I don't think it's transphobic, especially considering the fact that they hid it from me for a very long time whenI thought I was with a natural woman.
not wanting to date someone solely because they are trans is transphobic. and she didn't hide anything from you. if it would upset you then you should disclose that you're transphobic and want to make sure someone isn't trans before your seen out in public with them before any sort of date
@Kymber So what makes someone the opposite of "transphobic"? Forcing people to date you? You seem like a sensitive cry baby who can't accept that people have different preferences. You also act so entitled and think that because you're trans it means guys must date you by force.
no. i´d be understanding and thank him that he told me so early on but i´d end it right there. i´d be really angry at him if he told me way further into dating.
Stop. That is entirely uncalled for. Violence against trans women is very serious and very real. Please be an adult and do not punch anyone.
No one coerced you. You decided to go on those dates you decided to text her. Literally all she did was tell you that she was born male and you decide to punch her that's completely ridiculous.
No you meet her get her number and decide to go on a date together. Then before the second date she discloses her trans status. Like also don't be a freak and punch anyone! Also if she's had bottom surgery then she's at least a year on hormones and you could very well seriously injure her, I know trans women who are 125 pounds soaking wet, you punch her?
Dude your hate is so overwhelming. Personally if I heard of a guy I knew punching a trans woman for find out she is trans, I would personally beat them half to death the next time I seen them. I would make it bad and probably break a few of his bones. Might even lay the boots to his nuts while he is on the ground. The entire beating I'd just be yelling about how he is a small minded closeted homosexual who only got so mad in the first place because he is jealous and actually wants dick. You are a pathetic excuse of a person.
Oh and I have nothing against gays. But you know I identify as a black t rex. And these days you can obviously just choose what you are. I'm also ten ft 8 and black with blonde hair.
@Kymber I really dislike violence against women when it isn't warrented and any sort of violence acts on anyone because they are different or is fueled by hate. Most people like that would only do so because they know they have a physical advantage over the person. I mean he can easily punch a 125lbs woman, but doubt he is so willing to square off against someone his size or bigger. It shows he is just a wuss who is willing to use violence to make himself feel better about himself. So in learning that I would be willing and would have to teach him how it feels to be on the other side of it.
@TheAshCooper Trans and gay people don't really have a choice. You're just so closed minded you see it that way. Call yourself a T-Rex if you want. I'll call you transphobic and a giant IDIOT. Also maybe an angry closet homosexual. The difference tho with you is you do get to choose to be those things or not.
Well I'm black and a t rex cause I don't have a choice. Deal with it. World full of pussys that's what we live in. Glad there is no alien invasion cause we won't be saved by you lot
Man you are a fucking retard! That is what you can't change. Call me a pussy all you want I don't care. I know I'm not. You are. Seeing you said you would hit a woman because of your own insecurities. Also good for you there is no alien invasion because I would not be willing to save your stupid, homo and transphobic ass. Hell maybe when they are sticking a probe up your ass you will realize not to be so judgmental of others. Because at thst point you don't have much a choice about getting your ass stuffed. Or are you planning on punching the aliens too because their probes are to gay for you?
Oh yeah. You feminists wants equality. But can't deal... I remember now. So sorry for having balls as big as my dick and an actual equal view. Godamn your a close minded cunt. If men are women this ginger is black. So I can say n** now all day. Cause I'm black? Oh yeah I'm not and men aren't women. Grow the fuck up
Cool dude. Just don't be surprised when people think you are a piece of shit and in turn punch you. Or beat you to a bloody pulp. Also she didn't lie dumbass!
You mean he didn't lie? Ahahahahhahahahha bullshit oh yeah and find someone to beat me. I dare you. Google my name fam you'll see why people don't. I will actually kill you. Not you literally. But anyone step me fam. Naw. Naw blud. Bet your a yank you have to be. Pussy
I'm not a feminist, far from it. I'm just not a jackass. Fuck sake you said you would punch someone pretty much because they are different and didn't live up to your ideals. You're clearly not smart enough to understand the situation so I am done arguing with you because it is a waste of my time. You're going to be a jackass regardless. I just hope people aren't unlucky enough to have to deal with you for real. My advice to you is to keep your ideas to yourself, I honestly think they could get you hurt. Also work on whatever issues you have in terms of your trans and homophobia, I honestly think there might be something there.
