Why do men think women like nice guys even though it never gets them laid?

[Anonymous]

[paledreams]

I like how I know at least I'd never raise my fist ✊🏻👊🏻 striking a woman, because let's all be true here, everyone says they want what they want, until it proves too edgy, too much - they say they want a rebellious man or bad boy man, and sure enough they may get too much lol - so I'm glad I'm never a wife beater or I'm never a girlfriend beater either :) - yeah, a soft nice guy I sure am - and that I'm proud of 😉😛👅

[paledreams]

So I may never get laid. Yet at least I'll never be charged or be remembered for beating women or sleeping around with other women and then being a wife-beater or whatever - so I'm just a happy humble nerd. A nice guy. Ha! Ah well. I'm glad I'm me rather than those out there who are fist fist fists lol and that ain't a sexual joke 🤣

[Anonymous]

because societal lies were rammed into their head at an early age and continued into adulthood

[paledreams]

I thought that was gonna lead into a dark domestic violence educational insightful joke

[Anonymous]

So being nice is only meant to get laid?

So they aren't actually nice guys. Hold the door open but expect something sexual in return type of thing. That's why we don't go for "nice guys" because most aren't nice at all. They're only looking for sex.

[DishLady]

Who said never? Some guys are so busy tripping over themselves that the only reason they’re not getting laid is their own little hang ups…. It’s nothing to do with the woman at all.

[Asker]

Never the woman's fault, ofc 🙄

[DishLady]

Oh… that’s what you got out of my answer? Good for you. Stay single.

[Asker]

Is it ever the woman's fault?

[DishLady]

Sure. Just not in this case. I’m very egalitarian as a rule. Just this matter seem more to be a you thing than a her thing.

[CrabCakes11]

If a man is being nice to get sex, he isn’t nice, he’s just a fuck boy wearing a mask, which women can smell from a mile away. That’s why you’re not getting laid, because you’re not really nice and women can tell.

[Asker]

Yeah, women can read minds, that's why they're always picking dudes that abuse them

[CrabCakes11]

You do realize most women do not get abused in their relationships, right? Get off Reddit and 4Chan and get to know people in real life

[Asker]

This is gaslighting, many women have. You said women can tell, not these women tho?

[CrabCakes11]

Yeah bud, I’m gaslighting you. Get a life

[Asker]

Answer me you dork

[CrabCakes11]

Why should I?

[Rei13]

Lol if a guy expects to get laid just for being ‘nice’ then he isn’t actually a nice guy and most women can see through that.

I’ve been told No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover is a good read. Maybe you’d benefit from it

[Nikki1989]

How many nice guys do you know?

Obviously not many, if any at all.

[Radiate143]

"NICE" guys are not nice. They are just fake. Kind and genuine men get the best of women because women know they actually appreciate them as human beings and people. Not just trying to extract selfish benefits out of her.

[LazerBean]

Because it's true and they are getting girlfriends, whether or not you want to see it.

[Asker]

They paying for onlyfans

[LazerBean]

Nah, and they're consuming less porn than you

[Asker]

I dont watch porn, the simps do

[LazerBean]

Simps and losers, so still you

[Asker]

I am neither

[LazerBean]

Lol k

[Asker]

You're mean

[OfMiceandMen]

Nice guys get laid over and over, a-holes get it once.

[Billlewis]

I'm not trying to get laid; I just enjoy making people feel good about themselves.

[paledreams]

Same here and I know I've never had to raise a fist or flex muscles to bully my way for anything 😊😬 , that good doctor episode when Shaun proved himself a bully, that's a good one also - 👏🏻 I also felt cringe as he had no intimidating physique lol, his coworker wasn't intimidated nor amused. Anyways 😂

[Billlewis]

@paledreams Excellent!

[paledreams]

All the best. Bill. You're keeping America humble by being humility @billewis and putting others first. Before your own needs

[paledreams]

@Billlewis typo 😂😂

[Billlewis]

@paledreams Yes, Sir.

[paledreams]

Thank you sir 🙂😊@billlewis

[paledreams]

Thank you, sir @Billlewis

[Billlewis]

@paledreams You're welcome to follow/message me if you want.

[Pohjolan]

Well they do like some nice guys.

[paledreams]

It's very surprising the ones who do though , sometimes even I think to myself hmmm 🤔 what's the deal there 🧐