What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

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JamilleBritts · Accepted Answer

Just yesterday, I was day dreaming the perfect boy I need. And today, I just can't tell exactly whom I want.
Well, I won't point out the qualities I need in a boyfriend because there can be a lot. And if I say a few specific ones, I'm sure to lose out many other good ones.
Some basic qualities that every human must have:
Kindness
Sincerity
Respect for other people
Honesty

Some more I would like in a guy;
Romantic
Funny
Caring

It's not important for him to look handsome or attractive. Because I believe in falling in love for once and forever. If we look out for beauty then every day we'll find someone better. All I want is the guy who never ever does the wrong thing intentionally.

Ella333333 · Accepted Answer

Respect, honesty, sensitivity, empathy, compassion, vulnerability, not so much romance, knowledge, well educated like me, non-religious but absolutely moral, a free spirit, responsible, generous, understanding, well mannered, reasonable risk taker, entrepreneurial attitude, patience, optimism, open mind, sexy attitude, sensual, macho man to put me in my place, companionship, dreamer & doer, great wit and intellect.

Then stuff like average to good looks, not popular, amazing sex, great body, slim.

AriaKure · Accepted Answer

Someone who wants to have a good time but eventually tire out so we can have a good conversation now and then. I love people who surprise me - it's often difficult, but when they do i'm soooo into it! <3 I like people who are down to earth but also not short sighted or a complete pessimist. and if they're attractive... welll... TEN POINTS TO GRIFFINDOR!

MelvinGeek · Accepted Answer

In a relationship, I look for an intellectual equal. It would be great to have a lot of similar views, but at the same time, I'd like for her to teach me a thing or two.

I like someone who has a sense of humor. To enjoy the freedom of joking around, even at the expense of one another.

I love strong physical contact. The idea of embracing someone so tightly that it closes all the gaps between us is a must.

To be able to simply enjoy each other's company even if in complete silence.

cutestboyever · Accepted Answer

If I were allowed to be picky about this... um I really like long curly hair, music is a HUGE part of my life so it'd be cool to play and listen to actual music w a chick. I know some girls don't wanna hear this but I need someone to keep up my house and cook while I'm out working. I guess those are the things I really want

Girlpassingby · Answer

What I look for in a guy is kindness, loyalty, a sense of humour, responsibilities, love, trust/honesty, have things in common, strong relationship/bond with them, I love contact like hugging, kissing, cuddling, holding hands. What I don’t want in a guy is being abusive, rude, angry, angry over nothing, no strong bond. In a relationship you need to be in control aswell as him.

Engel30 · Answer

Physically, a Decent physique, preferably athletic, decent butt and thighs, boobs B cup or bigger, decent teeth.
I dont really give a single flying fuck about Ethnicity or Nationality

No gold diggers, nor Divas, no superficial.
Preferably with common interests and hobbies, you know just enough to be able to do things together.
And with a good sense of humour.

amiroz · Answer

What do i look for in relationships? I look for everything.. love ❤️ , respect ✊, trust , care , communication, responsibilities , loyalty , friendliness , kisses 😘 , sex...

DiscoveryGirl · Answer

(For girlfriend and boyfriend since I like both ; ) Clever, caring, not superficial, can make jokes

mattai787 · Answer

Whether both of us click together? whether she takes interest in my life, whether she loves me for what I am rather than what I have. Whether she has goals in life? Whether I am comfortable with her,, and whether she is fit..

JackJD · Answer

Someone kind, yet fierce, who will do the right thing, willing to help me with my goals, and willing to receive help with her goals. Someone who has strengths and weaknesses, educated, funny, honest, and decisive.
Most importantly, someone who love me for who I am, not for what I look like.
Oh, and cuddling. She has to cuddle.

philipph · Answer

A girl with the courage to fully open up with all her issues to talk to me about it.
A Girl that never blames me for her emotions
A Girl that can responde compassionately sensitive to the things that touch me

JustSky · Answer

Real love, faithfulness, honesty, trust. I want a man that will make feel like I'm precious and should be taken care of.

