i just recently realized that a guys hands are one of the first things I look at. I find longer fingers and bigger hands attractive for some reason? Anybody else like this too or am I weird?
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No you're weird
They're alright- not the first thing I look at
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Do you think long fingers/big hands are attractive?
You are not weird. From my perspective and experience, what you’re feeling and find attractive is pretty common for a female. In your mind, a guy having long fingers and big hands equates to being strong and able to protect and guard you; to take care of you and be powerful enough to stand with you. You may not consciously view it this way, but perhaps in your subconscious mind, this is what you’re feeling, and therefore it is one of the first things you look for when you’re meeting a guy. There is nothing wrong with this and again quite common. We all seek consciously or subconsciously what we truly desire. That’s my bottom line.
@LizzyLiz : Good for you. You are honest with yourself and you know your own heart and mind. These are not bad traits. As I said, your feelings are pretty common. Don't feel weird or ashamed about what you're thinking and feeling of what you're attracted to.
My new friends with benefits is at least a head taller than me and his wrist is so much bigger. My hands look like a child's hands compared to his. I'm not a small girl. There are only less than a handful of times in which I feel small. I'm usually the bigger one in the group. Even bigger than some Asian guys. It's really nice to feel small and delicate sometimes.
Also, when he fingered me, those long fingers went really deep. Oh god...
I also notice the size of a woman's hands. Usually to see how small they are compared to mine. (there is also another theory.. I'll leave that aside) And because I also have quite big hands, it can be weirdly surprising to see something different for a change.
It's quite normal. I have really big hands and it's the #1 thing that girls approached me for. Personally I think my eyes are my best attribute, but whatever.
Think it's mainly because men are usually seen and perceived as the active part and hands are with what you are active through (eventually intimate) touches.
It's a girl thing, a lot of women in college stare at my hands a lot. My hands look strong, so that might be why they love to stare at my hands. I'm starting to think that's it's the equivalent of men finding the female navel attractive.
I think it's weird as shit to find something so arbitrary attractive, then again, I've heard other girls say it so it's not the 1st time I've heard it... but I still find it weird
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