Why do we feel the need to play games? ?

[Anonymous]

Why can't we just say how we feel?

[TheNoOne]

I don’t know but i feel comes insecurity or maybe insufficient interest. My crush is the text book example of a girl playing games. I believe she is insecure despite being an 8 and very attractive since she is loud and seeks attention. She frequently tries to make me jealous by chatting up other guys or occasionally checking them out. A loud grating laugh just to draw attention. Staring at me frequently and sometimes doesn’t care if she is caught, ignoring me if I say something at her, dramatic hair flicking as if she wasn’t sassing enough, changing her hair style frequently or showing various levels of cleavage.

When I do talk to her she frequently goes quiet and shy and doesn’t say much and makes no attempt to continue conversation, refused Facebook add or message request not blocked but she won’t accept them lol. She acts almost stalkerieh if she thinks I am ignoring her.

[TheNoOne]

The best I can get out of her usually is a smile a bit of giggling or make her so nervous or awkward she becomes a klutz.

I think she is a special kind of crazy she definitely seems interested yet she plays hardball every chance we get for no good reason.

[BuckWild]

Wow, isn't that the question of the ages. We do it because for some reason we humans suck and we're programmed to do it. Some humans are able to get past the games and be straight-up honest about what they feel and think about anything and everything including other individuals. If you can find somebody like that then you have really found a gem. The games inevitably destroy relationships.

[ladychainsaw]

Playing games is what people do in high school. Be the one who changes that.
But sometimes its for to keep the guy around longer before committing and making him work for it 😋

[TheNoOne]

Or more likely to make the guy frustrated and look elsewhere. I know from my experience it takes a lot of patience to put up with such crap.

[Robsinsf53]

Amen, thank you & GOD bless you. But unless everyone was on that page, someone always will get hurt. The ones that say let's be friends after trying to play a game are the ones that get told to go fuck themselves.

[cavmanier]

Maybe due to pride and fear. I don't do that though unless maybe it's related to work. Oh also games are often a means towards influence or manipulation (trying to get what the person wants).

[Exarion251]

I'm German. Either I want to know how you feel or I'll tell someone that I don't give a fuck straight in the face.

[Xidious]

Ironically women tend to get hurt by the truth more often than not.

[Meerjungfraumann]

Because we fear the rejection of the people we love

[wankiam]

i already do and have little time for people who can't just be straight and upfront

[vittle1999]

Some people like playing games n some people don't.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/WmdjUbOvv30

[HamAndCheese]

I don't really play games. I'm really very straightforward.

[Kuraj]

Some people just stop aging when they are 15, I guess.

[scooogy]

I've asked a girl for 3 years now what her intentions with me were about, but she never talked a single word about that.

[Anonymous]

I find myself asking this question all the time. Alas I wish I knew the answer.

[SamuraiX]

Sometimes teasing is good.. u can check their interest.. but make sure u give them proper response too.. coz they will feel the same way when they r used

[Anonymous]

Duh. Because unless we play them, they will play us.

[aboringuy]

For my part I've been treated so rudely by woman that i don't say what i think to them anymore.

[Josh957]

Oh god you're asking us? Well that explains it right there...

[RuthAnn1781]

Because we're afraid of rejection and getting hurt

[zaxcy23]

Because sports is good for health

[Anon-ymous1]

Because everyone loves Yahtzee and Monopoly.

[thatguyunderyourbed]

People are stupidly and have broken brains

[Juxtapose]

Because people are too afraid of honesty.

[Groisu]

Piss me off and any game goes out the window

[Humbledman74006]

I don't play games

[disgustingweebtrash]

I don't know

[Anonymous]

Cause, sports