He's not my type but I'm strangely attracted to him?

[brittney_22]

So there's this guy that I'm pretty sure likes me. It's really obvious. He's very kind and sweet. I'm really drawn to him but there's something that's holding me back. He's not very attractive. Well at least not what I find attractive. And he's also 9 years older than me which kind of freaks me out. I'm just not sure if I should "give him a chance" or whatever. Like what if he's the love my life but my stupid opinions are holding me back from giving him a chance? I've also never been in a relationship so I have like zero clues about guys. What should I do?

[Buttersky]

Kinda same scenario for me. Tho I was holding back because I was still in fantasy land about an ex. Yet the more I spend with him the more handsome he became for me. And now we are dating and I feel like I reach the starts when I'm with him. So maybe hang out with him, give it a try. Talk to him. Tell him u want to take it slow and see how it goes.

[Anonymous]

the age difference is the thing that gets to me the most but appearance shouldn't matter but I wish you posted a picture I don't think he's worth but I don't know follow your heart I guess I don't know what else to say sorry

[NerdInDenial]

Give him a shot