Why do promiscuous men fall for nice girls?

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PizzaDaddyo · Accepted Answer

Real answer down below*
My personal take on this:

Super normal guy here! I’m pretty sure everyone loves nice girls and for that matter what is really to hate? For me this is an alarming question because since when was I promiscuous? 😭😭😭

Only because I personally would rather choose the nice girl over… Not nice? I will even furthermore claim that most dudes don’t need a bitchy bitch in their life! Definitely, some girls are more bitchier than others and personally even though a bitchy ass girl can be “ nice to me” I don’t want to live with uncertainty not knowing if she’s going to be a bitch today or not as well as the uncertainty of her being nice and kind all the time but knowing she can be a super bitch, I’d be paranoid and also trying my best not to have her release her inner bitch!

* answer to this question:
Promiscuous men (my definition) - guys who fuck around have either a lot of sex one night stands mostly going for short term; fuck boy.

Now, why do promiscuous men fall for nice girls?
Promiscuous men go for anything they can or want to get their hands on. Now this man is promiscuous, think about it he must have multiple girls on speed dial in his pocket, and at the ready. Maybe not just too but maybe 3, 4 or 5 girls he can contact. The nicest one out of let’s say five is going to have characteristics to stay around. Out of all the traits nice girls may have I believe their loyalty or commitment, let alone their kindness and loving ability are definitely things guys will want to keep around. I would even say promiscuous or not. I’m pretty sure a guy, any guy that had options is very likely going to keep the nicer girl around if possible because he could always at the end of the day fall back on that nice girls once again loyalty commitment. If she’s a girl that knows she can fuck around guys won’t see that as loyal, even if she really is. I guess also, the reality is guys can’t read minds just like women can’t read minds. We all are who we are based on what we assume. Think about it, it dude that is a promiscuous fuck boy… Let’s say he has seven girls. Let’s just say one out of the seven is super nice friendly, loyal, all the characteristics of a nice girl. The other six girls have various amounts of niceness, but may have some thing that the guy really wants that is nice girl doesn’t have. It could be anything to most of the time it’s going to be locks, maybe ass or boobs in shape body or thick whatever guy prefers. Or maybe the nice girl lives super long distance. At the end of the day most people once again like nice people, so I think it would be smart to pick the nice girl who is responsible kind caring listens.

razelove · Accepted Answer

I think you're asking more of a chicken and the egg question there. It would be futile if a man who's laid more pipe than a plumber wants a woman with a body count between 0 and 1 if said woman won't reciprocate.

Anyway, men and women who have slept around a lot at some point do want a relationship. The biggest difference is in perception. Men who can get a lot of women are seen by far more people as desirable, while women who have been with more men are seen by far more people to much less desirable.

Some guys are not going to stop having casual, most are going to want to settle down at some point though. They are not going to do so with the woman they've been running through. Or if they do it results in a tale of caution.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I don’t know.

But I have had it happen. That guy was my childhood crush, he was 25 and he has probably done everything a human mind can think of, when he met me at 21, he fell for me.

He was actually quite well-known with his promiscuity, I found it cute how gentle and sweet he was to me though. Probably as gentle as a man can be.

He asked me for marriage too, but he was very unstable for me to ever consider any type of relationships especially marriage with him.

He told my cousin last year, that I gave him a hope in humanity when I met him and that he has had the biggest crush on me.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

That is just a cliché.. most guys don't fall for good girls they just use them like the rest so they turn into whores just like the rest of them. When they do fall for a good girl it is cuz they are starting to get sick of the pointless sexcapades and want something real and tangible.

Anonymous · Answer

Can be seen as "opposites attract."  Nice people fall for promiscuous ones too because that's what they are missing out on themselves.

Anjoomkabir · Answer

I think it's the other way round  Nice girls fall for promiscious men (who then end up cheating)

misogynistic_pig · Answer

This is called a virgin whore complex, or a madonna whore complex, promiscuous men know how to differentiate between women who are good for relationships and women who are only good for sex.

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

I heard a rumour or myth that says, if a good girl gets hurt by one of these guys... They transform into a bad chick over time and have similar intentions caused by a weak personality

Adam1978 · Answer

They don't. They go for everyone and they don't fall for them. So nothing special about nice girls.

LazerBean · Answer

Because even low quality people want to date high quality people.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Nice girls are easy prey for promiscuous guys.

FreyaRed · Answer

Promiscuous men don't fall for any type of girl, they are promiscuous for a reason.

LiamJHayden · Answer

When I was promiscuous I avoided nice girls. After I stopped being a pig is when I started liking nice girls.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

Because it is a movie. Things are different in reality.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

They need someone they can take home to meet momma.

Sabretooth · Answer

Just another conquest. Here's the real truth about this:

potahto11 · Answer

Because promiscuous men can be nice too, and nice girls can be promiscuous. Also probably based on personality. I don't know if I would make a generalization because nice men fall for nice girls too.

Massageman · Answer

I dunno. Why do nice guys like sluts? Maybe opposites attract?

es20490446e · Answer

They are promiscuous only because they don't believe they can get a good relationship.

Shy_Steve · Answer

It's the same reason any other Guy would fall for a Girl. Us Guys still do not understand why nice Girls fall for Promiscuous Guys.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

There are women men fuck and women that men marry.

DextroShade · Answer

The girls who aren't nice are recreational use only.

barn_stormer · Answer

because they're cleaner and nicer

Quigly · Answer

Do you think non promiscuous men want nasty women?

In_Trance · Answer

for the same reason promiscuous women fall for bad boys

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason promiscuous women fall for nice guys.. For your answer one need only look in the mirror.

devilish-cutie · Answer

can be because they can't have them

WalnutButter · Answer

They like them?

glennos89 · Answer

I think all men fall for nice girls 🤷‍♂️

fonduegirl · Answer

They do? Since when? Lol, you watch too much TV

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Because those women wanted those men as well

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because they're easy prey.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I see that the complete opposite.

Ihatethewill · Answer

Cause they're like untainted water

Chthou95 · Answer

Because they want to fuck the nice girl.

Anonymous · Answer

All men fall for nice girls.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, if they're hot then there's that. . .

itsalyssaagain · Answer

You tell me!!!

springxxx · Answer

Good question.

siseñor · Answer

What's a nice girl?

Anonymous · Answer

Why wouldn't they?

EaterPeter · Answer

Forbidden fruit

Anonymous · Answer

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