbues. We're feeling creatures, capable of many moods. That you can "become" many moods too, is a remarkably appealing facet!
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I find myself appreciating a wide range of beauty as well. Even so, it is odd how people criticize those who appreciate the factor of beauty and style. I feel like its about balance because I believe humans naturally are attracted to beauty as well as gaining a emotional attachment from personality.
Well-put, my Lady! Our emotions originate from perhaps the most primitive provinces of our Brain. The same home as where our instincts dwell. It seems we are slowly being weaned of these intuitions. Some, more than others. As our distancing from the Natural World increases, the reliance on our aboriginal attributes decreases. It appears you also savor still being in possession of what may be characterized as our more "primitive" side. Thank goodness! I believe we retain a scope of perspective and depth of passion that will eventually die-out from what it means to be Human.
Though you have no reason to believe me, I'm not a lecherous, misogynist "old Guy" salivating over pretty girl pictures. I just appreciate beauty and the character that incarnates it. Hence... The Instagram images? Absolutely astonishing, Mahaf'!
They're both fine, I have a preference for the soft goth (or grunge) look, but it also can come off as immature, depends on the person. The more important thing to me is that extremely light / pastel colors and overly-feminine styles are actually somewhat of a turn off.
I like both, I don't have a preference. A lot of the time Goth girls have really white, porcelain skin with I find really beautiful and sexy. Many have piercings and tattoos those. I find Goth really sexy if the girl is still all natural and doesn't have piercings and tattoos.
I like girl next door because its laid back and comes off the most natural. I like soft grunge to when you just wanna look cool but a girl next door with a killer down to earth personality... day dreaming now haha
I prefer the girl next door look because I know that it won't change over time. For the soft grunge look that is not really you and you have to keep it up.
Girl next door look is the one to choose. Anything grunge seems to always be hiding something. A girl being herself is very attractive. Grunge is finding out later on who they are. It is not feminine in my opinion but seems a little dark.
Id have to say honesty and authenticity are traits I hold at the highest esteem. Just down to earth. Apparently I'm picky and these maybe harder to come by then I imagined.
I'm slightly favoring grunge but all of them are good enough to where I would happily go down on them for hours until my tongue was so fatigued I couldn't eat or swallow for a week.
The girl next door look, seems like more a casual look and the soft goth more like a go out outfit. I personally think the girl next door more appealing
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