I couldnt live without an intelligent girl.
Well, no i can 😁, im doing it right now.
I guess what i meant was i couldnt put up with a girl who wasn't intelligent enough.
And by what i mean with that is to rely more on logic rather than emotion. It doesn't matter if her iq is 100 or 150. What i mean is she is gonna use that instead of doing weird things that a lot of girls do.
Now i know women will always be women and men will always be men, but at least in serious situations she has to be level headed. And i would like to be able to have deep conversations with her sometimes, without her getting bored, drifting off, or changing the subject.
Too many times i have come across girls who will do things like poke my face, act like children or do other "cute" things when im trying to say something important.
I just go along, because i dont want to hurt their feelings, and its not like they have any bad intent. But jesus, they gotta save that for later, trying to tell you something here woman!😥😂😂😂
That being said, besides being intelligent, the description is honestly, a bit off a turnoff. Women that work and make a lot of money, especially women who work in STEM fields and the like, tend to be too focussed om work in my taste.
This is because one of the main things i want in a girl is a woman that puts family over work.
Basically a woman that puts work in the backseat and wouldn't have a problem staying at home and taking care of family matters if needed.
Im a traditional guy, and look for a traditional girl. So regarding work, being very ambitious and work driven is a negative for me. The being cold oart is as well. Im not a very social person. But im very caring towards the oeople in my inner circle. If she isn't much of a people's person, i would be the last person to have a problem with that, but many cold people tend to be cold to EVERYONE. so, id have to see about that, wether she is different to me (and by extention to our future family).
Well, thats basically it. What i want is a smart woman who will take care of our family, raise our kids with the best, logical judgement, and have my back regarding things i may not be always able to keep a check on, like sharing duties.
For example, she could be the ones keeping finances in check and giving me advice regarding the former. I want to have a big family , with like 4-5 kids, so i guess i will have to find a hell of a woman to be abke to do all these things.
I know, i have way too much expectations
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I strongly prefer highly intelligent women because I do not have to dumb down my conversations (my father sat me down one time when I was 14 or 15 years old and scolded me for making adults feel stupid around me, he taught me how not to do that, but it is so nice when I don't have to).
However, I have never met a woman who is demonstrably more intelligent than I am. Being an expert in some field in which I am not, sure, happens all the time.
I have also never met a woman I was attracted to who made more money than I typically do (not including pre-career). I have known some C-levels women, but they are older than me and none are attractive. (I have never met Elizabeth Holmes, and although she is a fraud and not nearly as smart as she thinks she is, she is both attractive and makes more money than I do; I would definitely sleep with her).
"very smart and has a career in, for example, a stem field, and is overall good at what she does and thinks logically and is a cold person and doesn't like socializing very much. and is somewhat shy/reserved and also somewhat closed off"
Sounds like half of the women I've been in relationships with (a good part of the other half are models and actresses).
I'm pretty sure most men prefer intelligent women, my boyfriends have anyway, they get turned on when I demonstrate my personal talents (without trying to sound arrogant - we all have our niches).
Dont think that being cold hearted or closed off is an attractive quality
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Why would any sane guy not want to date a girl who is intelligent? lol.
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Yes! Turn on! Even if its in my own field, in which i am one of the smartest from my department i would love to have her as my girlfriend. It means she is interested in the same thing, can teach me new things, can hold a great intellectual conversation with me and on top of that do fun activity's, develop an incredible bond, share strong mutal love and have a good sex life. What a great girl she would be :D
Challenging cool, outperforming frustrating. I could imagine it's the same the other way round.
Money I DNT care literally (if I have sufficient to live normal life)
Intelligent I would love to, if she is in different field than i would be lot more curious to understand her field than even her
It's a turn on for people like me, who judge not only from looks but also personalityI would date a smart girl but I'm not sure about dating someone who's closed off.
Intelligence in a woman is attractive but when she considers herself superior than others because of her intelligence, that is a non-negotiable turn-off.It isn't to me, to me I genuinely don't care how much you earn, I earn enough to feed a small family and pay for myself and have some left over, so if you don't mind earning more than me or being better than me, then I have no issues.
Of course I would like to date a intelligent girl, BUT WHAT is intelligence? That in itself is a whole other question. Personally I think real intelligence in running thin these days.
Intelligence? Hell fucking yeah.
Closed off and cold person? Oh thatβs a huge no.1. great at her job --- check
2. smart --- check
3. shy/reserved --- that's fine
4. cold and closed off --- noCold is where you lost me. If you mean not very affectionate then that would be a big problem.
Hell yea, doesn't matter if she makes more money than me
I fall instantly in love with brilliant women. I'm in love with one now but she's much younger and gay (I think) and I'm happily married.
The type of girl you just described is me. Closed off.. shy... Iβve been called cold, but smart.
Smart girls are great. Its the smart asses you hate.
I love a girl who is exactly what you described. It's not always a physical attraction of a girl, it's her mind and soul that really matters to me. A girls, as you described, is a huge turn on for me.
What kind of hours does she work? How seriously does she take her career? Is she what you'd call a, "career woman?"
Fuck yessssssssss and i do love girls with glasses i think it makes them look cute😊
Yes. I would as long as I know she doesn't judge me for my income or social status.
An intelligent girl would be awesome because I donβt like being a smart guy without a smart girl
Would love too! best relationship I ever had was with a girl who challenged mine.
Yes I like intelligent ladies, they hold good conversations.
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