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More specifically are you against dating a transwoman, and would there be anything they should do (like tell you, be passing, SRS, whatever). I am curious to see what people would want
Would you date a transwoman?
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I would never. I pay a lot of attention and have yhus far always been sble to tell but they are getting better. As for telling, I believe they should be legally required to. Philosophically Because of the fact that they are genetically male I believe it is rape If they do not let the male straight partners know. I don't care What they think they are But you having sex with somebody under false pretenses is wrong. XY is a guy no matter how they look or feel. And I can't imagine That they will ever perform a medical procedure That will make them taste like a real woman. It is not a real vagina but a penis turned inside out So all you're doing is rubbing penises
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Yes I would date one. Being in the military and traveling to different countries I have seen lots of TS that are beautiful. You won't even know the differance even if they were naked in front of you. Brazil has the most of TS. Now a days people accept gay people. Why can you not accept a transsexual. I have yet to be with one. It's a taboo that no guy would admit to it. Just like they won't admit to watch gay porn. I for care if I'm in violation of the guy code. I call B. S. when guys say they are not curious. Let look at the history on guys browsers and see. Or look up porn hub polls on what men search and you will see the truth on it.
So, someone attracted to femininity who meets this woman should think twice because of the inches on her pelvis that dangle outwards? She's kind, sensual, loving, sexy, charming, witty, but we're gonna boil it all down to inches of skin? Are you serious?
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Ok, so, I have known many transwomen, at various stages of surgery and I just still haven't been attracted to any of them yet. I keep an open mind.
Transmen? OH man - so many gorgeous transmen out there. Nummers.
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Sure, I'm fine with it. I'd rather they were open about it to me, as I'd be open to them about my sexuality, but I'm not really fussed.
I would date a pre op transwoman who would never get the surgery
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I met this girl she was really sweet and cute. One evening when we were messing around and bantering a little via whatsapp, she asked me how I would react if she was a transwoman. I told her she's way to beautiful to have a body that used to be a male once. She didn't reply for a while and then started with a different topic. The next week she started to be more distant. I asked her what was wrong and she simply answered "I dont want to hurt you". I found that really weird. She was also visiting the doctor really often but I thought she was simply sick. But now that I start combining everything, it might be possible that she was. But then I wouldve hurt her anyways because I can't deal with that. So its good that she cut off the contact.
The way I see it is that there are aspects of transwomen that might reduce their chances on me dating them. First of all, Trans women can't have children with me. Secondly, I am not usually as attracted to trans women physically or emotionally. That being said, I find it hard to write off a whole group of people and say that it could never ever happen, unfortunately it is just highly unlikely.
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She’s a woman, and if she had a solid personality (i. e.:don’t be racist or homophobic or fascist) then sure, I’d date a trans woman. I’d like to know if she is trans or not, but it’s not important unless she is taking estrogen and there’s side effects I need to know about or if she gets sick from something to take her to the right doc. Genitals don’t matter. Passing is a personal preference but in a lot of places it’s also about safety. Either way, yes.
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To be honest, I am attracted to femininity so a trans woman would need to be passing for me to be attracted to her. But besides that if she is the type of person I'm attracted to (personality / mentally) then being transgender isn't a negative factor for me. I would appreciate the openness of letting me know if she's passing so well that I can't tell at first.
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There is no such thing. There are men who pretend to be women, and will even mutilate their bodies to support their fantasy. But they cannot change their chromosomes and are and will always be male.
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Never. It is a guy and that is gay. They should tell the person up front before doing anything with them.
If they didn't tell me and tricked me into kissing or anything, they would get a severe beating.
If they told me up front, I would be polite and just say no thanks, or I'm not interested. Myself I wouldn’t date one due to the fact of knowing in my head of we were once the same in gender... but by any means I am a firm believer of letting someone know that information prior to any physical activity beyond a hug.
3.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I am only interested in 100% genetic females with OEM female parts. Nothing aftermarket - no bold-ons.
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Allow me to word that question for you appropriately:
"Would you date a man?"
No. The answer is no. I would not date a man FUCK NO, I will NEVER date a man. Any man who does that is GAY! I LOVE pussy! Those confused people need labels on them.
No. I respect transgender people's identity and I'd refer to them by the pronouns they identify with but even with SRS, I honestly can't get over the physical aspect that they're a genetic male.
I'd sooner sleep with a woman transing into a guy than a guy transing into a woman
And yes, they have to be honest. Right away.
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Yes, I'd be fine with that. If I am attracted to someone, their genitals don't matter much to me. We can make it work either way.
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Not a guy but I had this convo with my FTM friend about how I'd prefer a biologically born male. He was surprisingly understanding.
No because I don't consider them to be women no matter how "passing" they are.
No I would not date a man even if they took steps to look like a woman, because that's how they "feel".
Chromosomes don't care about your feelings.1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I want someone who was born a woman and identifies as a woman, no exceptions.
2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No I couldn't. I want my partner to have a born-woman's body that is naturally capable of having children
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I'm going to assume you mean a post-op M-F transsexual and not a drag queen. Sure; no worries.
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I would not date a transwoman and if for some reason I could not tell and they did not tell me I would be quite angry.
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