Why do some good girls turn out to be way too easy and available for men?

[Anonymous]

for some reason girls who have less lovers are more desirable and dependable they are less likely to cheat and get divorced over the more available women. i know we all go through life attracted to a lot of different people but we don't always give into our temptations. why do some good girls turn bad and become to available?

[Anonymous]

It is my own experience, and I’ve seen it happen time and time again to friends and family, that ”good girls” as in loyal, committed, non cheating, honest, loving and so on just get used anyway. Lied to, manipulated, cheated on, dumped and men who are not ”ready” or willing to commit. And while in the relationship the guy gets lazy and takes her for granted. So why would anyone remain ”good” when this is all you get in return anyway. Some women turn ”bad” after one or a few or this experiences, some (like me) lose the desire to date or be in a relationship at all (I’ve not even talked to a guy in that way for years and don’t plan to either) and some few naive ones keep their hopes up that they will finally find a good guy. Most don’t and end up getting burned over and over or finally end up in a marriage with a useless man who does nothing for the relationship (the lazy taking her for granted kind of guy I mentioned before) until one day, maybe many years down the line, she wakes up and divorces him and he didn’t see that coming despite her trying to bring up their issues for years. And he didn’t think she’s actually leave either.

And no, it doesn’t matter squat what the guy looks like or acts like. I’ve seen ugly nerdy shy guys without much experience with women turn this way when they finally found a partner as well as there are extremely good looking attractive men who do this, and every type of guy in between.

[Reemaa]

Maybe they are not really too easy but your insecurities make you think so?
If she thinks you are attractive, she will be easy. That’s it all. You will find other girls who just like to hook up with any men, whether for just having sex and this is not related to girls as you will find men who do this too.

[slatyb]

Why shouldn’t they if they are careful? We have the technology. It’s absurd to expect anyone to remain celibate into their mid-twenties.

[sheikalana]

Perhaps they don't know they're coming off too easy or maybe they think they need to be more available to be liked and have more chances with that guy.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I agree... women that's been around is probably going to be around some more.

[Anonymous]

Why do some good girls turn bad? The same reason some good men turn bad. Cause they get fucked over.

[Asker]

no that sounds like an excuse a lack of self esteem

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying it's right. I'm simply answering your question. And that's the answer.

[Asker]

well i know people who are way to available its not because someone screwed them over, it was a lack of esteem and they are the type who will slash your tires rob you and betray your trust.

[Opinion Owner]

Way too available in what sense? As in they sleep around? And are we talking about men or women here?