Are women only nice to good looking men?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Maybe

[canuck_guy23]

I feel like girls do treat guys who are more attractive differently in terms of kindness. The whole hiiiiii. You may say “well some girls do that because they like someone so we act that way”. But I know girls who have “sorta” liked me, nothing happened and then they despised me for the of their life. There’s 1 girl I knew for over 5 years, things didn’t work out, few years ago I saw her at a mall she didn’t say hi. Back in 2014 I worked at Best Buy and she came into the store and didn’t say hi either. Girls hold grudges, girls are more vengeful and uptight. Majority of girls and women out there seem to be sellouts and don’t have morals or kindness.


Here’s a thought, there’s a guy who’s car broke down and he’s on the side of the road and needs help. Girl drives him and says hmmm nah he’s not that good looking will she say forget it? Compared to a guy who’s on the side of the road with his car not working but he’s handsome, I would say the girl would stop and help him. To any girl reading this who says, OH please YOU wouldn't HELP AN UGLY GIRL! Actually I would that’s what a Good Samaritan does. Females are deceptive, cunning and weird the way they think, I’m not saying men are not awful because there’s a ton of shitty men in society but I’m not going to hold back against how females act today..

[canuck_guy23]

Drives by him*

[Sarahr123]

I personally would be reluctant to help any stranger. I’m more likely to help a woman than any random man because I don’t know he might end up raping me and then killing me or something.

[canuck_guy23]

@Sarahr123 well I get your point I’ve watched movies where a guy plays the victim/innocent only to attack her when her guard is down. I think if I was stuck on the side of the road I would merely ask a girl “hey can you call a tow truck for me” that’s if my phone wasn’t working. But if a girl or woman needed help even if a man or guy needed help I would approach it the same way, to help them. But I agree that you shouldn’t trust everyone.

[Sarahr123]

by the way some girls trap men too and cause trouble and even get men killed so personally I’d advise anyone I care about not to help any stranger whatsoever. Just call the police/ambulance if someone needs help.

[canuck_guy23]

@Sarahr123 yeah that’s true, I’ve used tinder before and there were girls who wanted to meet for sex. Whether it was a cat fish profile or the girl who she said she was. Last thing I want to do is be in a strange house with a woman and I’m naked and she’s holding a knife... fuck that! I don’t care how beautiful she is. There’s even girls in this world who worship Satan, it’s demented.

[Sarahr123]

Yeah don’t meet up with strangers - there are all sorts of psychos out there.

[backontheblock22]

In my experience women have a harder time controlling their emotional judgment when they interact with men.

When I was younger and told I was “cute” several times a week I could get away with saying doing all sorts of crap. I wasn’t a punk and actually very sweet to most people. But still I got a ton more leeway back then.

This was especially true by how older women treated me. I got hired for an internship that I was not qualified for because the older female manager thought I was attractive. She didn’t flat out say that of course. But I could tell by her smiling and body language.

Not that I’ve fallen off a cliff nowadays (still in good shape and got all my hair) but let’s face it I’m definitely no longer a teenage heart throb.

Nowadays also much more congizant of how I behave around women (more careful not to stare too long... easier said than done). But I notice women treat me differently and not for the better. Especially women in their early 20s I meet in public. Also I noticed that middle aged women get lots more leeway to openly express their attraction towards younger man. It’s considered more “innocuous” than vice versa. It’s double standard bullshit.

It just really pisses me off when I’m conversing in a completely non romantic and/or professional setting and I notice that judgmental sneer in their faces (I had this problem with a younger female colleague I had ZERO interest in).

Younger guys can be guilty of this as well. But men get CALLED OUT for it for being “sexist”. The feminists just gloss over the common role reversal.

[Sarahr123]

No. Decent people are nice to good people and avoid bad people. I am nice to everyone unless they’re rude to me. Also if a man is being inappropriate and sexual then obviously a woman will feel uncomfortable. I don’t care if he is good looking because I don’t appreciate unwanted sexual behaviour. I don’t like sexually suggestive comments or whatever that just makes me uncomfortable. And if they say something offensive or toxic then Idc how they look they are cancelled.

Yes everyone is attracted to whom they find physically attractive and that is different for everyone because we all have our individual tastes. Obviously there are some people who are the conventional beauties that everyone will find attractive but that is different and doesn’t have anything to do with how we will treat them.

