Girls, tall ugly guy or hot short guy?

[TheGreatSodini]

Tall ugly guy. (6'4'')

Hot short guy. (5'9'')

[PrincessPie]

If they look like Ian Somerhalder short guy anyday i prefer tall guys but he's literally gorgeous.

[Izumiblu]

5’9 isn’t short but that guys face is deformed and not hot at all

[TheGreatSodini]

You mean the face of the first guy?

[Izumiblu]

Second guy

[TheGreatSodini]

Deformed, what? He is one of the hottest guys. He has perfect features.

[Izumiblu]

ffs, look at his jaws, he looks like he got hit upside the head with a baseball bat. That is weird and not attractive in the least.

[TheGreatSodini]

He has big masculine jaws, this is an attractive trait.

[Izumiblu]

No, he's freaky looking

[Izumiblu]

I mean if you're attracted to his jaws then that's on you dude, but don't put that shit on me

[Izumiblu]

and whats with you? you say you're an 18 year old Pakistani, you look like a 50 year old hungarian

[TheGreatSodini]

I am not from Pakistan, I am a White guy. And this guy is not me, he's George Sodini.
You are the only one who dislikes his jaws. They are perfect for most girls.

[widdershins_]

If he's hot then yeah I'll date him. Tf?
I also can't believe that 5'9 is considered unbearably short lmao. Ian Somerhalder is tall to me.

[Belorum]

Neither.

[TheGreatSodini]

Why?

[Belorum]

I wouldn't want to date a guy I'm not attracted to. The "hot" one is even shorter than me (I'm 5'10)

[TheGreatSodini]

Seriously? You would reject this hot guy just because he is one inch shorter than you? Do you realize you won't find a tall guy who is as hot as him who would date you?

[Belorum]

Meh, honestly I do not rely on that, I already found my sweetheart. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Belorum]

I'd pick an average looking one of my hight or taller though. It doesn't have to be a "hot" one

[TheGreatSodini]

So your height fetish is so strong that you would rather date an average/unattractive tall guy rather than a hot short guy?

[Belorum]

It's not a fetish dude. I got issues because of my hight (also got bullied in the past because of it) and I would just feel even more huge next to a shorter guy.
You cannot do anything about your preferences you know. No reason to attack me for that.

[Belorum]

And a short hot guy wouldn't want me anyway because there are thousands of girls which are shorter than him which would want him.

[TheGreatSodini]

I don't really understand what your height issues have to do with dating shorter guys, but ok. It's your choice. But you need to realize that tall girls are viewed as unattractive for the same reason why short guys are viewed as unattractive. You can't make tall girls attractive without making short guys attractive as well.

[TheGreatSodini]

How do you know? Height is irrelevant for many guys.

[Belorum]

I'm not trying to make tall girls attractive, in fact I think that my height is a huge down side of my body.

[Belorum]

I already got rejected because I wasn't "short enough" by guys which were easily a half head taller than me.

[TheGreatSodini]

Most of these rejections are because tall girls don't fit in the traditional sense of attractiveness, just like short men. But I don't really think most guys naturally dislike tall girls or that girls naturally dislike short men. If we weren't taught that short men and tall women are unattractive we wouldn't have to deal with this stuff so much. So if you just accept this standard that you need to have a guy who is much taller than you you only reinforce this stereotype. And if you have a daughter with a tall guy she will suffer from the same issues as you.
I can't understand why so few people understand this.

[Belorum]

As I said, for me it is because I do not feel comfortable with my own height. If I would be more okay with that, I would have less problems with dating short guys.

[TheGreatSodini]

You are not that tall to be uncomfortable with your height in my opinion. Most guys are taller than you.

[Belorum]

But most girls are shorter ^^ Dunno, I kinda stand out because of it and it just makes me feel like a freak. And then there is my past also.

[TheGreatSodini]

I hope you overcome this insecurity some day.

[Belorum]

By the way, I do think that being attracted to a taller guy and a shorter girl is in fact something natural. Girls want someone who could protect them (I know that this isn't needed anymore, but its still in in our instincts) just like guys are looking for a girl they could feel protective with. And the height difference gives you this feeling.

