If you only dated people with what you deemed as a "perfect body" your options would be very limited. For me personally, I would say as long as they are in good physical shape that's good enough. I'm not gonna date someone overweight, but she wouldn't have to be "perfect" for me to appreciate her body.
I would usually invest in women who are naturally skinny since then they will always stay that way in years to come when they hit their mid 30s onward where everybody elses girlfriend is getting fat. It just a shame about the woman's face that cannot be changed once she hits the wall at 40.
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Yes, it matters. Both his face and his body have to look at least average for me (not ugly and not fat). I prefer men to be slim and/ or muscular. I can accept a man that's a little chubby though. But I don't like them fat. Anyway, he will have a fat face too and fat faces are not attractive for me.
Not sure what you mean about perfect... Perfect to everyone is different which is why you can't please everyone... Which is also why You can't get that guy you want because he simply prefers a different kinda body
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I mean the individuals idea of perfect so whatever your idea of perfect is that's what I'm asking.
It matters to a point, to me personally face is the most important aspect of someone's appearance, it also depends on whether its something they can change, eg. weight , although I accept that most people find it extremely hard to lose it, I can't help what im attracted to.
I don't have that high expectations , im not ripped but im not fat , I think also at my age (16) its a lot less common for people to be fat but I was just being honest.
I need to see a cute face (particularly nice teeth and nose), some kinda boobs (not completely flatchested), and some kinda ass (even if its tiny, like i need some kind of curve, not a pancake)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find one body shape a turn off but yet fell for a guy who had that shape :/ . The rest of the bodies all mean the same thing to me. A body that is slowly decaying.
No a perfect body doesn't matter to me, but for me I am involved in both gymnastics and swim team and need to be concerned about my body size. However out side of that I think that people of all shapes can be attractive.
Even though I'm a physique competitor and coach, I am very open minded abou body types. I don't like being judged on mine, so why would I judge someone else's? It's someone's vibe more than actual features which I find attractive.
For me what really matters is that what I feel when im around him.. its really the personality that counts.. who need a gorgeous face or body if the personality or being with that person doenst makes you happy
I would like the face and body and mind/energy to be equally enticing. I believe perfection coexists with imperfections. If he has the perfect personality and aura I'd be willing to settle for a less stimulating face and body.
It matters that I'm attracted to her body, but it doesn't have to be perfect.
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I care about my own body most and personally i think my body is doing better than my face (hair in particular ) but yes of course i care about her body as well. Though if she looks like a professional playboy bunny or miami dolphins cheerleader then I'm personally probly going to assume she's not going to be interested. You need a perfect body if you have high standards for men but you should be ok with an average one if you find the average guy attractive.
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And vice versa. Some people tend to think they can have someone with an intact body while they've let themselves go or just have. Like they can be picky about the others body while theirs can be whatever and that's retarded but at the same time some people don't care.
They seem to be saying they don't care if there perfect looking or there isn't really a perfect not that they don't care at all what state their partners bodies is in.
priorities. it's all personal. i don't really care much about persons body. a normal face with a good and warm attitude would be nice and enough tho
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What's important is the person has a decent body and keep themselves in shape. Too many people focus on the face and are fine with a subpar body and don't realise once the face is gone then that person is going to be suppar all around.
Well personality honestly trumps everything. Then a nice face can make up for a not so nice body. So a perfect body is probably the least important of all three.
As long as he cares for me and I for him, he has a great personality and makes me laugh, that's all that really matters. A nice face draws me in initially but the body isn't really important. More about inside than out
I need to be attracted to everything to want to have sex with you and if I don't want to have sex with you, I don't want to be in a relationship with you.
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If you only dated people with what you deemed as a "perfect body" your options would be very limited. For me personally, I would say as long as they are in good physical shape that's good enough. I'm not gonna date someone overweight, but she wouldn't have to be "perfect" for me to appreciate her body.
Exactly.
I would usually invest in women who are naturally skinny since then they will always stay that way in years to come when they hit their mid 30s onward where everybody elses girlfriend is getting fat. It just a shame about the woman's face that cannot be changed once she hits the wall at 40.