Anonymous · Answer

Main thing is they want me for me. But the picture sums me up to, hoodies and tracksuits, I like them! Formal occasions obviously needs something proper but if I'm where I live (and I'd want to show her my area, see if it shocks her tbh) I'm comfortable in comfortable things

Shane_B · Answer

Same or similar traits. Honesty, faithful, loyal, trust worthy, caring and loving etc. I got all good traits.

amit_best · Answer

Though I never have a girlfriend and I am in no place to put preference still I would answer as u asked. I prefer a girl who is simple looking and soft spoken. Always happy n discussive

nojokecarmichael · Answer

Funny, spontaneous , down to earth, obviously physically attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Nowlet me tell u the truth, guys want a girl who can bend to their will if you know what i mean and if she's good you take her out and if she's the package she's now the girlfriend so the moral of the story is be good at fucking

YHL6965 · Answer

Trust, intimacy, loyalty, maturity, responsability, politeness, respect, love and sex as a bonus. I want a woman that I can found a family with, and that can handle it.

tampaxgirl · Answer

He has to be good looking and have a great personality.

shadow1332 · Answer

Kindness in the way they treat everyone. And honesty

HHunk33 · Answer

First a gud looking girl. Stylish feminine sexy bold and depends upon personal interest

zagor · Answer

Just someone smart, pleasant to be around, active and caring. But I'm just about to give up and be happy on my own.

Dxk007 · Answer

A good personality and, a person with whom one doesn't need to hold back their emotions. Beauty comes later.

matthew1144 · Answer

Trust if you don't trust a man enough to let him go through your phone or he doesn't trust you enough to go through his just leave it's not worth your time

KQahtani94 · Answer

Same nationality as me, same religion, pretty, traditional, and kind.

breckshreck · Answer

Being genuine and honest. Having goals and things to do as she wants to do be out going. A motivator, loving and loveable.

Pluto4prez · Answer

Someone honest who I get along with well enough that we could still be friends even if the romance doesn't work out.

Anonymous · Answer

good looks, good sense of humor, loyalty, high sex drive.

MissAfghxn · Answer

We should have deep covos without any awkwardness, he should be hardworking, intense and passionate, he should understand me and have my back. + he should be a manly man

Raindrop808 · Answer

I don't go looking for a boyfriend. I just stumble across the. They usually have the same interests as I do. They are funny and have a good sense of humor. Kind to me.

sahmuraii · Answer

I JUST WANT A CUTE BOY WHO LOVES, RESPECTS , CARES AND IS DOWN FOR ME YO. IS THAT TOO MUCH TOO MUCH TO ASK

Wade149 · Answer

I'm a geeky guy, so me having a girlfriend who's geeky also would be a big plus.

LinkxPeach · Answer

I want her to be smart, intelligent, and be a good cook.

viju123 · Answer

its to share things to each other may be emotions feelings romance... as a partner

ahmed_92 · Answer

Dont know i need woman to like how how shity person i am 😍😍😍

harshamay06 · Answer

Yep, m looking for some one who makes me feel tat v both are special

ndywhyknot · Answer

I look for similarities that wouldn't annoy one another and lively personality, smile, etc.

jimjam567 · Answer

Honesty and good communication

kayeleva · Answer

crazy and can beat women who i disagree with.

Nerdking · Answer

Optimistic or just outgoing kind and ofc a nerd

Decentguy · Answer

Maturity, Loyalty, Honesty, Kindness, etc

soulai · Answer

À good friend, someone who accept me as I am

guslan · Answer

A good companion, a good friend

alex1987xx · Answer

I probably prefer someone who is down to earth.

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Nothing.

marioboy123 · Answer

Someone who I can deal with for a longtime.

c1rad · Answer

Personality first and foremost

jon28805 · Answer

Honesty and personality.

PandaLand · Answer

A girl

apelhitam · Answer

Compatibility

fredrick_27 · Answer

Nothing

erictt · Answer

A nice and funny

Anonymous · Answer

Her ability to dance

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