Men only want me for sex. What is wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

Guys come after me like crazy but after I get to know them it’s just sex they want. I've never had a boyfriend and I want to grow with someone and have fun; not only casual sex. What is it that guys see that makes me only good for sex and nothing serious.

[GingerGuy]

A couple things, first, don't take it too personally. ie, it's not likely you as a person, they don't want a relationship with anyone likely? Also more and more guys aren't wanting the "work" and "drama" that often goes with a relationship. This is way a lot of guys want casual relationships, because they still desire that human contact and intimacy, but don't want all the drama that often comes with a relationship.

2) Are you 100% sure that's all they want? All guys want sex, but for some, it's not all they want, but what they're looking for first. I think a lot of women sometimes make the mistake of assuming that's all a guy wants (ie, lack on communication).

Do you communicate with them and let them know what you want? You didn't say if you find this out after sex or just after getting to know them? Finally, be patient. Yes a lot of guys are just looking for sex, especially younger guys but I assure you not all are, some want a relationship to, just keep looking. And be honest with them right off the bat. Even say on a first date "what are you looking for? I'm only interested in a long term relationship, are you? I don't want to waste our time" Of course, hopefully they'll be honest with you but that would likely deter some guys that are only looking for sex. And maybe try dating different types of guys than you normally would. Example if you've only been dating guys that ask you out, maybe try asking some guys out that you like that aren't asking you. The "shy guys" are often the "good guys" that want a relationship.

[ShortCircuit]

There are only two types of women that have never faced the same problem as you:
1. Those that were lucky enough to land Mr. Right the first time.
2. Those that are too ugly to get any attention from men - romantic or sexual.

Just be thankful you aren't the second one. Now as for what's wrong with you? You're a push over. Stand your ground and tell the guy what you want right off the bat. Nobody wastes each other's time. If he thinks he can change your mind, politely inform him that he's mistaken.

Make them all wait, and you'll naturally weed out the ones that aren't worth your time.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. It's possibly due to bad luck

[Riclo]

Try to change your perspective of thinking. The more you think like that, the more it will likely to happen to yourself. Just try to see it in positive ways. If you did, one day you will surely meet him that is serious with you. Just a matter of time and change your behavior and perspective of thinking.

[aarkayrk]

This means you are beautiful. In russia there is a saying "there is nothing that a beautiful women can't do". So don't worry make a combination of beauty and mind. Don't get in physical relation easily. Wait for some time, know him better, commumicate properly (most girls problem). You will get someone good for sure.

[Blackmoonsns]

You are running in to the bad boys. For the most part women find the bad boys sexy, and strong. Bad boys only care about sex, the men who you would friend zone are the men who you wana spend your life with. If you want a real man in your life find a guy who is looking for passion, and love. A man who enjoys every moment with you who will be completely fullfill just holding you, then you will both know when its time for lovemaking not sex their is a diffrance.

[OlderGuy965]

Not sure without knowing you. Are you flirty? Do guys know how many men you've been with and perhaps words gotten round that you're easy? (not trying to be an asshole either). Do you fuck on the first or second date? That will definitely cause this. Wait until at least the 6th or later and the players will fuck off pretty fast.

[vsbw14]

do ldr with me, so we both will have our benift
1. I want to understand girls more by the way I'm honest
2. I will never ask u r nudes etc!
3. I will flirt but never cross my line
4. block me when I cross it no hard feelings, inform me when u r doing it
right now I'm broken guy, just want a friend to stay with me!

[Anonymous]

Women dont love men.
They like the way they make them feel, they like the security they provide for her.
But they srent attracted the men and her "love" will completely go the second he becomes busy and doesn't have as much time for her.
Then she'll cheat with another guy to feel loved snd desried because that all women are.
Egotistical self indulged bisexual prudes.

[cunningwolf22]

no baby no u are wrong. I guess u didn't even meet Rgt person. sex is important but only when u are ready. I hv girlfriend we do sex but only when she ready. aftr all her happiness matter more than my own.

[Justinaveragedude]

You are hot and they are horny. You need to rethink where you meet guys. You can find a better class of guy if you go to a better class if place. Also, avoid bar meet ups.

[AlwaysBelieving]

First, where are you meeting these guys?
Second, how do you dress?
Third, what is your personality like (i. e. are you flirty, talkative, etc.)?

[Anonymous]

I know what it is. Once they find out that you are a member of G@G they are like Eww! lol j/k

[Anonymous]

nothing wrong with you... you just go after the wrong type of guys.

[Intraluminal]

It's who you're choosing, not who you are.

[NerdInDenial]

They see your beauty.

[Anonymous]

How many PhDs to you hold