Yes, it matters. Both his face and his body have to look at least average for me (not ugly and not fat). I prefer men to be slim and/ or muscular. I can accept a man that's a little chubby though. But I don't like them fat. Anyway, he will have a fat face too and fat faces are not attractive for me.
an actually healthy body matters to me. if you can take care of yourself, that's attractive.
You are not healthy at every weight.
Not sure what you mean about perfect... Perfect to everyone is different which is why you can't please everyone... Which is also why You can't get that guy you want because he simply prefers a different kinda body
I mean the individuals idea of perfect so whatever your idea of perfect is that's what I'm asking.
Perfect doesn't matter BUT a few key things about her body does matter
Also sometimes she can be too awesome that itms doesn't matter too much BUT there is a line that no matter how cool, it just won't work
It matters to a point, to me personally face is the most important aspect of someone's appearance, it also depends on whether its something they can change, eg. weight , although I accept that most people find it extremely hard to lose it, I can't help what im attracted to.
are you ripped?
no not really
well then you shouldn't have such high expectations. if you're not in shape you shouldn't expect to get a girl that's fit.
I don't have that high expectations , im not ripped but im not fat , I think also at my age (16) its a lot less common for people to be fat but I was just being honest.
good then
I need to see a cute face (particularly nice teeth and nose), some kinda boobs (not completely flatchested), and some kinda ass (even if its tiny, like i need some kind of curve, not a pancake)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find one body shape a turn off but yet fell for a guy who had that shape :/ . The rest of the bodies all mean the same thing to me. A body that is slowly decaying.
No a perfect body doesn't matter to me, but for me I am involved in both gymnastics and swim team and need to be concerned about my body size. However out side of that I think that people of all shapes can be attractive.
Even though I'm a physique competitor and coach, I am very open minded abou body types. I don't like being judged on mine, so why would I judge someone else's?
It's someone's vibe more than actual features which I find attractive.
For me what really matters is that what I feel when im around him.. its really the personality that counts.. who need a gorgeous face or body if the personality or being with that person doenst makes you happy
I would like the face and body and mind/energy to be equally enticing. I believe perfection coexists with imperfections. If he has the perfect personality and aura I'd be willing to settle for a less stimulating face and body.
I see.
No. I prefer obese tall guys. I'm 5'9 and curvy (not fat) so I love guys that can make me feel small but it's kinda hard to find.
Damn! too far, too young!
(6'6", 280lbs)
And no open slots. Well until June.
It matters that I'm attracted to her body, but it doesn't have to be perfect.
I care about my own body most and personally i think my body is doing better than my face (hair in particular ) but yes of course i care about her body as well.
Though if she looks like a professional playboy bunny or miami dolphins cheerleader then I'm personally probly going to assume she's not going to be interested.
You need a perfect body if you have high standards for men but you should be ok with an average one if you find the average guy attractive.
And vice versa. Some people tend to think they can have someone with an intact body while they've let themselves go or just have. Like they can be picky about the others body while theirs can be whatever and that's retarded but at the same time some people don't care.
I think very few pepole genuinely don't care at all.
Well read what everyone else said.
They seem to be saying they don't care if there perfect looking or there isn't really a perfect not that they don't care at all what state their partners bodies is in.
priorities. it's all personal. i don't really care much about persons body. a normal face with a good and warm attitude would be nice and enough tho
What's important is the person has a decent body and keep themselves in shape. Too many people focus on the face and are fine with a subpar body and don't realise once the face is gone then that person is going to be suppar all around.
FAT kills beauty/attractiveness.
Well personality honestly trumps everything. Then a nice face can make up for a not so nice body. So a perfect body is probably the least important of all three.
As long as he cares for me and I for him, he has a great personality and makes me laugh, that's all that really matters. A nice face draws me in initially but the body isn't really important. More about inside than out
I need to be attracted to everything to want to have sex with you and if I don't want to have sex with you, I don't want to be in a relationship with you.