Would you date a refugee?

[Anonymous]

When i say refugee i mean people who lives in the city but they just had to move to another country to seek safety.
Please be honest when you answer
I'm doing this for a research.

Yes

No

Maybe

Other

[Anonymous]

No because my first thought would be he's using me, so he can gain from my resources. He's probably come from a war torn country and left with only a few belongings. I wouldn't trust his motives. He's probably just wanting to use me for financial stability and a decent roof over his head. I don't date foreign guys. I've never met a decent one yet. So I can it speak from my own experiences. If he's a refugee then it's a deal breaker for me.

He'll already be benefiting from my tax so he'll get nothing nothing else from me. I've know a few girls who've hooked up with refugee, they all have the same opinion

I put refugees on the same Parr as goldigger women

[MissMurphy]

It wouldn't be a deal breaker for me at all, in and of itself, just another way for someone to have a colorful past.

The problem for me, if I'm being completely honest, would be language or cultural barriers. I try to be open, but there are belief systems out there I couldn't tolerate strong adherence to in a partner. And communication can be hard enough as is, I feel bad for this one, but trying to understand even someone who has a good grasp of English through a thick accent can be tiring.

If neither of those things are a problem, sure I'd date a refugee.

[Anonymous]

I would be hesitant to because what if they had another life in the other country they were from (kids or a wife I didn't know about) and they eventually wanted to move back leaving me alone after they used me.

There's also how you don't know if they're just marrying you to be a citizen. I'd rather marry someone who's completely in love with me compared to someone who only likes me and is using me.

[Asker]

C'mon you can easily figure out if they had a family

[Opinion Owner]

Not really actually. I live in florida, many immigrants. This one friend of the family moved here 10 years ago, and remarried to someone we knew. Their entire relationship he was sending money to his home country to support his kids and wife. She didn't find out until his kids showed up in the country.

[Opinion Owner]

It wasn't hard to fool her considering he worked in a job with no steady paycheck, so it was more difficult to keep track of the money.

You seem uninformed on what happens with immigration and how people actually act. Believe me, when you live in florida or Texas your entire life you see all sorts of things dealing with immigrants.

[ElissaDido]

Absolutely. Especially if he's Syrian. Syrian men are ones of my all time favorite.

[Asker]

Ana mn soria lol, where u from?

[ElissaDido]

Ana men Tounes, enta laje2 fen?

[Asker]

Barcha 7elow 😆 Ana male laje2 haha.. 3aesh w bdrs b Canada :))
Ante saknee fi Tunis now?

[ElissaDido]

Haha!! :P
Kenet 3ayech b Canada men Zamen? Aw ba3ed el 7arb?
La 3am bedross bi Faransa :))

[Asker]

La2 b3d al7arb, bs 9rt citizen 😈😂
Wow kteeer nice!! Lazem t3mle zera l3na hoon u will like it!😄

[ElissaDido]

Eh Nshallah! Kenet 3aysha bel Sa3oudiya w fi ktir Souryin Hounik this is why I like you guys haha! You're generally honorable and traditional :)

[Asker]

Btnori wallah :))
Really! That's so cool I actually never met a Tunisian before but I'm sure you guys share the same values.
I met Moroccans, lybians, Algerians but Tunisians you are the first one 😀😇

[ElissaDido]

We hardly ever immigrate outside of France :p

[Asker]

Haha
whats the reason tho?

[ElissaDido]

I don't know haha we're not as adventurous :p

[Asker]

We need more immigrants here haha. You guys speak French it's a big bonus

[ElissaDido]

Haha I might move there someday, but it's too cold!!!

[Asker]

We have the right equipment 😉
All geared up for winter
Check "the north face"

[ElissaDido]

Haha!
What are you studying?
I have tons of Syrian friends and I noticed Syrian guys are into dentistry and engineering.

[Asker]

I'm studying SOT
Yeah it's popular but not among my interest haha.
Wbu?

[ElissaDido]

Law :)

[Asker]

😱 I studied that then I dropped it

[ElissaDido]

Haha I studied Medicine then dropped out, and changed to law haha!
Men wen men Sourya? Most of my friends were from Hama and Homs ^_^

[Asker]

Oh lol!
Mn Damascus :) sheee marah ajete 3la soria?

