Boyfriend gets a lap dance on Snapchat?

[Anonymous]

Late last night I was scrolling through social media and saw my boyfriend get a lap dance from a girl that goes to the same school as us. We argued about it and he said that he was very drunk and she just randomly came over and started dancing on him and he was shocked. I found that disrespectful because he could’ve told her to stop or get up and walk away. Right now we aren’t where we need to be in the trust department and after seeing that on Snapchat I don't know anymore. Any opinions?

[Casey10101]

well im not going to say that its not at all his fault, but the guy sounds like he was genuinely drunk, and anyone can tell you, your judgment becomes impared when you get drunk, you know what I mean, like when I get drunk, I would not turn down a cigarette if I got offered, but when im sober, I wouldn't go near one. ahh I would see from anyone around the guy, and see how they saw him react to the girl, and he does deserve some shit for not saying something to the lap dancer.

[Asker]

it wasn't a lap dancer it was a girl that we both went to school with. He knows her. Even if he was drunk I think he could've told her no especially since we all go to the school

[Casey10101]

sorry, I mean like the girl is the lap dancer, that was just language to break from using "girl" too many times in one sentence. soz

[JosyJosy]

If he was shocked, he might have just froze on the spot and didn't move because of that

[Asker]

he was smirking in the video

[JosyJosy]

could be an awkward laugh too, or not to be the party pooper that he went along

[harleyquinnxx]

Break up with the guy. Apparently he still has A lot of growing up to do.

[zethive]

Either you're okay with it or not... It's your choice and you need to set the foundation for the relationship

[LionBill]

I've only had lap dances by friends. As a joke.

But its your boyfriend and you should set your boundaries with him

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't trust him. He sounds like a fuckboy. How long have you been dating?

[Asker]

2 years in January

[Dritz]

Eye for an eye!!! Go get a lap dance.