How can a shy girl get a boyfriend in high school?

[Anonymous]

I'm PAINFULLY quiet!

[HikerDude]

Just start making eye contact with a guy and putting yourself in position to literally run into him. I had this quiet girl in my dorm constantly bump into me, like she would physically run into me in the hallway or laundry room. I finally realized she was painfully shy and trying to get my attention. It worked.

[Peachman]

You flirt with them and they should eventually take a hint and ask you out

[CXF95]

Join a club or sport and I can guarantee you'll meet a bunch of guys that have the same interests of you. Try not to go in with the mentality of "I'm looking for a bf" but rather just go to have fun and meet new people whether it be friends or possibly a boyfriend. Good luck :)

[Waterpop]

Dolll yourself up. Do your hair a little different. Wear noticeable clothes. The right guy will come along. Learn to talk by simply saying "hi" or a smile at a boy you like.

[bellpepprs]

You don't have to get a boyfriend, just because everyone else has one doesn't mean you have to force yourself to do so. There's nothing wrong with being single

[airin42]

Waiting. perhaps God put an unique guy who thinks "this shy and super quiet girl looks attractive for me". Who knows. Otherwise you change a bit

[zagor]

It can be difficult. I ran into a girl I knew in HS this summer; she was so hot in HS, but was very shy. I commented how I never went to a dance or anything in HS, and to my surprise she said she hadn't either.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Just write him a note and tell him how you feel about him
that's the only way you can communicate with him if your
real shy.

[eleanor95]

you can't be quiet, u have to talk to the guys u like. it doesn't just happen magically

[Ben_Dover]

Go in a group with your friends... friends make shy people more of an extrovert, from my experience. They may just give you the confidence you need

[CaptainSmartass]

Join a club, or revision class if your exams are coming up this year. You could meet someone by chance.

Simples...

[meganthemenace]

Try to make him notice you, swallow your pride, and engage in conversation.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Easily, shy girls have no problem at all, shy guys have problems

[GirlThatDraws]

Either get out of your comfort zone or just stay shy.

[Pizzalover101]

Just find what your good at an do it so many are in school

[JosyJosy]

practice on being louder

[dexterlecter]

wait for a guy be nice be you and choose wise.

[laila23]

just talk to them more

[Nahid1234]

She can, she is capable to 😊

[praveenchows]

practice make man perfect😁😁

[KaranSharma55]

Wait for guy to approach you

[BertMacklinFBI]

try.

[Anonymous]

You can't get boyfriend, boyfriend will get you.

[Daisuki]

It doesn't happen😥

[omgjassy]

By talking to people

[king34]

stop being shy, u have to get past that

[Asker]

I can't really change it

[Rojaasu]

trust me you can it's going to give you crippling anxiety at first but once you move past that you will find it easier to speak to people get help from friends to make things more casual that's what I do to get to know girls

[Asker]

But I have chronic social anxiety

[Rojaasu]

so did I it means nothing once you force yourself to speak more often to people don't speak to everyone just speak to one person at a time just start with girls then once you build up confidence which will take awhile speak to guys

[Asker]

You never had it if it went away. Anxiety never goes away.

[Rojaasu]

try explaining that to my psychiatrist who was prescribing me pills to deal with it

[king34]

there's always a choice

[Asker]

Pills can relieve symptoms, but the illness still remains

[Rojaasu]

well look you have two options stay the way you are and stay lonely and single because you won't be noticed by anyone and will be irrelevant or take my advice and take a shot at having a boyfriend it's up to you but guys will not fall for a girl who never talks

[GirlThatDraws]

Excuses.