I honestly care more about a guys face than his body. As long as I am extremely attractive to his face, I could care less what his body looks like. To me the portrait of the face is what draws me in.
Most Helpful Guy
For me outward appearance is the ultimate thing I'm attracted towards, but "outward appearance" is not strictly physical shape (though that's included).
It even has to do with some things people call "personality", but a more outward kind of personality, like how they talk, how they smile, how they laugh, their posture (friendly? guarded?), the sound of their voice, their demeanor and mannerisms, etc.
These are the types of things that create the image I form in my mind that symbolizes the girl, and it's that image I tend to fall in love with and become really attracted towards.
Deeper aspects of personality which are more hidden without very intimate communication and doing things like facing hardships together is what makes me stay with a girl.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
I also think personality > face > body.
Personality is what first gets me attracted to a guy. If we click and have fun together then honestly it doesn't matter what he looks like. The only reason I even care about how he looks is more to do with what everyone else will think. Face is way more important than body too. I don't really like the whole abs and 6 pack look. I prefer a bit of a chunkier/average guy. More like the "before" image kind of look lol.
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