Would you date a guy below 5'5"?

[Loon309]

Let's see how many of you girls actually practice what you preach.

For real, how can you complain that guys won't date fat chicks who refuse to take care of themselves, but then say that you refuse to date guys who are short? I find that hypocrisy hilariously stupid and would love to see if anyone actually is real.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Not unless he's a badass like Levi Ackerman, and I ain't even that much of a weeb.

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But I will say everyone has the right to refuse to date someone for physical reasons. What they don't have the right to do is ridicule or shame someone for it. I can not date you for being short, fat, for having funky teeth, for having the same name as my uncle that acts inappropriate at Christmas parties - you name it. It's life.

[blaircare214]

It's funny you said that because when a guy jas money, nobody cares about what you look like. Look at kevin hart and his wife.

[splashofyellow]

I've never met a guy that would be shorter than me so it's hard to say whether I would really be that shallow.

[KaranSharma55]

how tall are you?

[splashofyellow]

@KaranSharma55 I'm 5'1".

[KaranSharma55]

That's why you never met shorter than you coz where you live average height of guys are pretty high..

[splashofyellow]

@KaranSharma55 Not just where I live. The average height of men is over 5'2" in pretty much every country.

[KaranSharma55]

Yes of course.. I agree with you but you girls cover about 2-3 inches by heals ha ha

[splashofyellow]

@KaranSharma55 Well, I hate heels and never wear them which makes it even less probable to meet a guy that would be shorter than me.

[KaranSharma55]

ha ha that's nice of you but its about a common ideology.. like if a girl is 5.1 or 5.2 she automatically will be 5.4 or 5.5 using sandals/ heals but in general guys can cover maximum 1 inch by shoe

[Anonymous]

Girls are entitled snobs who poop gold and deserve the best guy out there even though they ain't shit. They are aware of the double standard but as long as people like them they don't care if they shit on others for whatever reason.

[TallAnon]

I'm 6'7 and I'm still not getting any puss atm, so I'm pretty sure your problem is something else.

[fauchelevent]

I don't think I would. I wouldn't date a girl below 5'5 either though so it's not about me thinking men should be tall and manly and short men aren't, since otherwise I'd be cool with dating short girls, y'know? :P Either way, I also don't give a shit about whether guys date fat girls either. I don't see why I should care about who other people want to date?

[scarlett96]

Maybe. I knew a guy in hs that was like 5'4" but I found him very cute and would've even considered dating if we had the chance to. But I honestly prefer guys 5'8"-5'10" because their build is usually more attractive to me compared to taller guys and also because I'm only 5'1" myself.

[dr-evil]

I'm pretty short, I've dated a guy the same height as me before. I don't see how it's a problem. I guess girls want to feel protected? I'm not sure, girls never seem to be happy with anything.

[kikisand]

I've never met a guy shorter than me. They've always been my height or taller, so I can't honestly say based on experience.
In all honesty, if he's great, makes me laugh, is kind, respectful, etc and I feel a connection, I would.

[Izumiblu]

5'5 is too short. I need to be able to wear heels and still be below his eyes. Otherwise... no dice.

[Armourdillo]

so when you walk around on the street and you see short guys with girls who would be taller than him if they worse heels, do you look down on them?

[Cosytoasty]

How tall ARE you actually?

[Armourdillo]

@Cosytoasty It doesn't matter girls are entitled it seems, a 5'2 girl is allowed to demand a 6'0 guy, and call anyone less than that little boys that can never measure up to a real man. and society would hail that girl as a powerful woman. That's just the power girls have in 2017.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo why would that bother me? I don't care what other people do...

As far as my height... I prefer guts that are 5'8" or taller. So... subtract four inches for the distance from the top of the head to the bottom of their eyes, then another three inches for the max height heels is wear and that put me at...5'1". Give or take a quarter of an inch. My guy is 6'1" ... so... checkbox complete ✔

[Izumiblu]

*guys not guts... I don't care how tall peoples guts are

[Cosytoasty]

Awwwww, you're tiny and adorable <3

[Armourdillo]

because what business does a short guy have enjoying life when he doesn't measure up to your requirements for a male worse conversing with. Since height is your only concern, in a hypothetical, you would rather be with a 6'1 guy who beats you and restricts your freedom, or a short male (6'0 and below) who acts like a human being and is willing to build a relationship with you?

