Guys, how do you feel when a girl says "I love you" first?
What Guys Said 35
Just 4 days ago a girl did that to me i won't lie it felt so good it made me happy but the problem is i like someone else , when i told her that she got hurt. It's really okay to say that to a guy but try to know first if he likes someone else or if he wants to be in a relationship if he likes U kinda the same how U like him. but again it's really okay :) .
I freak out.
I know if I don't reply in kind, I could greatly upset her. But I also know that if I haven't said those words yet, that I am not sure of my feelings. I never want to lead anyone on, but at the same time, a declaration like that is a huge deal, and I want to be certain I unconditionally mean it, before I say it.
I was happy when it first happened to me. Coz it meant sex. Sorry to be crude i was a teenager then. didn't knock that one up though. I cared about her enough not to do that.
Plus if he knows you trully love him chances are he'll want to look after you and your future
Every guy will react differently to it just as girls will to when a guy says it first. If this happened to me I'd feel amazing and most likely say it back!
I have confidence issues, so a girl saying that to me first is a bit of relief and reassurance. I try to meter my expectations and stay reserved until I know for sure my feelings and affection will be reciprocated. If she says it first, it's a point to relax and express myself more freely.
I hate those old fashioned gender roles so i really would like it. Still waiting for the day...
I've always said it first, but it would be ok if she said it first.
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