Would you date someone from a different cultural background?

[Itsmeirem]

Would you date someone from different culture in terms of political view, social class or different race / nationality?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would consider ethnic or aesthetic cultural differences but not behavioural or moral cultural differences.

I also want a guy who operates in the same range of low risk behaviours as me. If he wants to do missionary work in dangerous countries where I risk getting mistreated by robbers, I will not date him. If he likes motorcycles or flying helicopters, I will not date him, those are risky hobbies. If he refuses to try sushi, I will not date him unless he has a religious or genetic reason for not eating it. I want a guy in my spectrum of risk, neither too high, nor too low.

[Anonymous]

Political view. No, that’s just a recipe for problems especially how women can get emotionally. Yes men can too, but women tend to operate more on emotions.

Different race/nationality. Yes. I have been w someone for the last 15 years who is Hispanic

Social class. Yes, assuming I’m the one who is making more. I say this only because most women aren’t going to date a man of lower class as far as how much money he makes. Usually women want a man who makes as much as them or more. So more than likely it wouldn’t work out. Plus when women get money, power, they tend to be vindictive. Men tend to look at it as being able to provide more for a their family or starting a family.

[ArrowheadSW]

Some people like someone with different political views. They like the discussion. Social class is a tough one. Different social classes view things differently enough to where I think it could create issues in a long term relationship. There might be vast differences in how they think children should be raised, etc. Race and nationality is fine I think, as long as you share similar values.

[Levin]

She would have to be from a similar culture to me. And I'm most physically attracted to white women. European, American, Australian etc.

Some cultures just don't mix ie it would be impossible to date a Muslim Pakistani woman, for obvious reasons.

But I would date on some occasions outside of that, ie southeast Asian.

[hanabunny]

Yes I would I have dated guys from different races and cultures than me, in varying economic situations, and with varying political views. I respect people’s differences and choose not to see it as something that will cause problems, but rather what makes us unique as humans.

[Account]

Would you date someone from different culture in terms of political view?
No.
Social class?
No. I wouldn't date someone who is well-off for multiple reasons.
Different race / nationality?
Yes, I would.

[OlderAndWiser]

On April 27, I married a Chinese woman. Do I need to say more?

[UnicornLobotomy]

No. I assume you are a Uyghur

[OlderAndWiser]

@UnicornLobotomy I am a standard issue Caucasian American male.

[UnicornLobotomy]

Im above average 😉 but probably what the jewish mystery cabal calls a narcissist, cauccasion, male, from a protostant family in the business of agriculture, not a soy boy but a goy boy

[Avicenna]

@UnicornLobotomy: You really should get treatment for your anti-Semitism

[UnicornLobotomy]

@Avicenna I don’t hate jews, Im just a goy boy that grows soy oi! I love Israel. I just strongly dislike banksters and weird groomer chomo type propaganda in entertainment. And I enjoy messing around, I make funnof American white rednecks all of the time, when I’m not making more cousins with my cousins, 😘😉

[Rosexøxø]

Yes and I have sought other cultures men before. Like 95% were considered foreign to me, and the other 05% were native to my country.

[Rosexøxø]

Literally talked to guys of various incomes and occupations.

Doctors/ Engineers/ Nurses/ Accountants/ IT specialists/ athletic-sports professionals/ legal specialists/ mental health and emergency responders/ gamers/ and non traditional jobs as well. 👍

As of now
I’m engaged to someone from another country. Nothing wrong with biracial couples/partnerships.

[dudegreat91]

What is your nationality and race?

[Rosexøxø]

@dudegreat91 I don’t like to talk about such things. I leave it at I’ve talked to people all over and I’m engaged to someone not from my country. Even if I did like to talk about it, I wouldn’t share such info on here. Apologies 👍

[dudegreat91]

Okay cool

[dudegreat91]

I was asking cause if you're from US I've found that country to be hostile towards males of other nationalities and culture. So I was thinking about how you manoeuvre your relationship in such an environment. Especially in recent times when the country so much more hostile towards the world at large.