Cool. Looked you up. A shitty country music playing Brit. I'll take that bet. I'll choose me. Just give me an address. Or would you rather me just Google that too. Also don't ever say you will kill me, literally or not. I'm not stupid enough to make threats like that on here. But I ensure you that it would go the other way my friend.
Just because you are so interested I'm a metal head Canuck who likes motorcycles and have physically fixed other people's stupid before.
Does a transwoman get periods? Does a transwoman have a uterus? Does a transwoman have 2X chromosomes? can they make babies in their bellies? Their far from being a woman.
Actually we get period symptoms from hormones by the way. No and some cis women dont either. No and some cis women dont either. No and some cis women can't either. I really dont think youve thought very hard on the concept of what makes a woman a woman.
The female species of humans are born with uterus and they can make babies. Some females can be infertile but they're still females nonetheless, because they were born with a vagina. They naturally produce estrogen. A boy who takes artificial, external hormones will always be a boy. He was born with a penis. He had testicles. He has the DNA of a man. He will never be a woman. Symptoms of periods don't equal periods. You don't even have an egg inside you.
An XX chromosome pair is necessary to be female. Anyone with an XY is male, even if they've had themselves mutilated and they take hormones. Cutting the antlers off a deer and giving it dog hormones doesn't make it a dog. A man cutting his pecker off and taking estrogen turns him into... a man with no pecker, who takes estrogen, and has mental health problems.
I would be with pre-op trans girl only if she is more beautiful and sexy than most of female regular girls and if she has small penis that is dead and flat and it is enough small it isn't noticable in thongs.
I can understand preference in the sense of genitalia. however a preference for someones past is unreasonable and not a preference so much as an out to not have to interact with someone for the sole fact of being trans.
UPDATE on your update. Not wanting to date a person with Gender Dysphoria is NOT transphobic. It's a preference not to date someone mentally ill, just like any other. You are essentially saying that regular people who don't date people with Down Syndrome are DisabledPhobic. Even though YOU yourself would likely not date someone mentally challenged. EVERYONE (including yourself) has dating preferences. That doesn't make the options you don't like a phobia. FFS.
++ Trans women are NOT women, Trans men are NOT men. Chromosomes don't change with your appearance and your doctor would agree.
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I'd say "sorry, but I can't be with you"
I don't care if someone is trans, but I want to be with a pure natural born straight woman.
I don't think it's transphobic, especially considering the fact that they hid it from me for a very long time whenI thought I was with a natural woman.
not wanting to date someone solely because they are trans is transphobic. and she didn't hide anything from you. if it would upset you then you should disclose that you're transphobic and want to make sure someone isn't trans before your seen out in public with them before any sort of date
@Kymber
So what makes someone the opposite of "transphobic"? Forcing people to date you? You seem like a sensitive cry baby who can't accept that people have different preferences. You also act so entitled and think that because you're trans it means guys must date you by force.
No, because that's a man taking exogenous hormones thinking he's a girl. I'm straight and I'm not attracted to men, so I would not date him.
There is no such thing as a trans girl.
They are males who have been mutilated surgically, to indulge their mental illness.
We could be friends, but I would not want to continue seeing them.
Even tho you like her? Do you mind if I ask why her having been born with a penis would deter you from pursuing a relationship?
a) still feel weird about if and would not be able to get over it
b) I want biological children
how would you feel about a cis girl whos infertile
Wouldn't be with her either
Probably not. It's nothing against her, it's just not what I want.
Do you mind if I ask what you mean? What's not what you want?
I don't want a girl who is trans, is all. People who are cool with that, totally fine. Just not my preference.
no. i´d be understanding and thank him that he told me so early on but i´d end it right there. i´d be really angry at him if he told me way further into dating.
I'd rather roll around in pitch, and then get lit on fire rather than date a tranny... srs.
No, I want children which the trans girl cannot produce.
Is it because she's trans? What if a cis girl told you she was infertile on the second date?
