Girls, Am I attractive enough?

[Tothepowerof27]

I feel very unattractive most of the time. Certainly to most girls. I honestly I have no confidence which I know in it's self is unattractive. But I feel that if I'm not really hot then what's the point of trying at all?

[aliciamylove]

your not ugly tbh

[Tothepowerof27]

Lol I'm glad that I'm not ugly. But I just don't feel attractive at all.

[aliciamylove]

answer my question please

[aliciamylove]

its not your looks, so maybe it could be how u act, your personality maybe?

[Tothepowerof27]

Maybe. It's hard to tell, it's probably overall confidence. But I just don't feel worthy of the realionship that I really want. That could be my problem, I just don't know how to fix that mentality.

[aliciamylove]

what kind of relationship do u want?

[Tothepowerof27]

I want a intimate relationship with someone I connect with. Like, a soul mate. I just want to be some girls Superman and always protect her and make her feel special. But that takes a lot of work to even get a girl interested in that. And I feel like I could be all of that but it's hard to find the one.

[aliciamylove]

well you are seriously no here close to ugly, so dont think that, and sometimes things tke time.

[Tothepowerof27]

Thanks, I just feel like I have really bad luck. And I'm getting really tired of being so alone. So maybe that's why I focus on my physical appearance so much but maybe that's really not so important. What do you think? Is it appearance or personality?

[aliciamylove]

personality and intentions

[Tothepowerof27]

What do you mean exactly by intentions?

[aliciamylove]

girls want a guy whose intentions are positive, intentions as in your intentions for being with her, or being interested.

[Tothepowerof27]

That seems too easy TBH. Yes chemistry is involved but I've been turned down plenty by girls that I wanted to be with lol. It seems like there's a lot more involved to make me attractive than just intentions.