[Rosexøxø]

@dudegreat91 yeah USA but I hate everyone’s racial hostility. Even the other day I spoke plainly about say a black person I didn’t like and some of the words I spoke (he was big on the black panthers but he’s not USA origin), he said I sounded like a colonizer but didn’t offend him. And I then said you know what I’ll never say anything again because as what I am (definitely not British descended and my elders were immigrants) I am not related to nor ever was a colonizer. I’ve been called racist by my own sister who is also sensitive for a particular culture of ours she embraces more. I’ve had family call me certain things in humor. I AM mixed. So to hear them hate on one part of me was confusing. I talked to anybody and could not care less who and what they are and I think anyone being proud of their culture is a bit (lame to me). Just be yourself is my idea of it. I’ve talked to Pakistani guys and they’d be like “you don’t hate that I’m from here?” And I’d be like “no?” I know of some crazy history stuff but I just treat everyone with respect and if I need reason to hold concern or defend something then I do that as I see fit.

Racial stuff tires the crap out of me.

I hate the sense of righteousness people have and how they try to justify and have their own biases and they judge and exclude and this and that and the LABELS it’s all so annoying.

I wish everyone would give it a rest and smell the grass and see the sunlight at some point.

I get this seems maybe indirect and excessive but this is exactly why I cannot talk more on it. I’ll just monologue and rant and then need to detach from it. Everyone who talks about race sickens me. Just live your lives and leave others alone. Let them be what they wish 🤦‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

With the earlier mention I just meant I should be able to dislike anybody and not have problems. I’ve complained about all kinds of people but my identity shouldn’t mean I- oh no! Can’t talk about them! Cause if it’s bad stuff I’m a racist! 🤦‍♀️

No I just hate stupid people and dead inside cruel people.

All cultures and people can be evil and I hate the evil I see in them.

No previous oppressions from their slayers and colonizers could keep me away from feeling those things.

If someone does wrong by me or in general I hate them. Nuff said about the type of person I am. 💯

[dudegreat91]

Okay thanks for detailed response

[AviatorTom]

I have, and it's a great experience to learn about people different from me.

[Jane1964]

It really depends for me. I get the diversity with the question, and it is a very good question by the way, just for my part different cultural background is not important if we are compatible with each other and such.

I suppose mostly the most compatibility are usually from similar backgrounds but that is not at all true always, so many other things come into play. I have, before settling into my relationship, been involved with outside of my race and class and religion. The only horrible experience was when I dated from a different economic class but there again, could have just been a bad choice of partner.

[JSkye]

100% I would (and have). I find differences between cultures fascinating and I love learning about them through someone I care about.

That being said, I would have a difficult time being with someone whose political views were drastically different from mine. I don't mean a little different, I mean a LOT different. I can compromise and respectfully disagree on politics (and can find the challenge exciting), but too far away from mine becomes a turn off because then they are against my basic set of morals upon which I have built my life.

[Puppystarfish23]

It's a really hard question for as someone who's dated a Jehovah's witness and a Muslim before marrying my now white British husband who's had a pretty similar life to myself.

Both relationships were secret and short lived due to the fact we just couldn't see are relationships working due to different believes and how are families and friends would react.

Obviously if you love someone and you feel it's worth fighting for then go for it

[Skinhead-1979]

Yep, no question about it... I feel drawn to Black Culture, Music and History, so I really wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a Black Beauty.
Asian women are also very interesting... Chinese women specifically (I am also drawn to Chinese Culture and History).

[soe11]

• Yes ofcourse.
• I got already my girlfriend from different race, culture, nationality.
• I don't believe in class system.
• My girlfriend does not believe in culture and customs.
• She is ultra libral and believe in nature and freedom.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Since I date to marry, I am looking at this from that view…

I would, but we have to have the same morals, as well as values. Him and I also have agree on certain things in regard to how we will raise our children etc.

[RyanR03]

I have numerous times. I’m white

I’ve dated white , black, Asian, many Hispanics. I was engaged to a black women ( go forward).
Married a white woman (divorced). Now 8 years later I am engaged to a lovely Hispanic woman (set to marry next summer)

[LiamJHayden]

1. Political view? Yes, unless she is a fascist, commie, other totalitarian/authoritarian, or racist.
2. Social class? Yes. I do not care how much or how little she has or earns.
3. Race? Yes. I do not care about the traits she inherited from her parents. I care about the type of person she is.
4. Nationality? Yes. There are governments I do not like, but the people are fine.

[Ladsin2]

Culture? Sure if I could find my fiery red-headed Gaelic goddess. I could bring her to America.

Social Class? Don't care. Her money doesn't interest me.

Political View? I presume she'll be more liberal than me. I'll make her more conservative and she vice-versa.

Race? Not likely. There are certain races that I can certainly say wouldn't work. There are some that would be possible.

