Is virginity important to you?

Question

Do you prefer you partner virgin? If yes, would you wait until wedding? If no, is it because they are not experimented? What are your reasons?

zzzondarrr · Accepted Answer

Yes!
I myself am 24 and still a virgin, and I will remain until I find a girl I know I will spend the rest of my life with, and I feel so strongly that she has to be a virgin too, and I don’t really know why, it's somehow just so deeply written in my heart, I just think it's so important, and I’m not actually religious at all, it's just as I was born with it... I just so deeply believe in one love only, that when you have multiple partners you simply can't bond that much with any of them, I just feel it as a form of cheating... And I think I can see the difference between virgin and non-virgin girls, at least I was right about all of the few girls that I managed to ask about it, and it's that I see some kind of unspeakable beauty in the girls who still haven’t had any partners, especially the ones that haven't been in any relationships yet, something so beautiful, maybe just the look in their eyes, that it completely overshadows all the physical beauty a girl can have...
And on the other hand, I met a lot of really gorgeous girls, who already had relationships, and when I looked in their eyes I somehow felt that something so great, so important was missing, that for some reason we would never be able to love each other like we should, to completely surrender to each other, like they lost some faith in love and locked the parts of their heart which became just unreachable... And though I think they found me interesting (I am in fact kinda attractive and successful), every time I eventually backed off, every time reassured of how important it is, at least for me, that beauty, that purity of heart I could find only in girls who still haven't had any partners yet...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not into a partner with more experience and this is pretty common in my opinion.

I'm really sick of seeing questions about if a girl isn't experienced enough. That's such a fantastical mistake, it's ridiculous. Experience in women is only a positive for experienced guys and that doesn't diverge from my position which is I only want people with equal or less sexual experience. Their qualm is that virgins are clingy. But the vast majority of guys, particularly the younger and/or less experienced ones would accept a virgin. I don't think virginity specifically is *super* important but relative sexual experience definitely is.

For me, I'm a virgin and thus don't want someone with any sexual experience at this time. Maybe, perhaps, possibly I'd be okay with very little experience.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Virginity is not important.
It's just one stupid fact that someone just never had sex and that's it. Well for us ladies it's a little more let's say difficult but still it's just a stupid fact.
Also I prefer my partner experienced, so we're on the same page with that

pepwave21 · Accepted Answer

The virgin thing is important to some. I live in California so it is different maybe here on views. If you get into a relationship it is not expected to that girl be virgin. I think guys that I been out with want girls with some experience so to enjoy sex.

lilaqua · Accepted Answer

Don't really care, actually the idea of a virgin guy is kind of a turn on, but I'd feel bad about their first time being with me, like i'm kind of a let down to who they might have actually lost their virginity to.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend is a virgin and im happy about that. We’re waiting til marriage. Neither of us are that experienced so im glad we get to learn together

Sparkzs · Answer

I voted No. The idea of virginity only exists so that men can ascribe value to women. It's controlling, archaic, and no longer has any place in the world. How often a woman uses her body for sex does not impact her meaning, nor her personhood; and if anyone says that virginity is important, they are living in the past.

Anonymous · Answer

''How often a woman uses her body for sex does not impact her meaning, nor her personhood''

LOL, tell me people, how many promiscuous women do you know that are happy, fulfilled, and full of life?

How many women do you know that become bitter and jaded even after just a handful of bad boys?

Has society become better in this hookup age?

How often a woman uses her body for sex impacts her entire life, from her mental health, physical health, self image, and future. Disagree with virginity all you like, but that other stuff mentioned is a pipe dream.

Anonymous · Answer

It used to be till I grew up and realised it was a totally unrealistic ideal. For a start, asking her if she's a virgin would often result in me getting a slap. "How Dare you judge me on that!!!". I managed to hold out till I was 35 (or rather, i pissed off every gal i met). Till i met my SO. Then we lost our virginity together. Was it magical? NO. It was so bad she threw up all over me, and I tore my foreskin. She was so humiliated i never saw her again.

So no. Lose it and learn what your doing then when you meet your SO ok you can avoid disaster.

ShaunaM95 · Answer

My virginity was important to me before I lost it. I waited until I got my first boyfriend who I loved and gave it to him. In regards partners, I wouldn't care whether or not they are a virgin.

CoffeePossum · Answer

Couldn't care less about virginity, i'm a virgin but would never wait till the wedding.

Blonde401 · Answer

God no. The last thing I want is a virgin who's my age or up. I'm not here to hold someone's hand and show them how to be a grown up.

AvgCdnJoe · Answer

I would prefer to be with a girl who has had little to no sex, but I dont think I could wait until marriage. I have had some weird experiences during sex so I think I would have to know what sex is like with them before I could marry them.

Dinnye001 · Answer

Virginity is only important to religious and insecure people.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It stopped being important after I was forced to keep it. Though kinda glad I did because at least I didn't lose it to my ex.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really, even though I was raised a Christian I don't plan on waiting till marriage, I don't see the point of it.

Mr_Jolly · Answer

Virginity is a ridiculously outdated notion. Be with the person/people you want to, be smart and be safe about it.

darkiis · Answer

A man would only ask for this if he thinks he is not good enough and doesn't want to b compared😂😂

MyAtlantis · Answer

Yes, of course it is important to me.

ElisaPlease · Answer

Who I choose to have sex with is more important to me than the act of sex itself.

genericname85 · Answer

i´m completely indifferent to that. but i would definitely not wait till marriage or for longer than a few months.

Fuselesss · Answer

nope im more of a "have sex whenever u feel ready" person.

Juxtapose · Answer

"Sexual purity" is for religious prudes. People don't magically become "less" because they've had a lot of sex.

Jo1991 · Answer

Honestly being with a virgin sounds exciting but cos it hurts the first time for girl I'd rather be with a girl who's had at least some sex. Much better cos you can fuck her harder

SheccidJuliet · Answer

I want to do it with someone I trust, but I'm not expecting to get married.

AlongCameAlice · Answer

I'd rather date a guy who was not a virgin personally.

JennieF · Answer

I gave it up at 17. I don't think I've ever done it with a virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

if they are not a virgin then i will freak out and get tested for literally everything

cupidkisses · Answer

it is very important for me

karahiri · Answer

not really.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, a girl being a virgin is not important to me.

Nik1hil · Answer

its not important unless she is selling it

Seppelson · Answer

Virginity is just a myth from church. It's nonsense

SupMates · Answer

I do not date girls who are virgins

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Yeah

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