Why do guys prefer easy girls over hard to get ones?

[SShelbiii]

Im a hard to get type of girl and People say im very. Intimidating Guys like me but they never ask me out why do guys like easy girls over a hard to get one

[N0-On3]

Girls shouldn't be categorized into easy or hard to get because that's not all they are, maybe guys choose who they want to be with based on how well their personalities mix, guys may not ask you out because you do intimidate them and they think you would never say yes to them whereas others are more confident in other ways that they value such as asking guys out themselves, i think "easy" and "hard to get" girls each have their own confidences and insecurities that are based on their own personal values, if you really like a guy and you want to know if they feel the same for you either you can do the "easy" thing and ask him out yourself or the "hard" thing and make him work for it, it's really up to you and your preference. I hope you find the right guy though!

[nickyBBB]

Hard to get girls are usually just playing an annoying game and guys don't have time for that. They want the easy girls not for something serious maybe. I think guys would just prefer a normal girl to be with a relationship with, one that isn't too easy or playing. Some guys like intimidating girls and some like easy ones, but I think the majority of guys like neither of these types.

[CreativeMumble]

Because they're easy and don't have to work hard to get them.
Just a thought

[flormol]

This is a really good question! With a plain and simple answer. Today's generation that we are living with is really all about sex! For a lot of guys an easy woman can be a one night stand up to a regular friend with benefits! Now, the good girls that are hard to get are the best because those are the ones that you want to build a relationship with! Guys don't generally like to settle down! But the women that are hard to get are usually the ones that can completely change a man for the better! so don't feel bad about it because your special someone is out there! someone will appreciate everything about you and they will not quit on trying to impress you!
Don't be afraid to hit that follow button!

[10dsw]

There comes a point where many guys "get tired of women" so to speak. This is especially bad for guys between 20-25 because at this age women are at their peak desirability so a lot of guys face too much competition for women of this age. So many settle for less attractive women early on and only "upgrade" with age.

This is why you see decent looking guys between 20-25 hanging out with less attractive and/or easy women. Only later in life do you see average looking guys partnered up with good looking women (in many cases)

[Nakm117]

Depends on how you define "easy". From my experience some girls like to play games and make you jump through unnecessary hoops hoping she'll finally come around. No guy wants to feel like he's not getting anywhere so it's easier to just move on and try to find a "forward" girl. I don't exactly like the word "easy".

[CheckPlease]

Because usually the results are the same and with easy girls. The guy gets into her pants faster. #LazyHumans
A good man will go for you. Honestly latter you will notice those jerks are doing you a favor.
I'm currently with a girl like you and she is so worth the effort.

[Ghost_Woof]

Because it's an ego battle and not slot of guys like to compete with an ego/competitive women... If I see a women playing hard to get I'll just walk the other way I don't have time for that shit... Also because a guy wants to know that you are interested too and playing hard to get shows that you're more interested in playing the attention game then him. It's a red flag to guys to stay away from you.

[That1tallguy]

Why would anybody want to go for someone who makes us jump through hoops. If you keep it up you'll just attract players who like the challenge. Most guys prefer straight to the point a girl who's clear with her intentions. When you say easy do you mean just sex or easy in general either way same rules still apply to both

[That1tallguy]

And of course more guys would prefer to talk to a girl with open body language then intimidating same goes for both genders

[genericname85]

you have to differenciate a bit more. why would guys that are up for some fun and not really looking for anything permanent or serious go for the hard to get ones? it makes no sense xD

being "hard to get" is not a marker of your quality by the way. everyone can be "hard to get" xD

[Berethor]

They prefer them only for easy sex, while non-slutty women are wife material.

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[EmmanuelMurder]

Is that not self explanatory? You realize guys are humans too right? We don't want to stress ourselves over a girl just as a girl wouldn't want to stress herself over a guy who was purposely making himself unapproachable

[harmless_cactus]

For the same reason people walk through the grass instead of taking the long way around the sidewalk.

[KESRmendes]

because they want to get their way which is to get into girl's pants... that's one thing and then the second is that they are too lazy to man up and give up too easily

[Anonymous]

Because it's not worth the effort. Where I live beautiful girls are a dime a dozen. If she's flakey as f*ck I can find her exact look alike without having to travel a great distance. Why would I sweat her? I got my sh! t together so I don't need her. For me it's really that simple.

[theventrsomeone]

The guys who like easy girls is because they think they are going to get sex easier too. Do you really want to be viewed as easy

[Anonymous]

they may not want to try as hard as they’d need to, to get the “hard to get” girls. because they just want right then and there.

[studDMuffF1n]

Because it's less work. Do you take derivatives the limit method or do you do the shortcut?

[Decentguy]

because i dont like to waste my time on those kind of girls

[rockrewls]

Don't have the time or inclination for hard to get mind games...

[Seppelson]

Because they don't want to fight month for a simple date

[Anonymous]

Because hard to get girls are a waste of time. I don't want to chase you around for months just to figure out if you like me or not. I'm tired of it.

[Intraluminal]

Because they can be gotten... D'uh.

[watisgoingon]

the answer is in the question...

[Anonymous]

They don’t prefer them, they just use them.