My friend called my girlfriend ugly?

[Anonymous]

He didn't say it to her exactly, but he pulled me aside and said she was a butterface. Was he right for doing that? I didn't even ask him what he thought.

[indoMATTable]

if it was unsolicited then i wouldn't exactly call it being a good friend, and frankly this is not something i woukd bring up unless asked further more, you need to remember two things discretion is the better part of valor, and your girlfriends attractiveness is only important to you so his opinion doesn't really factor in at the end of the day

[yunghieionthefreeway]

If you're gonna have a girlfriend you gotta keep your male friends in check. They gotta have respect for her. If they don't get with the program you gotta chin check em. Now if he tried to politely tell you this then it's whatever as long as he remains respectful towards her in person and around you.

[yunghieionthefreeway]

Also his opinion on her shouldn't effect your opinion on her. That's your girl bro take pride in that.

[Asker]

I know she's a butterface, but I still love her and thought it was odd how he would call her that of all people.

[Anonymous]

lmao why do you care what he thinks? maybe he's saving you from her or think he is. Most butter faces aren't even worth it because they get the most entitled and have no redeeming qualities, but must men feel more secure since she's not hot commodity so your choice.

[Asker]

She's really kind and has a good heart so she isn't entitled.

[pepwave21]

Wow what a friend. A friend is supposed to be honest with you so just go with it if he is friend that has been good to you. Ignore the comment.

[bloodyrevenge]

Ignore him. As long as you find her attractive that's all that matters.

[chris1984]

well if my mate called my girlfriend a butterface he would probably have a busted nose.

depends though. is it appropriate between you guys to say something like that? is she a butterface? did he mean it or is he teasing you?

[Asker]

I mean yeah, she is a butterface, but I still love her and didn't appreciate that coming from him of all people.

[chris1984]

then tell him that. or let it slide for now, and pull him up on his childish shit if he keeps it up.

[lampuiho]

It's ok he has his opinion. Depending on how he said it, it might just be him expressing his honest opinion with no intention at hurting your feelings. I mean isn't he supposed to be your friend?

[iNsaneMilesy]

Tell him to shut the fuck up. If you like her, thats is all that matters. Honestly he sounds like a desperate loser who can't get laid.

[LegateLanius]

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes but that was really rude for him to say that to you.

[seth900]

He was rude, maybe he is jelouse often people do that when they are jelouse.