The guy I'm seeing and have been with for 2/3 months said he loved me when he was drunk. I didn't say anything back, and then a week later, whilst drunk said it again, in more detail. He wasn't acting weird with me during the times we saw each other even though I didn't say it back. Then he said it for a third time a week or so later also whilst drunk and I didn't respond telling him I loved him.
I saw him the next day for half an hour and he was clearly really tired but wasn't acting off. After he left I have tried to ask him to come over twice and he has said he's too tired both times. He also hasn't spoken to me in 5 days apart from me asking to see him those two times. Normally we talk pretty much everyday.
Do you you think he's upset that i didn't say it back? but why so suddenly, when he wasn't before hand?
Or do you u think he's just given up?
im giving him a few more days and if he still hasn't contacted me I'm going to call him and ask if something wrong. But until then, any thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, how would you feel if you tell somebody several times you love him and he's silent as a fish? You'll at least feel hurt and stupid for opening your mouth at all. He's probably reconsidering if he wants to be with you. If you want to fix things - talk to him. If you're not serious about the relationship - be honest with him and let him go.0
Most Helpful Girl
He's hurt. He opened up to you and feels you shut him out.0