[ElissaDido]

La wala marra :(
Ya ret!
Kenet ktir b7eb "Bab El Hara" Haha!!!
Nshallah once the war is over I will <3 ANd Inshallah it will be like before and better <3

[Asker]

Inshallah
Haha yeah everyone tells me that bab Al Hara 😂
First Canada tho 💁🏼‍♂️

[ElissaDido]

Mo3taz <3 Haha, every Arab girl's crush xD

[Asker]

lol really? Never knew that
I only know that name from bab alhara😂

[ElissaDido]

Haha it became bad lately , was much better the first 3 seasons!

[Asker]

I only watched the first series and it was the best. The rest was crap in my opinion lol

[ElissaDido]

3ala fekra, allah y3inkon m3a hadol al 2aghbya elli mfakrinkom "uncivilized" wlak wala wa7ed fihom biyousal la nos Roujoulatkom!
Allah yeb3atlon 7emme as you guys say haha! :P

[Asker]

Haha shukran kteeer <3 u r so cute!!
Lmao that's such a great line.. i sent you a following request you are cool!

[ElissaDido]

Haha merciiii ^__^
What letter does your username start with?

[Asker]

It starts with J

[ElissaDido]

OH wow you're actually an old member, haven't seen you around before ^__^
Tsharfna!!

[Asker]

Yep i am haha
I've seen you couple of times around :)
Tshrft bm3rfteek ^^

[BoySittingOnTheMoon]

Why not only if there is no language barrier. I know a family refugee who moved to South east, Turkey for safety, they are now living in my uncle's home. I saw a girl who is so naturally beautiful. Her sweet eyes, her sweet smile and her skin shines like a moon. 3 of my family member suggests me to marry her but I refuse because I don't think it will work out since I live in UK and still studying. I just don't know.

[Anonymous]

it depend on the situation , it wouldn't be an ideal relationship in the sense and would always be concerns they were just looking to marry a citizen so they could stay in the country longer

[Asker]

It's not a big of problem if they wanted to become a citizen?
I don't think anyone would marry someone they don't like just for citizenship.

[juniorsrosie]

Believe me, they would. Some other countries are bad enough people will marry whoever will take them to stay in the country.

[Opinion Owner]

I live in Canada and have definitely heard of stories where someone married just for citizenship or to get more established in the country

[Asker]

I live in Canada too and Canada is a country built by immigrants no?

[likitb4istickit]

Sure, if they are hot. Why would refugee status matter? Good grief, I miss the days when only upbringing, looks, personality, things in common, and income mattered (not necessarily in order of importance).

[DanoM1]

As long as she is not 100% religious and knows English, yes. Why not? There's a really interesting story behind that person!

[wankiam]

yeah if we gelled... why not. we all have a story to tell

[Casstiel]

Well if she have crush on me yeah why not? I mean Im a humanist I can date with any person who is really kind and sexy.

[fauchelevent]

As long as there wasn't a language barrier and we share the same core beliefs, I don't think there'd be a problem.

[robertdaboss45]

I've had one-night-stands with refugees (especially from southeast Asia) out of boredom, but I'll never marry one.

All they want is my money. It's so easy, just wave your money, bait them, fuck them, then kick them out.

[Imafreespirit]

If there's not a language and religious barrier, can't see why not

[TuMeManques]

Yes if I we didn't have a huge language/religious difference.

[Asker]

Cool!

[redxiii74]

They probably have more concerns THAN dating (eye roll)

[Absolute_Revenge]

A refugee woman, yes... provided she ain't into that terrorism shit!

[Anonymous]

Nope, I'd never date a refugee. In fact, I wouldn't even date a person from a different state.

[AleDeEurope]

Depends on their religion and their culture.

[Asker]

What if her family is religious but she is not

[AleDeEurope]

As long as she isn't influenced by her family and her family doesn't try to kill me, I don't care.

[but_Why]

totally, I almost married one 2 years ago

[Asker]

Where he is from?

[but_Why]

Syrian, why?

[Asker]

7elo :)

[but_Why]

akeed :p

[but_Why]

please don't be him xD

[Asker]

La2 I'm not him, bss ana mn soria kaman lol

[but_Why]

I see

[Asker]

How :o

[alice55]

No, i wouldn't. I prefer guys from my own country.

[Asker]

Hmm its boring

[alice55]

It's easier plus refugee always change of place. They stay like 1 or 2 week in a city and change so.

[Blitzkrieger]

If a refugee has time to date its not a refugee.

[godking]

would you date an immigrant?

[Asker]

Yeah if i am attracted to her why not

[SuicidalTeen]

It all depends on the person

[Adigelunar]

yeah why not

[Omar5881]

Yeah I would

[Phoenix98]

no I wouldn't.

[JCT666]

Most likely not.

[Asker]

Why not

[Anonymous]

It's white genocide