Is a sensitive guy a turn off?

[isaiahthomas615]

[JSmuve]

Sensitive, as in sympathetic to a girls feelings and is always there to listen and make her feel better? No. They like that shit.

Sensitive, as in a guy who can't handle his own emotions, getting offended at things she says/does, acting like a doormat, not being able to stand up for himself? Ya, that's a turnoff.

Girls expect a guy to listen to them piss and moan and hold their hand through emotional crises but don't really wanna return the favour.

[dataminemebby]

The tough guys stand out more due to their Imposing Presence. An emotionally in-tune guy with a strong presence would likely be considered to be even more attractive.

Work on body language. Impose your presence without being unapproachable. It's a fine line to walk.

[Anonymous]

No, that's rare and a good thing. The common thought that every girl wants a tough guy is wrong. Of course everyone doesn't think this way but I think most girls do. So it definitely isn't a turn off. And most guys answering here are saying that it is a turn off and that is not accurate if you ask me.

[BeeNee]

Have you ever seen Bedazzled, where the guy asks the devil to make him more sensitive to impress the girl he likes... yeah, this guy would be a TOTAL TURN OFF.

https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

[azzntittiz]

No it's not a turn off, a wimp is. I dated a guy who always talked with a shaky voice, he ran away from lizards and hated scary movies, what a basic bitch he was.

[zagor]

He ran away from lizards? I take it you're not talking Gila Monsters and Komodo Dragons.

[zagor]

If that is your pic you look very nice by the way.

[azzntittiz]

@zagor The small ones, it was not funny, it was a turn off. I hate lizards but you have to shoo them away from me, not run too, I'm the girl.

[zagor]

I like them, they eat bugs.

That is pretty messed up. He must have had traumatic childhood incidents with lizards, difficult though that is to picture...

[azzntittiz]

@zagor Well he needs a big strong girlfriend to carry him. I'm a princess.

[Trisha3103]

Hell no! A boy like that is rare in this world! However by sensitive you dont mean easily and unnecessarily offended right?

[isaiahthomas615]

I mean a guy who is always expressing how he feels about even sometimes getting emotional about things he's passionate about

[Trisha3103]

Who would not love to be with a guy like that? they are precious, really! Most people are emotionally constipated nowadays!

[isaiahthomas615]

that's what I thought, but not everybody thinks that way

[Trisha3103]

I know right? I myself love a sensitive man whos not afraid to express what he feels! People are busy acting cool and indifferent nowadays! That's their definition of being strong

[isaiahthomas615]

I know what you mean.
thank you for your feed back tho

[QueenJet]

I feel like girls think that sensitive guys are goals, but they get attracted to the tough badass and sometimes asshole guys, which I think is pretty shameful.

[Jay_Lauren]

Nooooooo. Personally I find it more attractive. I think we all have feelings, and guys should be able to show them too. So it's just a emotional thing with me.

[fruitloops373]

No I definitely want a sensitive guy. A problem some sensitive guys may face is that they come off as not confident, which can be a turn off. Sensitive + confident is a huge turn on

[Carley99]

I'm a very emotional person and a sensitive guy would be good for me because he would be able to relate to me better and I with him.

[Naledi208]

No, it depends on the person. Also take in consideration emotional intelligence if the guy in question doesn't know how to express his feelings. No one wants a brick to interact with or a hot head. There has to be balance.

[Inuyasha86]

Damnit, I'm a brick!

[CaptainSmartass]

@Inuyasha86 Same here, dude...

[CaptainSmartass]

Of course it is. Sensitive is a euphemism for "good with colours". It means that a sensitive guy is "on the other bus", if you know what I mean...

Simples...

[xreyoflight]

No!!! I think it's precious. If a guy has feelings and it comfortable with expressing them, especially to a girl. I find that really strong and encouraging. I love helping someone who is sensitive.

[FashionKiller]

No its not I don't want to date a robot but overly sensitive will get annoying I just don't like overly sensitive people in general

[shhimsleeping]

Depends on what you mean by sensitive. Easily offended or knows how to listen to others' feelings and also share his own?

[isaiahthomas615]

I mean a guy who is always expressing how he feels about even sometimes getting emotional about things he's passionate about

[shhimsleeping]

That's not really a turn off. But if he boo-hoos all the time, that kind of is. But that really goes for both genders. Crying every once in awhile is fine but tears generally make me uncomfortable.

[Tricialicious]

No, definitely not. Unless he's sensitive to the point where I can't even joke around with him for the fear that he may get upset.

[Chatsa2]

I don't think girls mind a sensitive guy. Or rather a lot of women are looking for a more sensitive type. A guy who isn't scared of his emotions. A guy the women can relate to, and talk about each other issues.

[zombiebabe]

not at all.. in fact he will be more open to show his emotions

[RachelleDraws]

Yeah. No guy is a turn on for me
A sensitive girl is. No a guy though.

[Teenage_Elmo]

No. I like my guys like that.

[sniperR]

i think it might be girls want a tough guy

[ColoradoChick84]

It's not a turn off

[ej2000]

i love clingy sensitive guys the most

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeah, girls don't like guys that show emotion

[Anonymous]

Not st all!

[shigatsu]

Of course not!

[Nandor]

Yeah very