I see so many wrongs things in your q and his behaviour as well. First off, no guy who wishes to have a forever partner pays them 2k euro especially when it's not official. And even if you were in a relationship, unless you were in a dire situation you shouldn't have accepted them. And it's not nice to go on vacation and not contribute in anything (expenses). You show that you enjoy to get presents and have fun, and shows you don't care about commitment. But as for him, oh my god!!! He pays a person as if he wanted a sugarbabe and then creepily tells you he will forever love you? That is creepy, naive, stalker-like thinking. For two months of dating so many red flags were raised from both of you. If you have your own reasons for doing this , by all means go for it. But he seriously shows obsession. And if you don't like him the way he does, you should have a real talk. no emotes, no neutral answers just to let them hanging but real brutal talk that give a breakdown of your feelings and ambitions.
Hope it works out for you in any way
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Can you answer him seriously? It just seemed like you take everything he says and turn it into something funny.
It's simple what he's asking, do you like him enough to have a relationship with him yes or no. Don't blow all that ' we never know what's gonna happen in the future' smoke.
You sound like me, scared to see what might happen. Iβve missed a lot of opportunities guarding my heart like you are.
He sounds genuine. He sounds like he wants more, so let him in, I hope it works out for youZ
3 possibilities. 1. You have become friends with benefits. 2. You are just a bit of fun he can string along with smooth talk. 3. He wants to take things slowly and build a foundation before committing himself. Best bet, stop dancing around the subject. If you want to be with him I sugfest being direct and telling him, not throwing out hypatheticals about the potential future. Men tend to think in straight lines. Tell us one thing and thats how it is for us. Tell us something else later and it changes to that. You start throwing out forks in the road and our sat nav melts down.
He was asking wether or not you are interested in a committment. And you kinda ruined it.
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Girl what are you doing? First of all meet this man and get to know him before even thinking about any further step. If you end up liking him, let him know & show it and if you donβt then let him know, donβt drag the poor man.
Don't miss out on love! If you are really interested in him, stop beating around and get your man honey! Give it a try, why not, he likes you and you like him amirite? go go go!
Seems pretty obvious that he wants a relationship with you. What are you confused about?
He definitely wants a relationship and is asking if you want the same. Either go for it or walk away now before things get deeper for him. Don't string him along.
Ya... he wants to be in relationship with u 😊👌😝
Try things out ig
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