Second date? Ghosted
Jk i'm not that mean but i'd tell her why I wouldn't want to pursue her and hope that it doesn't upset her ;-;
i like the person, not her past : her past made her what she is and i like what she is
No. I personally would be horrified. A for being coerced. And assuming it was a ladyboy because I'm straight. I'd still punch him
Stop. That is entirely uncalled for. Violence against trans women is very serious and very real. Please be an adult and do not punch anyone.
No one coerced you. You decided to go on those dates you decided to text her. Literally all she did was tell you that she was born male and you decide to punch her that's completely ridiculous.
The description said after talking and the first date. Then I find out I'm being catfished by a man.
Ps. A man... So yes I would punch him.
No you meet her get her number and decide to go on a date together. Then before the second date she discloses her trans status. Like also don't be a freak and punch anyone! Also if she's had bottom surgery then she's at least a year on hormones and you could very well seriously injure her, I know trans women who are 125 pounds soaking wet, you punch her?
Yes. and if a woman tried to hurt me or hit me. I'd slap her back too. Equality right?
Dude your hate is so overwhelming. Personally if I heard of a guy I knew punching a trans woman for find out she is trans, I would personally beat them half to death the next time I seen them. I would make it bad and probably break a few of his bones. Might even lay the boots to his nuts while he is on the ground. The entire beating I'd just be yelling about how he is a small minded closeted homosexual who only got so mad in the first place because he is jealous and actually wants dick. You are a pathetic excuse of a person.
@LeoLionEye damn, and i was just gonna let his vileness discredit his argument haha
I'd punch a man. For lying about their sex to me. Yes I'd feel violated. And that's fair under the description.
Oh and I have nothing against gays. But you know I identify as a black t rex. And these days you can obviously just choose what you are. I'm also ten ft 8 and black with blonde hair.
@Kymber I really dislike violence against women when it isn't warrented and any sort of violence acts on anyone because they are different or is fueled by hate. Most people like that would only do so because they know they have a physical advantage over the person. I mean he can easily punch a 125lbs woman, but doubt he is so willing to square off against someone his size or bigger. It shows he is just a wuss who is willing to use violence to make himself feel better about himself. So in learning that I would be willing and would have to teach him how it feels to be on the other side of it.
@TheAshCooper Trans and gay people don't really have a choice. You're just so closed minded you see it that way. Call yourself a T-Rex if you want. I'll call you transphobic and a giant IDIOT. Also maybe an angry closet homosexual. The difference tho with you is you do get to choose to be those things or not.
Well I'm black and a t rex cause I don't have a choice. Deal with it. World full of pussys that's what we live in. Glad there is no alien invasion cause we won't be saved by you lot
Man you are a fucking retard! That is what you can't change. Call me a pussy all you want I don't care. I know I'm not. You are. Seeing you said you would hit a woman because of your own insecurities. Also good for you there is no alien invasion because I would not be willing to save your stupid, homo and transphobic ass. Hell maybe when they are sticking a probe up your ass you will realize not to be so judgmental of others. Because at thst point you don't have much a choice about getting your ass stuffed. Or are you planning on punching the aliens too because their probes are to gay for you?
I said I'd hit a man. For lying. And I would. And tbh. I'd hit a woman for hitting me. Gender equality. Get over it blud
Oh yeah. You feminists wants equality. But can't deal... I remember now. So sorry for having balls as big as my dick and an actual equal view. Godamn your a close minded cunt. If men are women this ginger is black. So I can say n** now all day. Cause I'm black? Oh yeah I'm not and men aren't women. Grow the fuck up
Cool dude. Just don't be surprised when people think you are a piece of shit and in turn punch you. Or beat you to a bloody pulp.
Also she didn't lie dumbass!
You mean he didn't lie? Ahahahahhahahahha bullshit oh yeah and find someone to beat me. I dare you. Google my name fam you'll see why people don't. I will actually kill you. Not you literally. But anyone step me fam. Naw. Naw blud. Bet your a yank you have to be. Pussy
I'm not a feminist, far from it. I'm just not a jackass. Fuck sake you said you would punch someone pretty much because they are different and didn't live up to your ideals. You're clearly not smart enough to understand the situation so I am done arguing with you because it is a waste of my time. You're going to be a jackass regardless. I just hope people aren't unlucky enough to have to deal with you for real. My advice to you is to keep your ideas to yourself, I honestly think they could get you hurt. Also work on whatever issues you have in terms of your trans and homophobia, I honestly think there might be something there.
