Do you think long fingers/big hands are attractive?

Question

i just recently realized that a guys hands are one of the first things I look at. I find longer fingers and bigger hands attractive for some reason? Anybody else like this too or am I weird?

mwin2030 · Accepted Answer

You are not weird. From my perspective and experience, what you’re feeling and find attractive is pretty common for a female. In your mind, a guy having long fingers and big hands equates to being strong and able to protect and guard you; to take care of you and be powerful enough to stand with you. You may not consciously view it this way, but perhaps in your subconscious mind, this is what you’re feeling, and therefore it is one of the first things you look for when you’re meeting a guy. There is nothing wrong with this and again quite common. We all seek consciously or subconsciously what we truly desire. That’s my bottom line.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We all know big hands and fingers mean... BIG DICKS...

TheDevilInside · Accepted Answer

My new friends with benefits is at least a head taller than me and his wrist is so much bigger. My hands look like a child's hands compared to his. I'm not a small girl. There are only less than a handful of times in which I feel small. I'm usually the bigger one in the group. Even bigger than some Asian guys. It's really nice to feel small and delicate sometimes.

Also, when he fingered me, those long fingers went really deep. Oh god...

WhaChaChaKing · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily big but nice hands. I love Charlie Hunnam's hands omg. They are beautiful and so is he.

Jxpxtxr · Accepted Answer

I like groomed hands and slender fingers on guys so much! It's one of the first things I notice, too

mikemx55 · Answer

I think most women feel the same way as you do.

I also notice the size of a woman's hands. Usually to see how small they are compared to mine. (there is also another theory.. I'll leave that aside)
And because I also have quite big hands, it can be weirdly surprising to see something different for a change.

FakeName123 · Answer

It's quite normal. I have really big hands and it's the #1 thing that girls approached me for. Personally I think my eyes are my best attribute, but whatever.

Think it's mainly because men are usually seen and perceived as the active part and hands are with what you are active through (eventually intimate) touches.

abw121290 · Answer

I pay attention to a girls hands too... not necessarily the length, but her nails and polish and just the way they look.

DumbandDumbber · Answer

I find it weird but my girl has the same thing, she likes my hands for some reason. Let me ask, do you like big long hands because they relate to a guys junk somehow?

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

It's a girl thing, a lot of women in college stare at my hands a lot. My hands look strong, so that might be why they love to stare at my hands. I'm starting to think that's it's the equivalent of men finding the female navel attractive.

blondfrog · Answer

No I am glad you women find men's hands attractive :)

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Yes very attractive, I have small hands and when man has big hands, It is veryyy sexy. I like the difference between mine and their hands.

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

I think it's weird as shit to find something so arbitrary attractive, then again, I've heard other girls say it so it's not the 1st time I've heard it... but I still find it weird

LizzyLiz · Answer

can't deal with small hands looks weird haha. he gotta be able to grab, you know :)

rgb008 · Answer

YES!! My bf's hands are huge. When we hold hands, and I look at the size of his thumb compared to mine it, turns me on hahahah

Shaft50 · Answer

You know what they say about a guy with big hands... it's hard to find gloves that fit...

Sunflower19 · Answer

Big hands and long fingers on a guy is verrrry attractive.

CyberToothTiger · Answer

Yeah it does i feel cheated cause i have medium size hands and shorter fingers. LOL

Chico_brah · Answer

My hands are like shrek

Autumn-Bunny · Answer

Ermmm I have piano fingers... I don't think it's attractive I'm actually embarrassed of them.

CT_CD · Answer

I can think of a good reason why girls like long fingers.

Anonymous · Answer

I never bothered to look at that first. It certainly doesn't mean a bigger dick.

Anonymous · Answer

No not too big anyway, because on a girl that's freaky

yucel_eden · Answer

Yeah coz we can finger deeper

Akari · Answer

thought I was the only one

teawrecks · Answer

Welcome to the hand fetish club 🤗

Maypai · Answer

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. All I can say is, yes.

LunaLawliet · Answer

They're nice to look at.

capturemyheartnow · Answer

Yes. Very attractive.

babeeeone · Answer

Big hands are really attractive

Wetpvssy · Answer

Yes i love men with big hands

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

*looks at my hands* Alright!

SuitAndTie · Answer

No, you're weird

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe because it signals strength.

TheRealTrump · Answer

my hands are'huge!

datgirl · Answer

Yeah

Dinu001 · Answer

u r right

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