Why do women play games?

[Anonymous]

I'm serious about wanting to find a future spouse. Most women just play games and act like they're too good for you if you want them. :/

[PeachyPie93]

If you are looking on dating apps that is the problem right there!

[pass_the_celery98]

why do you think its tougher for guys to be successful on dating apps finding a girl? I personally think some girls are on the app to seek validation of how "pretty" they are or simply trying to find the best of the best of the best looking guy who's tall of Mr. Perfect but in reality none of us are perfect.

[WhyohWhy69]

@pass_the_celery98 it isn’t. Women just get used to men wanting constant hookups. No thanks. You all scare good women away.

[pass_the_celery98]

@WhyohWhy69 who said I hook up I actually dealt with stupid ass demented, psychotic, narcissistic girls and before you say well maybe it’s my choices, nah, I don’t go to bars or clubs looking for a hook up. A guy can be a total gentleman but if he gets annoyed by her shit she’ll say he’s guilt tripping her because she’s a coward to take accountability. And many girls I’ve talked to who act this way usually have dumb friends who are girls giving bad advice or fatherless environments of not being raised properly. Those are the girls I stay away from.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because they seek safety. Playing games allows them to see how earnest you are

[BruceJender]

This is true, most of the time.

She's trying to figure out if you'll lose your marbles if she doesn't respond as fast as she used to.

Sometimes, however, women play games to string you along, and you should remove them from your life ASAP.

[Lokiion]

I would say it’s more so testing and seeing how you react to certain things

[WhyohWhy69]

Why do men? Go vote for Trump, white trash.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the dating world's a circus sometimes, isn't it? 🎪 Some women might seem like they're playing games due to past experiences or because they're figuring out what they want. A bit of "let's see who can play it cooler" vibe can sneak in when emotions are high! Genuine connection can feel rare, but don’t let it dishearten you. Stay true to yourself, understand the signs, and that special someone will appreciate your sincerity. The ultimate game... is love! 😉💘

[AviatorTom]

Same reason anyone plays games... because they can.

[Zack-Bann]

The same applies for when women ask this question about men: you’re looking in the wrong place


Just because YOU want a spouse doesn’t mean the person you have in front of you owes you marriage or has any plans of marrying you


We live in a time where relationships have many different forms, that’s no longer an abstract theory or a new concept, it’s the reality whether we like it or not.


So it’s on you to make smart decisions when screening people for a potential partner


And don’t waste time trying to change the mind of someone who wants to play games because it’s futile

[lightbulb27]

welcome to the world of women.

If find good one and you lead, it won't be so confusing.

The issues are emotional, hormonal, and deeply complex. If you ignore all that and decide you love the woman and lead, it should be clear if she is interested and reciprocates.

If you'd like to get a pothsumous 4 year degree in womens studies then keep on asking questions...

The root concerns with females is: security

[EzraIsShy76028]

I think by "women" you actually mean "girls."

Mature adult women probably shouldn't be doing this kind of shit. That's something teenage girls or college age girls at the oldest should be doing.

Especially if they're 30+ they shouldn't be doing this.

It would be the equivalent of a grown adult man constantly trying to prove to everyone how manly and strong he is. That's what boys do. It's just immature in the same way.

[mobiusforniner]

It’s only perceived as “games” to those too ignorant or insecure to understand it. A man under pressure reveals his true character. Either he’s accusatory and whiny; or he remains constant and steady

So really it’s a clever, and sometimes unconscious weed out mechanism, used to eliminate those who wouldn’t obviously make a good spouse or father

let that sink in.

[rienna888]

They play hard to get either because they don’t like you or they sense you aren’t serious about them. If they like you they will continue to see you and rarely reject plans to hang out or go on dates. Try to improve your exterior and get enough money.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Attention, ego boosts, peer pressure (their friends do it), and to keep guys on the back burner (plan Bs and Cs).

We do it to, I have plan Bs and Cs but none that I’m really seeing, but flirting is still the tipping your toes in the devils pond.

[Texaskid1]

They play games when they are young and hot because they know that every red-blooded man out there wants to poke them. They know this even if no one tells them directly Women always know when a man pines after them. If she is hot she can pick and choose any man and they will always want the man that is aloof and does not care too much about them.

If she is not attracted to you then she will tease you and use you for her own benefit. If she is into you then the games will stop.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

dude I'm sorry to tell you but STOP chasing and level up your own values!

When you serve your own purpose, women will recognize it and respect you for it. you shouldn’t for go after women who play games, instead look for those who respect you for who you are

the best way to attract a high-quality woman is to stop playing into their bullshit games and focus on your own goals and watch them chase you instead

[TheCoffeeisHot]

Women have what is called a "filter". They filter through guys to see who is actually confident, etc and who is faking it. They have to be selective because they feel like their livelyhood and their future as a mother depend on it. That's why they set these filters. Some guys in the pickup community call it "sh*t tests".

[Obesitynd]

We often want control even subconsciously. So it’s a struggle for control of a man even just a little bit. We want the interaction to go the way we want it to. Most men honestly are able to be controlled. But not Chitra moon males by ubhadra moon women like me. Chitra moon males are actually in control. Most men can be controlled lol.

[jshm2]

They don't. You just need to align with them better.

You are being fucked around with, because it's how you're projecting yourself.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a you issue. Millions of men are in very happy relationships. So blaming women for you not being desirable.
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[CarolinaGirl5]

They aren't playing games they just don't like you. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[MoonFace2]

I’m serious about finding a husband and most men are afraid to approach me. Some of us are unnaturally blessed with good luck, others aren’t.

[HawkPerception]

Just curious... you expect men to approach you and wouldn't approach men?

[MoonFace2]

@HawkPerception I have to do the approaching. I do it whenever I’m interested.

[Flower7]

If she's playing games, she's most likely not interested.

[SnowyOwl]

Same as why guys play games. Immaturity: anyone can have it.

[more_than_a_guy]

I don't like games, but I can say they play games because they can. They have so many options, and many of them are being pursued and hit on by many guys. So the games are some sort of a test and giving her time to figure out what she wants.

[noohair]

Women cannot force men to do anything because they lack physical strength. So they have learned manipulation. This is how they operate on all levels.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I always wanted a serious relationship but it didn't happen 🙁

[Hawaiikai]

How you found em/where u found em, is how you’ll lose em

[genericname85]

they don't. the women that do are just shitty people. simply avoid them.

[debtfree_oneyear]

They can't help it - it's ingrained in their DNA. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[DtMe89]

Because we do. Women only play games, when we don't show what we want

[LiamJHayden]

Simple. "Most" is not "all." Pass on the "Most."

[Anonymous]

Daddy issues, needs validation on dating apps, enjoys being rude and b1tchy then nice, her life is a mess…she ain’t worth it

[Anonymous]

too see if he'll play along, win me over
or just give up and lose me

[Deserter2]

Cause they're cowardsre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[WhatLurksWithin]

Most girls don't play games like that. Largely what you interpret as them playing games, is you misunderstanding them.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

That's not true. It's just the women you associate yourself with.

[ronandamberspencer]

They are allowed to. You tolerate it. If men did not tolerate it at all, it would stop.

[Anonymous]

Because games are interesting, I also play on my Playstation.

[Nikki1989]

So, you know “most” women?

[Dargil]

Don't we do it for Pussy, too?

[Crazzyyworld]

Because you are living in a different world

[In_Trance]

For the same reason men do

[beefcakebradybatson]

Ask them. Why do some men play games?

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

They're full'uh crap'.

[hornybutterfly69]

Because we don't like video games

[HelpfulWoman]

most women don't.