What is the first thing that attracts you to someone?

Their personality? Their looks? Something in particular? What makes you interested in getting to meet them?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • i am attracted to a girl i dont even know, not looks not sexually, i dont know.
    its probably some "hey your immune systems would make great invulnerable babies" type of bullshit.
    Also that bullshit appereantly IS possible and does happen and i think ahe likes me (same reason) so mine and her brain made a connection using some alien communication technique

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    • So you believe in telepathy?

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    • Just that it will happen when you least expect it. The guy I fell in love with was introduced to me by friends of a friend. I was not even looking when he walked into the room.

    • wonderful! thanks! keep your relationahip

Most Helpful Girl

  • Meeting someone, I'll notice their looks first; however, that doesn't make me attracted to them. As I'm getting to know them, and our friendship deepens, their personality becomes attractive to me.

    For example, I liked this guy who did acts of random kindness (offering me a ride on the club cart while I was climbing a hill; breaking his cookie in half to share with me; complimenting my photographs of the soccer games he assists). When I first met him, there wasn't any attraction because we barely talked and I was focusing on sports photography for a soccer game.

    Depending on the individual, many people might answer the following: looks, personality, or both.

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What Guys Said 29

  • My fiancè was super extroverted and I liked the way she was able to talk and laugh with people. I started talking with her and got to love her personality and who she is as a person.

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  • How they interact with friends, I like the ones that are in the background because they're nicer, kinder and more respectful. I like a quiet girl in big groups but a loud one in one on one situations. Kinda like me

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  • A girls eyes and smile but nothing about me is physically attractive and no girls can or could be attracted to me because, Im not physically attractive :(

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  • For me her personality and how she enjoys that moment of her life if she enjoys her life then definitely she will make my life perfect

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  • What attracts me about others is how they carry themselves through life , how they handle life in a positive optimistic way ☺

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  • Well if you haven't meet him/her how can you be attracted by personality. So I guess for me is the smile

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    • How about how they are acting around others? You can tell a lot about a person's personality like that. Are they quiet and reserved or are they smiling and laughing and having fun.

  • Every things but most important things for me :
    1. Eyes
    2. Body shape
    3. Beauty
    4. Dressing
    5. Fresh and clean
    6. Personality

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  • Vibe or certain unique feeling I get when I am around them.

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  • Kindness. Heck just saying Hey *name*! when you see them makes them like you more and want to talk to you.

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  • For me I would have to say it's wether or not we can have fun together. If I can't laugh with you then I'm not attracted at all.

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  • Looks, it's the first thing everyone notices whether they matter or nah

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  • 1. Eyes
    2. Booty
    3. Boobies
    4. Lips
    5. Feet
    6. Hair
    7. Personality

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  • How someone is dressed !!
    Then Looks !! Then Personality !!

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  • Fisrt is always something in thier looks... wanting to meet them is demeanor

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  • obviously looks. You see someone before you know them

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  • Their looks,
    I have no idea what their personality is like until I talk to them

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  • I'm kind of shy guy, so for me it will take time to understand their personality and behaviour

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  • Their voice eyes and smile

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  • their way

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  • Always looks first, then personality

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What Girls Said 9

  • Looks obviously, since I don't know their personality. If they look like they have really thought about what to wear it gets me interested.

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  • Looks : I like it when a guy dresses well and looks clean

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  • Since I'm a shy person, it's their ability to get me out of my shell more quickly than most. Their personality, I suppose. The vibe they give off.

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  • Eyes! My husband has the deep green eyes that I just love. It helps that he usually rocks a six pack too ;)

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  • Their smile

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  • Blue eyes

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  • Definetly a sense of humour

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  • Smile, I love sincere smiles. It is my soft spot.

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  • Personality

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