How long does it take for a Bumble match to set up a date?

[Anonymous]

A few days ago, I matched with a guy on bumble. He's very cute and I'm eager to meet him, especially because we seem to connect via text message - I'm excited to see if that connection translates to our interactions in person. I've met people on Bumble before but he told me this was his first time using the app.

I asked him to meet up the next day (Sunday) and he basically said "I'll let you know" and we chatted for a bit longer. I haven't heard from him today, so I'm not sure if he's not interested anymore, if he's nervous, or if there's another mystery reason. I know it's only been two or three days since we matched, but I'm just excited to see what comes of it, if anything. What do you guys think? Should I wait a few days and reach out if I haven't heard anything?

[Heythere2013]

In my experience w/online dating, if the guy is interested, he will make a date a soon as he is free and he will contact you pretty often. Send him a message, but don't ask about a date and see what happens next. If he stalls, move on, if not enjoy the date.

[AaronTupaz]

If a guy was really interested in you, he wouldn't say 'I'll let you know.' Bumble doesn't have a swipe limit, so many guys will just swipe right with every girl on the app, and then decide who to go out with based on his matches.

[Alonn]

Maybe he's keeping you in suspense the same way women awkwardly test men by ignoring them to see if the guy is overly needy.

[Asker]

Do guys really do that?

[Alonn]

They do it if the women around them do it too.

[TheEnvy]

Maybe he met someone better? Maybe he's busy? All we can do is guess.