[HawkPerception]

Although I have my preferences, race doesn't really matter to me all that much. If I'm highly compatible with the girl and find her physically attractive, I don't see what would stop me from dating her.

[oppai1]

Yup, I already have dated people a lot different from me whether it's views or culture or whatever it may be. I'm not super judgmental and I like to stay open-minded.

[dudegreat91]

That's a good mindset to have

[oppai1]

@dudegreat91 Thanks!

[Metalbarbie]

Date sure. Anything further such as marriage they would need to respect and understand each other cultures. If they speak another language they would need to learn that language as well to the best of their ability.

[paledreams]

I'd rather stick to local Australian women personally who, like me, have always been here - as it seems like, it just seems like myself as a pale guy - seems to catch the eyes of pale women 😅😄

[sawno]

Background sure, but we do need to be on the same page or become on the same page because otherwise I don't see us being a functiinal couple.

[DannyUk2017]

I want a family oriented woman, an Asian/muslim... as the most european women these days they just "chase" wealth...🤦‍♂️

[Nikki1989]

Date?

I married one.

[itsannalee]

Yes why not, most of my ex are from another country, and different races.

[andre-48]

Would you date an Australian guy

[itsannalee]

Yes why not, there are a lot Aussie in my country.

[andre-48]

I've never dated an Asian lady before 🙈

[itsannalee]

There are a lot Asian in Australia.

[dudegreat91]

Which country and race are you? Which country and race have you dated?

[itsannalee]

@dudegreat91 i’m Indonesian, i dated 1 Indonesian when i was teen, and my others like white, latin, black, Arab.

[dudegreat91]

I see thanks for your response

[EmmaMary]

@Itsmeirem

Never Say Never!

[bobby_bush_eater]

All of that is generally irrelevant to me if I am attracted to her and we can communicate in a common language or the native tongue of where I'm living.

[FarmBoy13]

Social class, race, nationality and things like that yes absolutely.

Political views and Religion are the two that tend to be difficult. Especially when those views are more extreme

[exitseven]

I would date somebody from a different bakground but marriage might be out of the queston.

[Staximus]

I live in Southern California, pretty much everybody is from a different cultural background here

[PatKirby]

I have (different race and country) and we hit it off right away.

[genericname85]

i mean if our basic morals and values were compatible, i guess that's not an issue.

[gangster123]

Doesn’t matter, as long as I feel good about the person

[Crazzyyworld]

I like to look at white guys because they look so good but relationship is different thing. I don’t really know what I am getting into. Some white guys are friendly and nice.

[DishLady]

Sure, why not?

[clampfan101]

Politics I’m not sure about. Everything else yes. The main question is if they’re Christian.

[bannacookies]

No. I struggle enough with my own culture. I can't handle another.

[KostasKouvalis]

I would. I think that would be really cool and interesting.

[msc545]

I have done this and for the most part it was never a problem.

[dudegreat91]

Yeah, majority of times I've had interracial and international relationships

[dudegreat91]

Although the only exception is I tend to avoid muslim girls

[nawtee_me]

I have no problem with any of that when it comes to dating….

[luvstoned4him]

I would if the love was there..

[avery58]

Yeah. I don't care about any of that.

[Abdulwahh]

Yep id take a hispanic, white or arab if they pretty why not.

[Anonymous]

Would you date someone from different culture in terms of political view?
No.

Social class?
yes. Depends on their faith.

Different race / nationality?
Yes, I would.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I did and I would. Again. 🙈❤️

[anon1903]

If there's no other problem, sure

[purplepoppy]

No it wouldn't work out

[UnicornLobotomy]

Almost exclusively, my entire adult life.

[Phoenix98]

Been there done that.

[FunkyMonkee]

been there, done that!

[handsomelad70]

Yes, if she were hot.

[4ngelic]

yes to all

[Enes38]

I think love can overcome any obstacle

[MrGSpotHer]

Yes I wouldn't be botherd...

[MoroccanPrincess]

Yes I would

[Anonymous]

If she's hot, nice and fun I'm in.

[daniel564]

Yes of course, but depends on the cultural policy.

[NathanDavis]

I have

[snowboarder720]

I put a ring on it.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. I would.

[Ms_Facesitter]

100%!

[Unit1]

Yes.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes….

[12karen]

yes, it'd def would

[12karen]

as long as they are Christian, it's okay for me