To me, exchanging nudes with someone other than your partner is definitely cheating so if someone is asking another person for nudes, they have an intention to cheat. Now, whether or not that's a deal breaker is up to you. Personally, I wouldn't be able to trust my partner anymore if I found out he did something like that. It would make me question the relationship and doubt his ability to be faithful in the future.
For some people, they can work through things like this and it's not a big deal, for others, it is a relationship killer. So I suppose you just have to figure out how you feel about it and how you will feel about it in the future (if it's something you can get past or if it's something that will continue to bother you down the road).
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Of course it is cheating. Any sort of sexual communication with someone else, physical or otherwise, is considered cheating in my book. Especially if the partner isn't present during the exchange, hasn't consented to it (obviously), and the person doing it has no intention of telling their partner (i. e. is hiding it).
You should break up with him. He is not "just like his father", that's some bullshit excuse that he wants to spin because he wants to justify his behavior. He is his own person and he can decide for himself what he wants to do. He's partially blaming his father because he can't own up to his own actions, which proves he's a shitty and lazy person.
I think it's pretty obvious what you should do.
What a shame, and what a freaking excuse... he's just like his father?
I would definitely send him to hell, i would consider this as cheating, he must be very frustrated and I feel sorry for you.
Just, don't put yourself in this situation, go away from it, from him, from all of it, you deserve so much better.
Good luck
Yes, asking for nudes is cheating. Even if there's nothing physical going on, it's still cheating because it shows a lack of love and loyalty to one's partner. Your boyfriend is in a hard place right now. A lot of times guys struggle with things they know are wrong, but are unable to control. As weird as it sounds, do your best to be there for him and to give him support. Not so that he can keep doing what he's been doing, but so that he won't feel the need to.
Yeah, it is cheating. And I am sure he has had conversations and started getting attached to the person (emotional cheating) before asking for nudes too. That is really messed up.
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I would say it would be cheating, but just talk about it with him and just see his point of view, but you could always dump him
who was asking her or him? or were they both? if it was him.. dump him and get your friend back... if it was her then you'll be glad you're not friends.. if it were both kick them both to the kerb .. go buy the coolest sex toys you can find.
What? Your boyfriend asked your friend for nudes?
If that's the case, it's a big disrespect. I guess I would consider it cheating. And anyway, I would say bye to the guy.Yes it's cheating. He's giving you the
" like father, like son" excuse lol That's sooo manipulative. So he's a cheater and a manipulator. Two dangerous combos. I'd dump his ass🙄🙄 cheater... went behind your back and wanted pics from others, your friend isn't the only one he's asked probably
send someone else nudes and see how he feels. im guessing he wouldn't like it but you see my point
It depends on your definition of cheating. It's definitely sketchy and I wouldn't be with a guy like that.
Did you ask him why he wanted to see to ur friend naked? Wtf I would have freaked out that's so not okay. Make him take you shopping then dump his ass.
It isn't cheating, but it sure is hilarious. "I'm just like my father" as if that's supposed to relieve him of all responsibility. Such shit happens when you don't work on your relationship.
If not cheating then at least it indicates intention to cheat
Yes if he send nudes or received it then it is cheated 100%
Dump him.. Cause is you don't then he will do it againYes if your boyfriend was asking another girl for nudes when you were dating it is cheating.
What's house you do? Breakup with him. Unless you wanna be with a cheating sack of shit but that just shows how low your standards are.
He asked your friend for nudes? Lmao. Girl, leave him!
Thats cheating def.
He should have told you. I'd thank the ex friend.. at least one person is being honest with you.Yeah. Why would you ask someone else for nudes if you're in a relationship? Boggles the mind.
Ewww he wants to see your friend naked. That's technically cheating
Talk it out, see how both of you feel about it.
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That's just wrong dear.
No excuse will do. Yes he was wrong for trying to get nudes from another girl.
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