Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yLongest was about 4 years in my mid-thirties. It was awful. I broke up with a girlfriend when I was 33 and that was a 3 year relationship. I did a lot of dating but nothing involved enough to lead to sex. Then I dated one lady I had sex with a few times but then she left me to reconcile with an ex-boyfriend. I really liked the lady and I was so frustrated that I went to one of those legal brothels in Nevada and had sex with two prostitutes. It did help deal with the frustration of not having sex for so long. I didn't see that as healthy to go for so long. I certainly hope to never have to do that again unless with age it becomes no longer important to me.
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Wouldn't it have been easier to just go to a club?
Opinion Owner+1 yNever really thought much about it. I had a co-worker who would go to those clubs and he always ended up with problems. Dealing with ladies who went off their psych medication. Jealous boyfriends of the ladies. Not to mention the threat of disease. In the ranches the ladies are tested weekly and protection is mandatory. Anyway those ranches are fun. I go occasionally. LOL
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Yeah but I mean you have a higher chance of catching and STD are those ranches. Like herpes can be asymptomatic for some and can easily be passed on without any symptoms and condoms only protect you 50% of the time. I would imagine girls who are having lots of guys having sex with them like that (and a lot of guys with STDS most likely) will have a higher chance of passing those kinda things on. You can't test for herpes either. Be careful dude.
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3 months and counting, but the longest would have been a year.
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Wow I didn't think guys would go for that long although I didn't have sex for two years after my first boyfriend
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Haha fair!
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yLast time was two weeks ago, because my man is really close to a burnout with all the symptoms you can get. It sucks, but he'll be okay over time. Longest I've gone without was 9 months.
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I last had sex at the end of December but that will change in the next two weeks thank god 😂 Longest I've ever gone without is 15 months lol.
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+1 yHaven't had sex a day in my life but I get turned on very quickly if I'm into someone like dating wise
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Lol okay
About 2 hours. I guess the first 15 years were the longest without...
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+1 yOctober last year, not b/c I cannot get it, find that easy. More because I cannot get it on my terms.
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Never settle :)
5 months, I'm starting to go mad without fe-male affection. Longest has been just over a year.
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I feel you it's been 5 months for me too! Hang in there lol.
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Men seem to have much larger gaps of no sex
--> this begs to ask the question and possibly change the standards... who the real horn dogs?00 Reply
+1 ytwice every 6 months for the last 3 years. being picky sucks but is rewarding.
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+1 ySunday morning, so a couple of days. I've gone a couple of years without it.
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+1 yIts been about 5-6 days as my girlfriend still recovering from severe lower pack injury and my longest has been years.
20 ReplyIt's been almost a year since I last had sex
The longest time I've gone without sex was almost 1 and a half year10 ReplyIt's been 12 inches long since. I've gone miles without it.
It's really been over a year and I'm glad. Waiting until I find the right guy. Wish me luck.00 Reply
+1 yabout a week since the. Longest was 20 years hahaha
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+1 yLast Friday.
Longest I've been? Several months, when I moved to America, maybe like 6 months or so.00 Reply
+1 yI'm waiting to marriage to have sex or waiting for the right girl to come around to meet and have a loving relationship with before i have actually sex.
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+1 yIt's been about four hours, since the last time I had sex.
The longest I've ever gone without it was about two years, roughly.00 Reply
+1 yHmm it's been 1 year so far since I had some nice kicky sex with a total sub girl. Best 6 hours of my life :)
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+1 yLongest I've gone without... the first 17 years of my life;-)
10 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. A few days. The longest I've gone without was a month
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+1 yTwo days. The longest I've gone without it is three months, because I was depressed over my ex.
00 ReplyIt's been over 3 months. But that will change on Friday (finally lmao)
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It's been 5 months for me lol jealous...
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yLongest I've gone, since I've started having sex, a year. I have a friend... when we are both single we hook up regularly. It's perfect, he comes over or I go over. The deed gets done in 20mins tops.
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+1 yThe last time was two days ago. The longest I've been without is like a month
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+1 yThe last time was Saturday afternoon and the longest was six months
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I've gone 3 and half years no sex or dating.22 Reply- +1 y
Why no dating?
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Same guy, different account.
As for your question (sorry for the extremely long wait, but things have changed since then), I didn't date because I was withdrawn and an asshole who blamed everyone, but himself. I don't do that anymore, but I still don't date. At my age, I know who I am and who I really am, deep down, can't really fall in love with another person. I honestly couldnt tell you why, but that there's an instinct within me that knows it isn't right (for me) and wouldn't benefit me, anyways. I'm sexually active, but that's about it. That other part, the emotional security and all that, well, that's pretty dangerous and risky. Being tied to a person through love is, like a slow suffocation.
Two days. The longest time without it has been around one to two months.
00 Replythe longest i could go without it is 30 minutes lmaooo XD jk jk but I've only done that once
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+1 yJust had shawarma...
Will have it tomorrow and day after as well :)01 Reply- +1 y
What lol
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+1 yHad sex an hour ago! Probably about 3 weeks?
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+1 ySunday, seems like ages ago 😒
8 month's.00 Reply939 opinions shared on Dating topic. Since September lol, before that 21yrs
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+1 y22 years and counting
00 Reply420 opinions shared on Dating topic. it's been 5 years for me lost my virginity at 17
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Oh wow
10 years since I got cheated on
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aww :(
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yHad multiple year+ gaps while married.
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+1 yim a virgin!!!
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y3 days ago and 314 days
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 y9 months, can go a week without doing it
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yA couple weeks... longest a couple months
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y20 years and counting, for both
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yMy whole life.
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+1 yOn Sunday ;D
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y4 years and counting
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMy whole life
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 ya few weeks
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