Girls, is it true once you go black you never go back?

[Zazarax]

When dating black men is this statement true?

Yes

No

[SammyL]

I did date a black guy for a year and a half. Great guy, but he got accepted to a good university far away from mine. We both decided against a long distance relationship.
I've dated one guy since then, and he was white, so I suppose I did go back.
It was never about race for either of them. Compatible personalities, shared interests, mutual attraction are good things to base a relationship on.

[Anonymous]

I used to only date Mexicans and then I dated a white guy, super weird tbh. Then I dated a black guy and he was cool. Not my type. But cool. When we broke up I went back to a Mexican and when me and that Mexican didn’t work out, I ended up with the guy I’m with now, who is white. So. Once you go black, it’s your own personal decision on if you go back or not.

[RayaJ]

I dated many black guys when I was younger. My kids are black but now my boyfriend is Korean and Irish. Talk about one extreme to the other right!

[Opinion Owner]

Right! I used to only like Mexicans and now I’m with someone who isn’t a Mexican & he’s surprised I’m still with him because he’s not Mexican. I’ve dated at least 5 Mexicans, and he’s the second white guy I’ve dated. My dad still doesn’t know I dated a black guy, and it’s better that way. My family is a little racist, so. It’s been like a personal battle for me. Like. I’m thinking ‘hmmm. They hate every race but white. Let me date someone who isn’t white to piss them off.’ It works.

[RayaJ]

Well, I come from a Strict, Italian, religious catholic family who are also racist. I caused all kinds of hell having two black kids! Let me tell ya! After that, the Asian guy was looking real good to them! Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Now, they can’t say anything to me because I’m dating a white guy! But. They’re very religious, southern baptist. And it states in the Bible no premarital sex & everything, and my dad made me take my boyfriend home tonight because I kissed his cheek. And I got to ranting and I was like ‘lol. He’s mad because I kissed his cheek. Little does he know, we’ve done a lot more.’ Like. Him & I have been together for 9 months & my dad said we are getting too comfortable because I kissed his cheek? But. It’s whatever?

[RayaJ]

Let me guess, you have to hang out in the live room or the kitchen when he comes over... And only when you parents are home.. Lol! I'm having deja vu! I'm so glad I have my own place now!

[Opinion Owner]

Yep! Living room or kitchen! When we hang out at his house though, his parents send us down to the basement, and we watch movies down there. They don’t bother us, but my dad messes with us the whole time. So. I prefer going over there. His family is great.

[RayaJ]

Of course! Wherever there is more freedom. That's where you go!

[Opinion Owner]

Right! My dad is actually insane, getting mad at me for kissing his cheek. Like. I can get it if I was laying all over him and making out with him. But. I kissed his cheek. But his parents are so much more chill. And I appreciate that.

[RayaJ]

Yeah, that's crazy!

[Janee112]

Not at all. The assumption of this was a narrative made by males about women because of black men's representation in porn being how it is. Porn is not real life, and real life sexual stereotypes for the most part only exist because of porn, or very very very very small difference in scientific studies a few times of the bunch people use that as their concensus without thinking about possible reasoning. I've dated every race but Asian (but have found many Asian men wildly attractive), and there is literally no difference in stereotypical appeal sexually and emotionally because of race. The only outstanding and well above the rest guy was a very unassuming white guy who I dated in my late teens to early twenties. Moral of the story is thay race stereotypes are extremely dumb, u aren't something your not all because of your race, and sexualizing someone else's race because of an industry that's taking over your perception of reality is even worse. Everyone is their own individual, treat them that way and don't assume things about how they will act / how they will appeal to you all because of stereotypes with no real merit.

[katiesmuff]

Even though I only dated black guys and ended up marrying one, not every woman who dates a black man doesn't also date other races as well. Just another stereotype that is totally untrue.

[LunaJ]

i was always thinking it's about hair color. simple cos the fact that we don't have blacks here. (or actually so few that maybe you meet 1 during the year)

[Annie_Mosity]

Yes, totally true. Sadly I lost my virginity to a black man and I live in an albino village... I will never find love again...

[LaurenGrace]

No... i have a couple of black friends and some white friends that i fuck from time to time.. but my husband is the best sex i ever have

[gr33nlov3r]

My first kid was by a black man, my second by a white man. This statement has really just turned into something to say. No truth behind it.

[CHARismatic110]

No. Not true. You do end up in a wheelchair tho. 😁

[MissMonstaz]

I've dated a black guy and also other races and I can't say that, no, this statement isn't true lol

[anmari2001]

When the heck this os true?

[lareina05]

It's just for the rhyme