Just interested hearing a few opinions. I'm going on second date with a guy this weekend and his texting habits suck. It's too early for me to have a phone call with him, plus I'd feel a bit awkward so texting allows me to have a conversation at my own pace and I can think more on what to say. He's a bit of an enigma because I know he's interested in me, but he barely texts (we keep a conversation going mainly throughout the week and usually involves small talk and planning the next date) and iwe probably swap maybe 1 or 2 messages a day.
Most Helpful Guy
I make that bitch suffer muhaha. All kiding aside, I kind of do. Few guys actually get the "game" and how to make a girl's attraction for you grow. Believe it or not, doing this is very beneficial to the girl, it helps her attraction grow faster. When I first start dating a girl this is my go too: First date, text her when I get home telling her I had a good time. Then I'll text her about 2 days before I want to plan for the next date so I usually text after 4-7 days. I keep this up until she starts texting me first (all the ones that are actually interested do), once she starts consistently initiating convos I'll text her first every now and then (like for every 4 times she texts me first I'll initiate once). Works great because it drives the girls nuts and makes them constantly think about you and if she's thinking about you it's a good thing, especially if she starts getting frustrated and annoyed. I just try and keep texting to a bare minimum, I mostly use it to just plan dates.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Its early / he may just be someone who doesn't go on his phone that much. Had the same problem with my current boyfriend he would go 24hours without texting and i thought he wasn't interested but he explained he just isn't a phone person... however when we started a relationship i asked that he'd at least text me every evening so i know he's alive 😂0