Hey,
So I started talking with this dude through instagram. At first, I wasn't really into it (because I'm used to chit chatting with a lot of guys through sm), so I wasn't thinking twice of it. He would always send pictures, text every morning when waking up etc. which I eventually got caught up in this habit of doing it back as well.
He lives in another city (that I will be moving to in a week) and basically told me a bunch of things. He said how he would bring me to the best clubs, meet people, drive me home from the airport when I arrive etc. etc.
He came to my city for a few days this week, and initiated our meet up. We went on a date and I immediately felt some sort of interest for him (which is HUGE because I'm usually numb of love, since a really traumatizing heartbreak a year ago). He seemed somewhat into me, but answered calls and left to go eat with a friend 2hrs into the date. He kinda gave mixed signals because he tried to hug me etc. and was actually acting interested... When I got home he texted me again to make sure I was home safely etc. He told me he was happy to have met me, asked me what I was doing tomorrow etc.
The next few days the guy would text me but never invite me over.. Just talk to me randomly.. Or ghost me for 3 days and then randomly send a picture with no meaning.
So I started talking with this dude through instagram. At first, I wasn't really into it (because I'm used to chit chatting with a lot of guys through sm), so I wasn't thinking twice of it. He would always send pictures, text every morning when waking up etc. which I eventually got caught up in this habit of doing it back as well.
He lives in another city (that I will be moving to in a week) and basically told me a bunch of things. He said how he would bring me to the best clubs, meet people, drive me home from the airport when I arrive etc. etc.
He came to my city for a few days this week, and initiated our meet up. We went on a date and I immediately felt some sort of interest for him (which is HUGE because I'm usually numb of love, since a really traumatizing heartbreak a year ago). He seemed somewhat into me, but answered calls and left to go eat with a friend 2hrs into the date. He kinda gave mixed signals because he tried to hug me etc. and was actually acting interested... When I got home he texted me again to make sure I was home safely etc. He told me he was happy to have met me, asked me what I was doing tomorrow etc.
The next few days the guy would text me but never invite me over.. Just talk to me randomly.. Or ghost me for 3 days and then randomly send a picture with no meaning.
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i eventually moved 20 min from his city and posted insta stories and stuff but he never texted me… I was sad but accepted that maybe he had lost interest. Eventually, one day, I went without knowing to a party close to his place, and got a text from him saying « OMG you’re here, wait I’m coming » . The guy showed up, and we spent the night together kissing etc.
I was a bit drunk so I started asking him what was up w him etc. Why he ghosted me etc etc. His answer was that « He’s busy » « He trav
I was a bit drunk so I started asking him what was up w him etc. Why he ghosted me etc etc. His answer was that « He’s busy » « He trav
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1 y
He kinda made me believe that he would make the effort now, but when I asked when we could go on a date this week, he started saying he has no time… About 5 min later, the guy asked if I wanted to go home with him since he won’t be free on other days. I simply answered NO because I don’t want to have sex with a guy, that will ghost me the next day (even though I was very attracted).