Cool. Looked you up. A shitty country music playing Brit. I'll take that bet. I'll choose me. Just give me an address. Or would you rather me just Google that too. Also don't ever say you will kill me, literally or not. I'm not stupid enough to make threats like that on here. But I ensure you that it would go the other way my friend.
Just because you are so interested I'm a metal head Canuck who likes motorcycles and have physically fixed other people's stupid before.
It's a shame I'm not stupid. As my point remains unanswered for a reason.
I'm sorry I've lost track by now, what is your point? Succinctly, I will address it.
Doesn't take much for this man to hit anyone.
Not a friendly person. @LeoLionEye...
He worse in real life.
Post op, yes. Pre op about to get one, yes. Not gonna get an op, no
Nope, i'm a straight man.
Does a transwoman get periods? Does a transwoman have a uterus? Does a transwoman have 2X chromosomes? can they make babies in their bellies?
Their far from being a woman.
Actually we get period symptoms from hormones by the way. No and some cis women dont either. No and some cis women dont either. No and some cis women can't either. I really dont think youve thought very hard on the concept of what makes a woman a woman.
The female species of humans are born with uterus and they can make babies. Some females can be infertile but they're still females nonetheless, because they were born with a vagina. They naturally produce estrogen. A boy who takes artificial, external hormones will always be a boy.
He was born with a penis. He had testicles. He has the DNA of a man. He will never be a woman.
Symptoms of periods don't equal periods. You don't even have an egg inside you.
The cases I know of where "cis" women don't have a uterus it's because they have had them removed due to cancer or other disease.
Like-Me: "Does a transwoman have 2X chromosomes?"
Kymber: "o and some cis women dont either."
Name one woman that does not have two x chromosomes.
@rocksongwriter
ain't no point in arguing with these anti science creatures.
An XX chromosome pair is necessary to be female. Anyone with an XY is male, even if they've had themselves mutilated and they take hormones. Cutting the antlers off a deer and giving it dog hormones doesn't make it a dog. A man cutting his pecker off and taking estrogen turns him into... a man with no pecker, who takes estrogen, and has mental health problems.
This convo is gold. Glad some people still have a brain. Worlds going to shit with this trans trash
It doesn't matter as long as she is interested in me.
I would be with pre-op trans girl only if she is more beautiful and sexy than most of female regular girls and if she has small penis that is dead and flat and it is enough small it isn't noticable in thongs.
Probably not, honestly. Just a preference not a judgment.
I dont know a straight man that would go out with a trans girl.
I don't have to there are enough men on here who says they wouldn't be with a tranny.
So you want to bully into someone dating you? People have preferences.
I can understand preference in the sense of genitalia. however a preference for someones past is unreasonable and not a preference so much as an out to not have to interact with someone for the sole fact of being trans.
It is not their past. It is who they really are. People can have preferences. If someone isn't attracted to you... move on.
There are many i would
Yeah.. I liked a trans boy once.. but it didn't work out
Nope.
For me, a female is born with XY chromosomes. That will never change regardless of what claims are made on the outside appearance.
That's interesting. For me, a female is born with XX chromosomes.
@rocksongwriter haha, thank you for commenting before I got to it
@rocksongwriter Simple misnomer... unless you are missing a chromosome, you should have got the point.
UPDATE on your update.
Not wanting to date a person with Gender Dysphoria is NOT transphobic.
It's a preference not to date someone mentally ill, just like any other.
You are essentially saying that regular people who don't date people with Down Syndrome are DisabledPhobic. Even though YOU yourself would likely not date someone mentally challenged.
EVERYONE (including yourself) has dating preferences. That doesn't make the options you don't like a phobia. FFS.
++ Trans women are NOT women, Trans men are NOT men. Chromosomes don't change with your appearance and your doctor would agree.
I know it was a misnomer and I did get the point. Still wanted to make the joke, though.
Hell no
actually trans should say they are trannies justafter hello
I still would date her