Are nice guys a turn off for women?

[linksta0161]

Just seams like women loose interest in men that are nice to them and are attracted to complete cunts

[MissCappuccino]

Self-proclaimed nice guys usually aren't what they say they are.
I'm attracted to a man with a kind personality and a good sense of humour, but if he kept saying that he was such a 'nice guy', then that would ring alarm bells for me.

[linksta0161]

I'm not saying that I am a nice guy I have no idea if I actually am but iv See women leave really nice people on the basis that they are to nice for them

[ChronicThinker]

It's not niceness they aren't attracted to. It's guys who are either nice with no other qualities or who think being a total submissive butt-kiss is the way to go.

Our friends can be nice, it doesn't mean we wanna fuck em'.

[serious]

No, I am sure they are not, but according to me most woman won't prefer an exclusive relationship with nice guys. Eventually they get bored and tired and would leave them.

[zagor]

Not all nice guys are boring. Just the ones who refer to themselves as nice guys.

[serious]

@zagor

"Just the ones who refer to themselves as nice guys."

What does this sentence mean? I mean can a man not know if he is nice or not? I think a man himself knows what he is and his character. According to me there is nothing wrong if a man says that he is a nice person, it shows that he knows himself.

[zagor]

A man would also know if he has a wart on his butt. Would you expect him to go about informing people of that fact?

Genuinely nice guys don't feel the need to go around saying that; part of being nice is humility, and respect for others.

[MissCappuccino]

@zagor 👍👍👍👍👍

[serious]

@zagor

"Would you expect him to go about informing people of that fact?"

No, I am not referring to that. What I am saying is there is a person should only say that if they are misunderstood by others or they may be in a situation where they are forced to sort of say it, I am not saying that they should flaunt about themselves being nice, no need to announce it to the world.

[linksta0161]

But I never said I was a nice guy I'm not actually talking about myself in this question but I have seen decent guys who put their all into a relationship and 9 times out of 10 they are told they are too nice like what dose that actually mean "too nice"

[NerdInDenial]

It’s kind of like male feminists. Women will just abuse them.

[islandchic95]

No, but if he's being a bit creepy then he can back off.

[stuntbrain]

All I can say is that nice girls turn me on, so I assume the feeling would be mutual

[linksta0161]

But iv seen so many guys broken down after being told they are just eay to nice all the time

[linksta0161]

And one thing we should have learned by now is that just because a man likes something dosent mean a girl will like it to

[ericclayton]

Nice guys don't turn them off. Submissive types, orbiters, head-nodders, and creepy entitled self-described "nice guys" turn them off.

[tylerboi]

Girls love nice guys, but confidence is still key (at least, that's my understanding)

[protmac]

You need to be respectful but also assertive and not give into females when they shit test you. Females brains work on a very subconscious level when it comes to dating.

[lsaiah]

Only if they're ugly, broke, stupid, fat, weird, socially inept, or just losers

[linksta0161]

G8 answer. U truly are a credit to society

[jstevens053]

I agree. Then they are like my boyfriend is such an asshole. Haha

[TinaSP]

not for the good ones

[Pamina]

Why would being nice be a turn off?

[linksta0161]

I don't know to me it's a deal breaker if your a cunt to me then we just ain't gonna work and I wouldn't treat someone that I had feelings for like shit

[Pamina]

That doesn't answer my question.

[linksta0161]

Am not the person to answer that question is what I'm saying I don't see it as a turn off

[Pamina]

But apparently you think there might be a lot of people out there who think being nice is a turn off.

[Tomblebee]

What is your flavour of nice?

[opurba]

Nice guys r sometimes creepy.

[linksta0161]

"Sometimes creepy" in my opinion most people have a bit of freek in them

[opurba]

That's true n the best part is they can't hide.

[NovissimumVirorum]

Nice guys are usually anything but

[Love_yourself]

Being too nice is a turn off...

[ZELLxoxo]

No they are adorable