[Armourdillo]

I'm just really curious how precious the right to wear heels is. It just seems so funny to me that a guy who is insecure about his height is a little bitch to society, but a girl being uncomfortable that a guy isn't at least 7 inches taller than her is empowerment.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo dude... you seem... really like you are projecting..

I hate it when guys do this shit, you act like you are entitled to having the max number of women in your own personal dating pool and that I'm not allowed to have my own wants... you're a little bitch to society not because you are short. But because you whine like a little girl... so not attractive in a guy. And who said anything about empowerment... again putting words in my mouth. Its pretty damn simple its what I prefer.. I also prefer white guys... with an actual job, that are healthy, and attractive... and don't act like little whiny bitches...✔ ✔ ✔ ✔ ✔

@cosytoasty.. was that adorable?

[Armourdillo]

I'm not saying i want the max number of girls... I'm asking why being short is a unforgivable flaw to males but girls being uncomfortable being short is the guys fault for not being tall enough?

[Armourdillo]

it doesn't change that you feel entitled to have 6'1 men just because you're insecure about feeling weird around guys who are fine with you being taller than them in heels.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo again.. projecting... has nothing to do with being "insecure".

Lets see if you can follow me on this... im going to put this in the most modest terms I can...

If I go to get an education from a top college, I'm going to need resources to be able to do it. If I don't have the resources, i can't get the education. But if I have the resources I can get any education I want.

Turns out, that through a combination of good genes and being a good person, I have the resources I need to be able to get what I am looking for in a guy. From traits of physical attractiveness, to intelligence to personality the resulted in a strong emotional bond.

This is not entitlement, its understanding what I want and what I can get. Its totally ok for you to be offended or upset... im not.. concerned with that. Irrational emotional distress is nto something I'm required to respect.

[Armourdillo]

What i'm failing to see, is why you feel entitled to judge people 100% on their height. Why doe's not being 6'1 make someone a bad person? Like is it possible for a short person to be a good person?

[Armourdillo]

And if you can answer, what are good genes?

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo nobody said it makes them a bad person... you keep saying shit like that, that's you projecting your views on me, your belief that society looks down on short people... I work and am friends with short people, I respect them all just like anyone else, but that doesn't mean I am attracted to them, and yes attraction is a must it subjective to every single person and involves a number of things from the physical, like height, weight, appearance to the mental and emotional. The question was about height, I answered in terms of height. You took the next step to assume that I am judging anyone 100% on height. Simply false on your part.

And as far as the good genes... I don't wanna explain it, maybe @cosytoasty can help you with what that could possibly mean.

[Armourdillo]

you said YOU have superior genes, so based on your picture you feel that you're race, hair, hieght, skin color, etc. are good. so what is bad?

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo not much, I'm perfect in every way, except id like to be taller

[Armourdillo]

so any girl who isn't you is not perfect? are you the standard that every girl aspires to be?

[Armourdillo]

It very hard to believe that you are perfect in everything you do, I'm sorry. There NOTHING in the the entire world you haven't done?

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo nope, I'm sitting here with my fiancé and a group of his coworkers, I explained the situation here and they all I agree, I'm perfect, except maybe I should be taller.

Which... you know how that feels, to know you are shorter than what other people wish... oh well, time for a crack at the congee.

[Armourdillo]

So is everyone else beneath you? you're just the gold person in the world that's perfect? you're better than everyone at everything, except that you wish you were a bit taller?

[Armourdillo]

Like how is it possible you did everything on and i never heard of you until today? when did you land on the moon, when did you win the super bowl? If you're the greatest biologist, is there a cure for cancer or aids? why not help develop it?

[Armourdillo]

do his coworkers all worship you too? or do they have girlfriend ans wives that are shit in comparison to you?

