Would you date a transwoman?

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More specifically are you against dating a transwoman, and would there be anything they should do (like tell you, be passing, SRS, whatever). I am curious to see what people would want

TheCunningLinguist · Accepted Answer

I would never. I pay a lot of attention and have yhus far always been sble to tell but they are getting better. As for telling, I believe they should be legally required to. Philosophically Because of the fact that they are genetically male I believe it is rape If they do not let the male straight partners know. I don't care What they think they are But you having sex with somebody under false pretenses is wrong. XY is a guy no matter how they look or feel. And I can't imagine That they will ever perform a medical procedure That will make them taste like a real woman. It is not a real vagina but a penis turned inside out So all you're doing is rubbing penises

wysiwyg2525 · Accepted Answer

Yes I would date one. Being in the military and traveling to different countries I have seen lots of TS that are beautiful. You won't even know the differance even if they were naked in front of you. Brazil has the most of TS. Now a days people accept gay people. Why can you not accept a transsexual. I have yet to be with one. It's a taboo that no guy would admit to it. Just like they won't admit to watch gay porn. I for care if I'm in violation of the guy code. I call B. S. when guys say they are not curious. Let look at the history on guys browsers and see. Or look up porn hub polls on what men search and you will see the truth on it.

Kellykelkelltik · Accepted Answer

So, someone attracted to femininity who meets this woman should think twice because of the inches on her pelvis that dangle outwards? She's kind, sensual, loving, sexy, charming, witty, but we're gonna boil it all down to inches of skin? Are you serious?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ok, so, I have known many transwomen, at various stages of surgery and I just still haven't been attracted to any of them yet. I keep an open mind.

Transmen? OH man - so many gorgeous transmen out there. Nummers.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

Sure, I'm fine with it. I'd rather they were open about it to me, as I'd be open to them about my sexuality, but I'm not really fussed.

MayBlythe · Accepted Answer

I would date a pre op transwoman who would never get the surgery

dizmuhjam · Answer

I met this girl she was really sweet and cute. One evening when we were messing around and bantering a little via whatsapp, she asked me how I would react if she was a transwoman. I told her she's way to beautiful to have a body that used to be a male once. She didn't reply for a while and then started with a different topic. The next week she started to be more distant. I asked her what was wrong and she simply answered "I dont want to hurt you". I found that really weird. She was also visiting the doctor really often but I thought she was simply sick. But now that I start combining everything, it might be possible that she was. But then I wouldve hurt her anyways because I can't deal with that. So its good that she cut off the contact.

Matt21 · Answer

The way I see it is that there are aspects of transwomen that might reduce their chances on me dating them. First of all, Trans women can't have children with me. Secondly, I am not usually as attracted to trans women physically or emotionally. That being said, I find it hard to write off a whole group of people and say that it could never ever happen, unfortunately it is just highly unlikely.

dishsoapaquarium · Answer

She’s a woman, and if she had a solid personality (i. e.:don’t be racist or homophobic or fascist) then sure, I’d date a trans woman. I’d like to know if she is trans or not, but it’s not important unless she is taking estrogen and there’s side effects I need to know about or if she gets sick from something to take her to the right doc. Genitals don’t matter. Passing is a personal preference but in a lot of places it’s also about safety. Either way, yes.

AustinTXGuy · Answer

To be honest, I am attracted to femininity so a trans woman would need to be passing for me to be attracted to her. But besides that if she is the type of person I'm attracted to (personality / mentally) then being transgender isn't a negative factor for me. I would appreciate the openness of letting me know if she's passing so well that I can't tell at first.

WalterRadio · Answer

There is no such thing. There are men who pretend to be women, and will even mutilate their bodies to support their fantasy. But they cannot change their chromosomes and are and will always be male.

TGs are lying SOBs that should be jailed.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Never. It is a guy and that is gay. They should tell the person up front before doing anything with them.
If they didn't tell me and tricked me into kissing or anything, they would get a severe beating.
If they told me up front, I would be polite and just say no thanks, or I'm not interested.

MecheD · Answer

Myself I wouldn’t date one due to the fact of knowing in my head of we were once the same in gender... but by any means I am a firm believer of letting someone know that information prior to any physical activity beyond a hug.

MrOracle · Answer

I am only interested in 100% genetic females with OEM female parts. Nothing aftermarket - no bold-ons.

IneffectiveMilkshake · Answer

Allow me to word that question for you appropriately: "Would you date a man?" No. The answer is no. I would not date a man

ITKing · Answer

FUCK NO, I will NEVER date a man. Any man who does that is GAY! I LOVE pussy! Those confused people need labels on them.

SebShaw82 · Answer

No. I respect transgender people's identity and I'd refer to them by the pronouns they identify with but even with SRS, I honestly can't get over the physical aspect that they're a genetic male.

Atreyu · Answer

I'd sooner sleep with a woman transing into a guy than a guy transing into a woman And yes, they have to be honest. Right away. Like, before the first date

decomposingdoll · Answer

Yes, I'd be fine with that. If I am attracted to someone, their genitals don't matter much to me. We can make it work either way.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Not a guy but I had this convo with my FTM friend about how I'd prefer a biologically born male. He was surprisingly understanding.

englisc · Answer

No because I don't consider them to be women no matter how "passing" they are.

vjedi · Answer

No I would not date a man even if they took steps to look like a woman, because that's how they "feel".  Chromosomes don't care about your feelings.

Bandit74 · Answer

I want someone who was born a woman and identifies as a woman, no exceptions.

Prof_Don · Answer

No I couldn't. I want my partner to have a born-woman's body that is naturally capable of having children

taleswapper · Answer

I'm going to assume you mean a post-op M-F transsexual and not a drag queen. Sure; no worries.

HamAndCheese · Answer

It's not happening. No matter how hard it tries it will always be second to a real woman.

swampfawkes · Answer

I would not date a transwoman and if for some reason I could not tell and they did not tell me I would be quite angry.

MrBuff5 · Answer

Real woman only for sure. Not just the female parts, but what's in the brain. (Reply if you want more info)

TallGuy96 · Answer

If the doctors said her "original" sex was a woman but somehow her body fucked up then yes, other than that no

Anonymous · Answer

I might. But I just don't know. I never was in that situation. So I really don't know.

oksurething · Answer

I am specifically against it because I don't know what the fuck it means.

Sabretooth · Answer

passing but prefer non ops. not gay or bi but that makes them unique. plus, SRS is known for giving poor results.

Djaaay · Answer

No , and why would anyone consider a trans over the real thing ? That's just oxymoron

vade343 · Answer

A trans woman is a guy so yes that would be an issue.

Anonymous · Answer

i really don't even know. if she's pretty and i like her then maybe, but, and this is a huge but, i wouldn't wanna tell anybody that she is trans.

Listening5 · Answer

Not at all. Only real women.

El_Prez · Answer

No I would not date a transwoman.

ThisAndThat · Answer

Not no, not n, o, but H*** to the NO!

Anonymous · Answer

No. To many a trans women is not a real women

lumberjack84 · Answer

Yes, it's a woman. :) Nothing change for me.

evenlift · Answer

No, I wouldn't.

ouroborosidiot · Answer

Nope. I wouldn't.

rjroy3 · Answer

No lol.

RidingForever2 · Answer

No..

LeeKenz · Answer

Yes I would

Aguamarina · Answer

Nope. Never.

Anonymous · Answer

no but i would have sex with them

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Nope.

CT_CD · Answer

I would not

Lumberman53 · Answer

Absolutely not

Water_Bottle · Answer

Against.

Daedraprince97 · Answer

Yes I would

Anonymous · Answer

Never

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