ENTP guy ghosting? (Dating INTJ girl)?

[arealgirl100]

Dating this ENTP guy a few years older than me. He stopped texting back for a few days, so I called him out for ignoring me and said, "You're cool, but maybe we shouldn't date."

He responded to this with explanations and apologies.

I clarified my position... never heard back. He was still saying he wanted to meet when he's back from vacation. After days of him disappearing, I sent him the 'final text:' "You make me feel sad."

His response? Hours later, he replies, "Not my intention! Don't be sad, it's Saturday!"

[David_Kek]

Did it turn out ok? I'm an ENTJ who's been ghosted by an ENTP too, and there was no sign anything was wrong, with her even saying a the day before how she believes we crossed paths for a reason and we should keep things progressing naturally. Things were going very well, even to the point of her buying lingerie to show off and impress me, with us talking all the time... only for her to go completely awall on me for the last day and a half, just out the blue. Like WTF is going on?

[Ram0n83]

If he's on vacation he probably isn't paying as much attention to his phone. Give him a chance.

[BellePepper]

He ghosted you. He's clearly not ready for a relationship with you so why are you trying to pull him back into one

[arealgirl100]

But he SAID he wanted a relationshiiiip uuuurgh.

Screw him.

[BellePepper]

He SAID "we shouldn't date"

Take it from the ESTP honey. That ship has sailed

[arealgirl100]

Lol heeeey ESTP-

Nah nah *I* said maybe we shouldn't date. I meant it to be a warning, i. e. Quiet flaking or it's over.

[BellePepper]

Omg dork type here now : P

Either way he ghosted you. Not okay. You are PLAN A not PLAN B

[Anonymous]

the f is entp and int

[arealgirl100]

Myers briggs?

ENTP=Extraverted, iNtuiting, Thinking, Perceiving
INTJ=Introveted, iNtuiting, Thinking, Judging

Supposedly people on the net think they are complementary types (think Mythbusters 2 main guys-these types exactly!)

[Opinion Owner]

ah i see. i guess he's not ready then. screw him. it's rude of him to ghost you. you deserve better