[Armourdillo]

what metric do you measure perfection? or is it a universal standard? non of this makes any sense

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo I don't know where you live, but based on your extremely sensitive views on shortness I'm guessing you are pretty isolated... and since I'm friends with their wives and girlfriends id regretfully admit that they are all more perfect than me as the shortest one is 5'4"... so woe is me

[Izumiblu]

really dude, lighten up... you shouldn't take things so seriously..

[Armourdillo]

how can more than one person be beyond perfect? and please explain how you became the best at everything there ever was?

[Armourdillo]

I live in new york

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo I'm curious... are you on the autism spectrum?

[Izumiblu]

if so, then I totally apologize for this entire thread...

[Armourdillo]

No I'm not, I'm asking for clarification in hyperbolic proportion to see how rigid this all is, and you keep agreeing. I keep giving you the benefit of the doubt, and you keep agreeing that live up to these impossible standards.

[Armourdillo]

that you live up*

[Armourdillo]

but right now I'm sure you're just passing you're phone around having laughs with all your perfect friends and your perfect 6'1 fiance at my expense calling me an autist. and i have to sit here feeling upset while you all have fun at my expense, right? I bet you didn't even ask if I'm on the spectrum, it was one of your perfect buddies right?

[Armourdillo]

Like if you were just fucking with me, you;re a fucked up person, i was trying to understand and learn how to be a better person, not get bullied by a "perfect" girl. IF you're serious and you mean something else, you're not clear AT ALL

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo no, I don't make fun of people behind their backs... and I don't pass my phone around, I just mock them to their faces mostly just ask @cosytoasty, but to be fair I take as much as I give here, he has already been mocking me on this thread... twice, but that's ok, I know he can't help it

[Armourdillo]

Then insinuate that I have autism?

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo no, I am attacking the fact that you keep projecting your world views of value on me and implying that I make value judgments of a person based on their height, which simply isn't true. My choice for a mate and my preferences there have nothing to do with a someone's value as a human being. I do not respect your attacks on me based on these value arguments and I will not add validity to them by acknowledging them. That being said, your responses and seeming misunderstanding of some of my abstract meanings indicates to me you might be on the autism spectrum... so you might wanna have that checked. Could be that English isn't your first language, I don't know.

[Armourdillo]

English is my first language but just just you feel im not reading you're messages correctly you may not be reading mine correctly or interpreting it in way i did not intend. I asked you if you there is anything in the world that you haven't done, and you no I was being serious and you may have been joking, i can't hear you're tone through text. So i feel attacked that you insinuate that i have autism based on on a misunderstanding instead of any physical proof.

[Armourdillo]

So why not just come out and say all that in first place, it feels like you trolled me and strung me along like this, saying that you can do all these impossible things and taking advantage that I'm basing what i say off the answers that you give me. This probably;y wasn't you're intention but it came off.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo ok... if you say so... just trying to help, you shouldn't insult people on the autism spectrum, I work with a girl that is absolutely brilliant, aspergers, sharp as a tack, hard worker, pretty and just an all around great person... she goes to therapy to help with some of the social quirks she has, but no one is perfect, not even me, if only I could solve my height problem

[Armourdillo]

If i tell you i was born in New York and English is my first language will you believe me? I'll post proper documentation if you need. As for the autism, am i autistic until proven not? Have you ever gotten tested or is it jab at me subtle enough so if i ask if it was a jab you can just say "I was genuinely curious"?

[Armourdillo]

I'M NOT insulting anyone on the autism spectrum, if anything aren't you for accusing people on the internet of having autism just because of misunderstandings?

[Armourdillo]

"ok... if you say so..." I'll send you picture of my birth certificate. because you sound like you're skeptical

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo for god sake... DO NOT FUCKING SEND ME ANYTHING... its only an insult if you believe that being on the Autistic spectrum is an insult to someone. I personally don't, so It makes me wonder why you seem so upset about it. Maybe you value an autistic person less or see them as something bad, I don't know. What I do know is that I know several people on the spectrum that I count among my friends and coworkers. They hold as much value as me as a human and I don't see it as an insult... so whatever. You are trying my patience, you are a judgmental, hypersensitive person. If you send me anything I will block you on the spot.