[TheGreatSodini]

This is stupid because a guy's ability to protect a girl doesn't depend on her height. If a guy is 5'9'', a girl is 6' and you make a girl taller by a foot the guy won't become weaker.

[TheGreatSodini]

I mean the girl was 5' before and became 6'. The guy won't become weaker from this.

[Belorum]

I didn't said that it would be logical, but thats how insticts work. I mean it doesn't really matter anymore if a girl has wide hips or not, but guys are still attracted to the wider ones in general. Same story.

[TheGreatSodini]

Well, there are more and more guys who are into skinny girls because being curvy is not that important now. So why aren't there more girls who are into short guys? I still agree that tall guys are kinda more attractive than short ones, but you shouldn't make a fetish out of their height. I mean you wouldn't make a fetish out of ones eye colour and only date blue-eyed men, for example?

[Belorum]

There are for sure more girls which do not mind. I'm just not one of them.
And still, it isn't a fetish, it's just something that I am attracted to. I wouldn't want a guy with narrower shoulders as my own either, would you call it a fetish? Or would you call it a fetish if someone rejects a girl because of her flat ass? Or flat boobs?

[Belorum]

Or would you date a woman with a beautiful face which is extremely obese? Or would you shoose one with a average face and a healthy weight instead? Is it a fetish either?

[TheGreatSodini]

A guy with narrower shoulders than yours is an abnormality, so it's ok if you are not attracted to him.
I don't really know any guy who would reject a girl just because she is flat. Maybe they prefer curvy chicks but they won't reject her just because of this.
Extremely obese is like too much. The equivalent would be a guy who is 5'2''-5'5''. But if a girl is slightly chubby I would date her.

[Belorum]

Well, because of my height my shoulders are also a bit wider. So yes, I already met guys with narrower shoulders as my own. Or thinner arms. And guess what - they were shorter as me either.
With flat I meant less than A-cups. This girls often have a hard time to find a boyfriend.
For me, the equivalent to "slightly chubby" in height would be "as tall as myself" - not perfect, but acceptable.

[TheGreatSodini]

Ok, you can date who you want. But I still think it's ridiculous to prefer ugly tall men to hot short men.

[TheGreatSodini]

I mean I would take a hot tall girl in a heartbeat. Even if she like towers over me. I don't care about height that much.

[Belorum]

I do not prefer UGLY ones. My answer was "neither", wasn't it? If I do not like a guys face, I won't date him as well.
Average, like still attractive, but not "hot" is okay for me, I do see myself as average as well so I do not have any reason to go for someone "hot".

[Belorum]

And anyway, I do not need to date anyone at all. I already settled down.

[TheGreatSodini]

But still you would reject a very hot guy just because he is 5'9''.

[Belorum]

I would never come in the situation where I would have a "chance" to reject him in the first place. I would reject the hottest guy outthere who is also tall either, because of my partner by the way.

[TheGreatSodini]

But if you didn't have a partner?

[Belorum]

Than I would wake up. XD

[TheGreatSodini]

Ok, just curious, how tall if your bf? :)

[Belorum]

I don't know for sure, something between 184-187cm I guess. You can look up how many that would be in inch, I'm too lazy to atm.
I had a boyfriend once who was around an inch shorter than me by the way, but I never really got used to it (even after a year of relationship) and always suffered from an inferiority complex when I was walking next to him. It wasn't the reason why I broke up with him, but still. It bothered me.

[TheGreatSodini]

I am used to cms so that's fine. I guess you are around 178 yourself? And were you really the one who had an inferiority complex? Maybe you just think that short guys are inferior to you? This is what many tall girls think by the way.

[Belorum]

Nope, it was me. I didn't felt well and thought that people would look at me. I never thought that he would be inferiour in any way.
Yes, I'm around 178,5.

[Belorum]

Infact, i even expected of him to be ashamed of me because of my hight. He never said anything on that matter though.

[TheGreatSodini]

Is there anything a shorter guy can do to overcompensate for his height and make you like him?

[Belorum]

The problem wouldn't be don't like him, but hating myself. So no, there is hardly anything he could do.

[TheGreatSodini]

Ok, thank you. Tall girls are so hard to understand. ;)

[cupidkisses]

Hot n short

[SophieLund]

Tall ugly guy. Easy choice.