Would you trust your boyfriend if he is in a fraternity?

[Anonymous]

So, I do trust my boyfriend but sometimes I feel like people in general put themselves in situations (when drunk) that could lead to inappropriate behavior. Bad judgment basically.

He's currently getting out of the military soon & is going to college this fall. We plan to live together in an apartment. I guess I'm wondering about this because most people know guys in frats are known from partying, drinking, and sleeping around. I trust him but I don't know what would happen if he's really drunk at a party

You can trust him

No you can't

[chefsam]

Is he going to be joining a fraternity once he goes to college or no? You can trust him to do the right thing. Fraternity parties can definitely get wild & crazy but not all of them are like that. You should talk to him about your concerns & see where his head is at. Trust is a major key in any relationship. You can't assume that he'll do something crazy if he goes to one. If he cares & loves you, he won't do anything that'll ruin your relationship or put himself in a situation like that. Talk to him about it & with him, see what fraternities there are on campus. If you don't tell him your concerns, you'll have doubts that'll cause problems in your relationship

[Asker]

Yeah you're 100% right. Thanks!!

[chefsam]

No problem, anytime

[abc3643]

Not at all. Frat boys are usually immature douches. Being in a fraternity only helps keep a guy immature. In the modern day, being in a fraternity does nothing else. Avoid a frat boy and find a guy who is serious about school and his future and you have found husband material.

[Nahid1234]

You should follow your heart on if you trust him, follow your guy feeling 😊

That is important 😊

[zzDB23]

Ah you should be fine. Maybe if he was living on residence without you, and/or if it's a party college, and/or if he's a slut then I would be scared

[omegajosh]

If you trust him then I think he'll be fine

[Asker]

Thanks

[omegajosh]

your welcome

[Dingsbums]

How are we supposed to know?

[thecoolone99]

oh god no.