[Armourdillo]

How else do i prove English is my first language?

[Armourdillo]

Speaking to you only makes you believe it isn't. I don't see it as an insult, I find it offensive that you're insinuating that i am when I'm not> just like you're not convinced that English is my first language when it is.

[Armourdillo]

I'm sorry that when you said you where perfect, i assumed that you meant you were perfect. Like can't you see how it's confusing when you say that you're perfect then late you say you aren't?

[Armourdillo]

I'm confused why you question my English speaking abilities, and then where i am on the spectrum, but you don't want to look at the proof that shows what i am.

[Cosytoasty]

Holy chit... I thought with this many notifications I was popular suddenly...

@Izumiblu You're even more adorable than ever. I think this guy is either a maestro at the slow roll or he's genuinely confused lol.

@Armourdillo dude, how have to managed to escalate a simple comment about height preference into this long ass debate lol? Girls are entitled to date a man over 6 feet just as guys are entitled to date a woman under 150lbs. Everyone is free to choose who they date, let's just leave it at that.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo

"so when you walk around on the street and you see short guys with girls who would be taller than him if they worse heels, do you look down on them?"

If they're shorter than 5'4, yes, I do look down on them actually.

also - @izumiblu: wtf happened with this thread lol. I was expecting something short.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo really i don't care if English is your first second or third language, if you say its your first, its your first...

[Cosytoasty]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog At the risk of lighting another touch paper... how tall are YOU? 😝

[Izumiblu]

@Cosytoasty she sent me her birth certificate, it says she is 6'3"

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Cosytoasty Wth is a touch paper?

[Armourdillo]

No one's current height can be on their birth certificate.. unless their a few months old

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog I meant look down on in the sense of thinking you're better than them as human and they are beneath you in a social sense. Not Physically

[Armourdillo]

So should i send you mine? why does she get to send you documents to prove herself when i can't?

[Cosytoasty]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog English not your first language either huh... (@izumiblu c what I did there hur hur hur 😂)

It's something you light on fireworks, it's a fuse.

6'3 tho... damn you definitely eat your rice.

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo because she's awesome and you aren't

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo Look man. If a guy is that short, and doesn't want to make the sacrifice to gain a couple more inches, then he doesn't deserve consideration. Look at Vincent Freeman - in order to pursue his dream of traveling to outer space, he literally smashed his legs to let them heal up a few inches longer. You CAN overcome your height deficiency, but short guys who don't want to don't deserve anything. No pain, no gain!

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Cosytoasty Yeah, radioactive rice paddies dude. China. Smh.

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog how can you even say that... How do you just gain inches by natural means, it doesn't fucking work that way. I'm being serious can you please not troll me?

[Armourdillo]

@Cosytoasty It is my fucking first langue I DON' T SPEAK ANY OTHER LAUGUANGE

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo
"How do you just gain inches by natural means, it doesn't fucking work that way"

It's called puberty. During this time, all good little girls and boys shoot up a good amount of inches in height if they eat enough vegetables and do all their homework.

[Armourdillo]

I can;t fucking believe you literally bring in you're friends to take turns bullying me. It's so fucked that you you can just do that and you're going to get away with it, my day is fucking ruined and you're going to be having laughs and then do an hang out with your fucking fiance, you win, happy? You fucking win

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog you win, I'm sorry for w/e i did that is making you troll me.

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog Im 22 i passed puberty. I don't know if that was a serious comment. If it wasn't and it was a patronizing insult, it working, i feel bad, you win.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo Uhm, it was def serious. Look it up or just try it. Smashing your legs into pieces then letting them heal up is a method some people use to gain more inches in height.

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog please, please, please doing talk that to me. I'm begging. You win you proved you're point. Please stop.

[Armourdillo]

your* There's no way i can convince you that im a good person. I see that, but please stop gas lighting me.

[Cosytoasty]

@Armourdillo you sir, are a master of satire. I salute you 🖖

[Armourdillo]

@Cosytoasty I'm being serious. I'm crying right now, i just want to relax and calm down. You guys proved you're point. Please stop patronizing me.

