Do you consider exchanging nudes cheating?

[dayofthedead220]

Please explain.

Yes

No

[Annie_Mosity]

Cheating is "cheating at the game"... which means not abiding by the rules set out. If you're hiding it from your partner, it's most likely cheating. If you and your partner have agreed it's ok then no, of course it isn't cheating. Entirely depends on the relationship but these assholes saying getting blowjobs and such isn't cheating are talking shit. If you hide it then it's wrong and you know it is.

Personally I don't feel it's any different from watching porn. It's getting sexual gratification from someone outside of the relationship. The only thing that I see as different is the person knows when you are sexting them, they don't when you watch porn... so the 'object' of desire also gains something from it. The end result is usually the same though, people want to get off... it's like interactive porn.

[SomeStrangeGirl]

Revealing your body to somebody else (other than to your partner) is cheating because you are not only intriguing another person, but that person would most likely take that as a sign that they can now do more with you in a sexual way than just exchanging nudes.

[sarawelsh122]

I would say yes because you are interacting with someone else and exchanging pictures to get off on together.

[Tony_1693]

Not if your significant other doesn't mind. I get nudes to me sent all the time and I'll sometimes send some teasers to get them.. but my girlfriend is bi and likes seeing them too. If I get nudes, then I'll send them to her too lol. Not that big of a deal to me personally, but every couple is different and I understand that most couples aren't like us.

[BigRayFromNC]

Exchanging nude photos is not cheating as there is no physical contact at all and there is no penetration either.

It is the same if a man gets a blow job from another girl while he is going out someone as if he is only getting a blow job and does not put his dick in the women's vagina or asshole he is not cheating at all.

[ElissaDido]

Of course. Why would you want to seduce someone else with your genitals?

[TruthOfCoral]

why would you even ask this like what kind of idiot does it take to not understand this or are you just too selfish to break it off with your boyfriend because he gives you things but his best friends got the package

[dayofthedead220]

My sister is engaged and her friend is trying to get nudes from her and he says it isn't cheating.

[dayofthedead220]

Since "its only a picture" according to him.

[TruthOfCoral]

well if it's only a picture then he should let her be a nude model

[dayofthedead220]

I told her to think about it this way... What if her fiance was sending nudes to his friend who convinced him Its "not cheating" cause it's "just a picture"

[TruthOfCoral]

does the fiance know?

[dayofthedead220]

She hasn't asked his opinion yet. And she hasn't sent any nudes yet either.

[TruthOfCoral]

well he needs to know cause she's contemplating whether her body can just be sent to random guys or not

[dayofthedead220]

I'm not gonna be the one to tell him. Lol. She's my sister.

[TruthOfCoral]

who is going to get cheated on

[TruthOfCoral]

most likely she'll get cheated on when he finds out on his own terms

[dayofthedead220]

She's young and doesn't really grasp how "one picture" could cause "so many problems"

[TruthOfCoral]

if she's that young and getting married then her relationship won't work

[dayofthedead220]

She's 19

[TruthOfCoral]

well if she believes nudes are just a picture then married is just a title

[dayofthedead220]

Lol well she's read every comment and she's still gonna do whatever she wants to. She now knows that most people think it's cheating and knows the consequences.

[taleswapper]

I don't consider sex cheating because I put no value on sexual exclusivity. If you're my partner, and you're not turning me away, I could really care less if you have a bit on the side to keep you happy. With my first wife, the rules were "No secrets. Sleep at home. Stop if you're not having fun. If you learn something new, share."

[francescalaska]

Of course it is, my body belongs to whoever I'm currently in love with, and I shouldn't be flirting with anyone on the side.

[dayofthedead220]

Your body should belong to you. Not someone else...

[francescalaska]

Ofc, I meant like viewing of my body and stuff

[dayofthedead220]

Oh ok lol that makes more sense.

[AzureGirl]

The only people that should be seeing your naked body in a relationship is your SO and your doctor.

[Saccharissa]

What is there to explain? You exchange things of a sexual/intimate nature with another person, of course it's cheating.

[SarahsSummer]

Sharing pictures of your naked body with someone other than your current relationship? Umm, YES!
Would you like your boyfriend to be getting naked for other girls?

[dayofthedead220]

I think it depends on the relationship.

[SarahsSummer]

Well it depends on if the two people in the relationship are ok with it. Not giving one an opinion on it is cheating.

[dayofthedead220]

This question was asked because my sister is being asked for nudes but she's engaged to someone else. She's going to ask him his opinion on it when he gets home. Because that seems to be the most common answer.

[SarahsSummer]

I really can’t even imagine being engaged to someone and actually considering giving nude pics of myself to someone else. But then again, I’m not in a swinging, open or cuckold relationship.

[Shiba1490]

Yes. My body is only for my boyfriend's eyes and vice versa.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Would you want your SO receiving or sending intimate photos and details to/from someone that wasn't yourself? I would hope not. If you feel like this is acceptable you obviously aren't ready for an actual or healthy relationship.

[dayofthedead220]

This question was asked because my sister is being asked for nudes but she's engaged to someone else. She's going to ask him his opinion on it when he gets home. Because that seems to be the most common answer.

[EvilAngel114]

If you have a S/O... yes. What news does one have to exchange nudes with someone else when they are in a relationship.

[Wolframium]

Technically, it’s not cheating. It’s just the thing, what happens just before cheating. If I had girlfriend and discovered, that she did that, relationship would be pretty much over.

[Annie_Mosity]

So you would dump her for NOT cheating on you?

[Wolframium]

@Annie_Mosity No, I'd dupm her for sharing her nude photos with some other guy.

[TheSpartan]

Of course it is, since you’re receiving voluntary sexual titilation from someone else.

[Fuselesss]

u shouldn't get intimate with other pple behind ur partners back. diesnt matter if its nudes, webcam or even simple text.

[noesbueno]

Yeah. You are interacting with someone with the intent on getting naked pictures, even if it doesn't go anywhere, it brings up serious trust and relationship concerns

[BeeRight]

As long as its with a stranger. If it's someone my partner knew and interacted with, I would say absolutely not because it's just asking for trouble.

[Marvel_263]

I feel if there is no physical contact then it's not cheating it's just gentials no big deal

[dayofthedead220]

That's what I think too but if my partner isn't ok with it then it as not ok.

[CHARismatic110]

Yes. If you're in a relationship, you shouldn't be in a position to even be in a situation where nudes are being brought up, let alone exchanged.

[lolaseng]

yes because if i send someone i nude is because probably i want to have sex with him or ill have

[MyAtlantis]

Are you seriously asking or having any doubts it is not cheating?

[CarpetDenim]

Everyone saying no are just cheaters who are in denial.