Why do promiscuous men fall for nice girls?

[BaoBao1]

[PizzaDaddyo]

Real answer down below*
My personal take on this:

Super normal guy here! I’m pretty sure everyone loves nice girls and for that matter what is really to hate? For me this is an alarming question because since when was I promiscuous? 😭😭😭


Only because I personally would rather choose the nice girl over… Not nice? I will even furthermore claim that most dudes don’t need a bitchy bitch in their life! Definitely, some girls are more bitchier than others and personally even though a bitchy ass girl can be “ nice to me” I don’t want to live with uncertainty not knowing if she’s going to be a bitch today or not as well as the uncertainty of her being nice and kind all the time but knowing she can be a super bitch, I’d be paranoid and also trying my best not to have her release her inner bitch!


* answer to this question:
Promiscuous men (my definition) - guys who fuck around have either a lot of sex one night stands mostly going for short term; fuck boy.


Now, why do promiscuous men fall for nice girls?
Promiscuous men go for anything they can or want to get their hands on. Now this man is promiscuous, think about it he must have multiple girls on speed dial in his pocket, and at the ready. Maybe not just too but maybe 3, 4 or 5 girls he can contact. The nicest one out of let’s say five is going to have characteristics to stay around. Out of all the traits nice girls may have I believe their loyalty or commitment, let alone their kindness and loving ability are definitely things guys will want to keep around. I would even say promiscuous or not. I’m pretty sure a guy, any guy that had options is very likely going to keep the nicer girl around if possible because he could always at the end of the day fall back on that nice girls once again loyalty commitment. If she’s a girl that knows she can fuck around guys won’t see that as loyal, even if she really is. I guess also, the reality is guys can’t read minds just like women can’t read minds. We all are who we are based on what we assume. Think about it, it dude that is a promiscuous fuck boy… Let’s say he has seven girls. Let’s just say one out of the seven is super nice friendly, loyal, all the characteristics of a nice girl. The other six girls have various amounts of niceness, but may have some thing that the guy really wants that is nice girl doesn’t have. It could be anything to most of the time it’s going to be locks, maybe ass or boobs in shape body or thick whatever guy prefers. Or maybe the nice girl lives super long distance. At the end of the day most people once again like nice people, so I think it would be smart to pick the nice girl who is responsible kind caring listens.

[razelove]

I think you're asking more of a chicken and the egg question there. It would be futile if a man who's laid more pipe than a plumber wants a woman with a body count between 0 and 1 if said woman won't reciprocate.

Anyway, men and women who have slept around a lot at some point do want a relationship. The biggest difference is in perception. Men who can get a lot of women are seen by far more people as desirable, while women who have been with more men are seen by far more people to much less desirable.

Some guys are not going to stop having casual, most are going to want to settle down at some point though. They are not going to do so with the woman they've been running through. Or if they do it results in a tale of caution.

[Jamie05rhs]

As much as I hate everything about this, it is the truth.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t know.

But I have had it happen. That guy was my childhood crush, he was 25 and he has probably done everything a human mind can think of, when he met me at 21, he fell for me.

He was actually quite well-known with his promiscuity, I found it cute how gentle and sweet he was to me though. Probably as gentle as a man can be.

He asked me for marriage too, but he was very unstable for me to ever consider any type of relationships especially marriage with him.

He told my cousin last year, that I gave him a hope in humanity when I met him and that he has had the biggest crush on me.

[Anemone978]

That is just a cliché.. most guys don't fall for good girls they just use them like the rest so they turn into whores just like the rest of them. When they do fall for a good girl it is cuz they are starting to get sick of the pointless sexcapades and want something real and tangible.

[Jamie05rhs]

This is unfortunately the truth.

[Anonymous]

Can be seen as "opposites attract."

Nice people fall for promiscuous ones too because that's what they are missing out on themselves.

[BaoBao1]

But will they keep being promiscuous even after falling for her?

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes.

[Screenwriter]

I have trouble believing tigers change their stripes. Maybe for a little while this person might settle down. But people who have run through a lot of people for sex and avoided commitment are probably fearful of settling down, and for some reason want and need heightened excitement of many different people. Sex addiction is what it sounds like.

[Anjoomkabir]

I think it's the other way round

Nice girls fall for promiscious men (who then end up cheating)

[Jamie05rhs]

Aye! Intelligent theory there. 💡🤔 🔍

[misogynistic_pig]

This is called a virgin whore complex, or a madonna whore complex, promiscuous men know how to differentiate between women who are good for relationships and women who are only good for sex.

[DenizLikesTennis]

I heard a rumour or myth that says, if a good girl gets hurt by one of these guys... They transform into a bad chick over time and have similar intentions caused by a weak personality

[Adam1978]

They don't. They go for everyone and they don't fall for them. So nothing special about nice girls.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's a very good point. You're right. They often do not actually "fall for" the nice girls.

[LazerBean]

Because even low quality people want to date high quality people.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@LazerBean I'm not condoning infidelity. I find it distasteful, but saying even low quality people want to date high quality people gives credence to the promiscuous man. If he wasn't considered a pursuable high quality by enough women he couldn't be promiscuous, could he?

[LazerBean]

Anyone who is promiscuous is low quality. Just because a bunch of female whores want a male whore does nothing make him any less of a low quality whore.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have issues reconciling his low worth on my moral scale with his high demand in society (the female half of it at least). Why is he not seen as a pariah and faithful men lifted up?

[Moirine]

I'm here for you babe 😌 🔥!

[Moirine]

@LazerBean

[LazerBean]

He is seen as a pariah by high quality people. Have you not noticed that only other whores associate with male whores? People stick to their kind, which is why people like me shun promiscuous people.

[siseñor]

Brutal but fair

[Vegasrunner]

@LazerBean Why do you believe nice girls are low quality?

[LazerBean]

@Vegasrunner your monkey brain moments are hilarious

[Vegasrunner]

@LazerBean TY but it doesn't take much to amuse children. Why do you believe nice girls are low quality?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Nice girls are easy prey for promiscuous guys.

[FreyaRed]

Promiscuous men don't fall for any type of girl, they are promiscuous for a reason.

[LiamJHayden]

When I was promiscuous I avoided nice girls. After I stopped being a pig is when I started liking nice girls.

[BaoBao1]

What made you like them?

[Sabretooth]

Just another conquest. Here's the real truth about this:

https://youtu.be/RCdCuduv0H0

[Sexiestjohnson]

Because it is a movie. Things are different in reality.

[potahto11]

Because promiscuous men can be nice too, and nice girls can be promiscuous. Also probably based on personality. I don't know if I would make a generalization because nice men fall for nice girls too.

[Peter_Penetrator]

They need someone they can take home to meet momma.

[Massageman]

I dunno. Why do nice guys like sluts? Maybe opposites attract?

[es20490446e]

They are promiscuous only because they don't believe they can get a good relationship.

[DextroShade]

The girls who aren't nice are recreational use only.

[Shy_Steve]

It's the same reason any other Guy would fall for a Girl.

Us Guys still do not understand why nice Girls fall for Promiscuous Guys.

[Blueeyes81]

There are women men fuck and women that men marry.

[barn_stormer]

because they're cleaner and nicer

[BaoBao1]

If they like cleanliness and niceness, why aren’t they same?

[barn_stormer]

because they are who they are

[Quigly]

Do you think non promiscuous men want nasty women?