[Armourdillo]

Thank you. Have a good night. Sorry.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo https://youtu.be/KXmU1Z8PNXk Look, there's a documentary about this.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

But no, it's actually a real thing. abcnews.go.com/.../story?id=15776730

[Izumiblu]

@Armourdillo... well I'm sorry that you feel badly, really I am, I hope you have a good day... if you want to have a conversation I am not opposed to having one... but when you challenge a persons values you should be prepared to have a hard discussion particularly when you try to imply that a person devalues others based on one microscopic question without context... if you can't handle a hard conversation don't attack peoples values... when you do attack them be prepared

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog You trivialized my issues and made me feel bad about myself, what else do you want? I don't know what else i can say to appease you. I'm sorry, please stop or tell me what else i need to do.

[Armourdillo]

I'm prepared to have a conversations, but when im being serious and im being told to force myself into puberty and being trolled and patronized, i just can't deal with it. There's nothing i can say or do to get back on point. Im sorry for provoking myself to have her do that to me

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo Don't ask questions, say that you'd "love to see if anyone actually is real", then get upset when people starting being real about it.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

@Armourdillo She didn't call me over to attack you... I'm not a dog. I just like to raid her threads.

[Armourdillo]

@TheLuckyPizzaDog How can i go through puberty again? I'm out of school now, i can eat vegetables but i can't do homework? I thought you were trolling, because it sounded outlandish.

[Mekara]

Of course. They guy I'm crushing on right now happens to be 5'5. Height isn't a major thing in my opinion.

[Bleh-___-]

Probably not. But I also don't preach anything. Everyone can have whatever preferences and standards they want

[bellpepprs]

No, if he was 5'5 or a little higher than yes. I don't date a 4'0 man because that would be kissing a child man

[cutielucie83]

well, seen as i'm 5' 11" no, I like him to be taller than me, it makes me feel safe for whatever reason

[Johnsmith119]

There are around only 40% men in america who are 5'11 and above.

[Anastasiya00]

im almost 5'7 so I dont think so. If I really liked everything else about him... maybe I dont know

[Amandont]

That's 165cm according to some online calculator.
... That's taller then me.
I like shorter people.
My girlfriend is 156cm (5'1")

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer guys that around my height so I would be perfectly fine with that :)
(I'm 5'5")

[Anonymous]

I've asked a similar question, girls are aware it's a double standard, but they really don't care. Why would they care if short guys feel hurt or left out? we're not real people to them.

[Opinion Owner]

literally if every short person killed themselves today, no girl would bat an eye

[Teenage_Elmo]

Yes. I would. I dated a guy that was 4'11

[maddy1093]

I'm 5'7 and I'm in love with a guy who's an inch or 2 shorter than me. Doesn't bother me much!!

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

5'5" is a HUGE penis length

[KaranSharma55]

wanna see the answers lol i am 5.6 by the way

[Loon309]

I'm 5'2"

[KaranSharma55]

don't worry height doesn't matter..

[Loon309]

Haha bullshit but I like your naivety. It's somewhat refreshing to meet someone diluted in this way.

[KaranSharma55]

Honesty just read the girls very rare looking for heights

[Rissyanne]

Everyone has their preferences.

[RachelleDraws]

Wouldn't date a guy at all.

[Kitten967]

Yeah I would, I have before.

[HonestGirlAlways]

I have before and it was no big deal

[miserybusiness]

oi as long as he's taller than my 5'0, I'm good

[Emmdk]

No but that's because that's my height so yeah.

[UnknownGagsUser]

Nope wouldn't date guys below 5"5 😈

[manmore]

I feel sorry for you. This world is not fair.

[disgustingweebtrash]

No because i'm not gay

[TheMoroccangirl]

No, he must be 175+

[Leah4245]

Yes. Because I'm 5,4

[lipsticklover]

yehaaa

[Bandit74]

Most wouldn't.

[macix670]

No I wouldn't.

[Anonymous]

I would never