I don't know why it is so but the only women, who like me are the mature and older women. No young woman likes me (except for some in GAG?).
But frankly not that many women like me either.
And when I say "they like me" in this specific context, I do not mean, that they like-like me but they do tell me, that I am a good guy and that it's unbelievable, that I never had a girlfriend in my life. Those ladies are seemingly in their 40s while the girls in their teens and 20s have zero interest in me 🤷 Why so? Does anyone have an idea? I suspect it has something to do with my ambitions and my devotion towards acing all subjects, taking life seriously and am working at the same time.
"I suspect it has something to do with my ambitions and my devotion towards acing all subjects, taking life seriously and am working at the same time."
I think this actually might be the case. Stereotypically guys in your age range are all about partying and banging hot bitches while skipping classes and getting drunk every day and not getting started in life. I see it sometimes too. If that is the case then you are possessing a mature mindset, which is liked to be seen.
Are you one of those, who gets along with the professors and older people better than those in your age range? That would also explain why.
Studies have shown that the things women value change as they grow older. They start with valuing attractiveness and that romantic spark first and foremost in a relationship... then it changes in time as they truly realize how fleeting those things are and they begin to value the things that have value in terms of a lasting relationship. Older women recognize that you have those qualities which make you good in a long lasting relationship, it's the getting started that's the hard part now.
It's very possible. I think it's mostly Disney's fault with the whole follow your heart message they've promoted for so long. This idea of "one true love" and that "love is the most powerful magic of all" etc. Gives people the idea that if you feel that spark of romance aka infatuation it has some crazy significant meaning and that without it a relatonship is practically worthless. Young girls have been taught that a true love is the most important thing. People mistake infatuation as true love and as a result they end up miserable. Eventually they learn what really matters... hopefully. And yet it has still become so ingrained into our thinking that we still look for the feeling first and then check later to make sure we got the important stuff.
Uuugghh... Here is why i like older women and have wished to have fun with some cougars. Unfortunately its not in my cards in my life. It would be a lot of fun and pleasure to have fun with an older and mature woman 👩 less drama and shit. 😎 And better placed things in terms of importance. And more sex!
Lol I honestly expect to marry an older woman, we'll older than me, though by how much I'm not sure. Lol as a kid I found out that the average lifespan of women is linger than that of men so I decided I wanted to marry someone older than me so we could die closet to the same age xD I was a weird kid.
The reason why men die earlier than women is because men are typically the ones doing the most labor, then they marry some lucky woman 👩 , who is usually in possession of all his finances (and it gets worse after a possible divorce), then they have kids and the man is basically and legally forced to be a working slave and make tons of money at his expenses. He does not get to rest almost at all. Of course this takes a great toll on our precious health and well being and that is why we get so much stress and die earlier.
Life is literally a hamster wheel of labor this way.
And i say no thanks to that 😝 I deserve something for myself.
Lol again I plan to avoid that by marrying my best friend. Then I know she likes me for me rather than my money. If I'm supporting her and vice versa, knowing that we're both spending money with the well being of the other in mind then her access to my money is of no concern. Even so I think your concerns are justified. Just make sure if you ever marry you do it for the right reasons. It'll save a lot of trouble in the long run.
Lol I had my best friend leave me for another guy and my first reaction was to be excited for her knowing she'd be much happier with him. XD I'm a strange person. I try to be a good guy not a nice guy. Even if I never get the girl... I know if I ever do I'll be far more likely to keep her.
It might be that you have a more mature mindset for your age, which an older woman would find more interesting. That might still work out. A cougar can teach a young guy some things, and enjoy an adventure for herself.
This is what i suspect is the most likely case, my friend. I'm not after partying wild, I'm after establishing and improving my life situation as my top priority. The fun comes after that.
I wouldn't mind for some tea time with those ladies. They are quite nice and could tell me more about the opposite sex 👍
Women are so lovely!
If I'm really lucky i could find myself a cougar 😀 it would be a great desire fulfilled!
The answer is simple: they have no husband, they are about to climax. They need some quig fug. Their men fellas of the same age normally screw somebody 20-30y. o. So the choice is a 70 y. o. grandpa (whith who they can't have healthy kids), or unexperienced teenagers and 20+ y. o. infants who also want a quig fug. Sometimes they even marry (old woman and young man) when she's rich.
And yes, you're right, those 20 y. o. chigz won't have interest in you, unless you satisfy one or many criteria of mytakes article: The secrets of the ladies' preferences ↗
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