If someone treats someone bad for no reason then something is wrong with that person’s character. It doesn’t matter how someone looks, we should be nice to everyone.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you very much :)

[backontheblock22]

I get what you are saying but there is still a gender difference here.

[princesssnowflake]

It’s scientifically proven that good looking people in general get treated better (this doesn’t mean they’re the only people that get treated nicely), and it’s not “pReTty pRiviLeGe” simply mechanical processes of the brain. Good looking people seem more friendly and trustworthy to our brains. However, women don’t rate men the same way men rate women. Sure attractiveness is a factor, but funny guys win in this aspect in my opinion. A guy can get away with almost anything if he can talk his way through it, and make you laugh all the while. Silver-tongued men stay winning, regardless of being ugly or good looking.

[GoodManDave]

My experience - they’re nice when it serves a purpose or it’s expected by society (and they follow those expectations), or if they think I will do what they want, then yes, most women are “nice” to me (and I’m ugly).


But, once most of them think I’ve outlived my usefulness, or I dare to ask a woman out for coffee, any pretense at being nice often disappears and is replaced with fairly open disgust or contempt. I think a handsome guy will see more patient behavior and women will be nicer longer (even if that guy is an obnoxious jerk). I’d say the same for a lot of guys dealing with a gorgeous woman, too.


But no, most women can play nice (even if it’s not genuine) with most people for at least a little while. The difference is often what they would put up with, or how long the kindness would last if they knew no one was watching.

[Petra150]

Unfortunately that's a pretty good description of what we women are great at, to have a great dobbelstandard, as we love to scream about the very few things men do wrong, but we are world champion in treating men with very little respect. Not to mention something as the ME TOO thing. I'd guess none of us will blame a super good-looking guy for sexchikane at all, but if a short elderly guy , trys to be nice to a hot woman by holding the door for her or offers an imature teenager girl he seat in a bus, there's a risk he'll be charged for sexchikane and will be put on a trail way before massmuders and violent people in general

[Konabeana]

🤮🤮🤮

[nella965]

you sound very anti woman. why do you hate women so much?

[Konabeana]

@nella965 probably a troll.

[Hshsbsb]

@nella965 Intelligent women are reasonable people. They can actually understand that women can be in the wrong too.

[Hshsbsb]

@Konabeana it's crazy how sexist women are. They really are the sexist gender.

[Petra150]

@Konabeana perhaps I'm something very seldome as and hunbel honest women, who simply had vidnes too many men, been ruined buy us , we are the " weak" gender, still we have more dead men on our conscience than Hitler, Stalin and Mao together

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@petra150 you are clearly a troll. Those men together are responsible for more deaths than any evil women in history. Not to mention all the evil men who ever lived.
Me too wasn't the big deal you are making it sound to be. Changed nothing.

[Hshsbsb]

@ThisIsMyOpinion lol you have what is called the wonderful women syndrome. Get help.

[nella965]

@Hshsbsb This lady goes around GAG portraying all women as terrible people who mistreat men on every possible way. there's no validity to absolutely anything she says. She has nothing but just 1 goal in mind: demonize women

[Hshsbsb]

@nella965 Well women certainly aren't that bad but at least a contrast to all the women who think that women are perfect.

[nella965]

@Hshsbsb well people who think women are perfect are equally as bad as people who think that all women are evil.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@Hshsbsb did I said any lie?

[Petra150]

@Hshsbsb great job kissing our ass , think you ought be much more critical and keep of the 90 % of us who are shallow and immature and stick with us few honest grown up bwhibare litteraly shallow gold-digger

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@petra150 I am 100% sure you are a dude!

[Hshsbsb]

@petra150 I don't care about women that much and don't expect anything. I just see how they can benefit me.

[nella965]

@ThisIsMyOpinion i completely agree. she's most likely a dude.

[Petra150]

@nella965 Nice to see I have 5 likes from people who are very reasonable. And we'll 4 who might ought to consult a psychologist, as they must have serious self confidence issue, they want to let go of the poor men. Who are the last to blame for our sick obsession of tall men

[nella965]

@petra150 because those 5 likes are from men who hate women. This entire website is filled with men who hate women. Do you see any women give you any likes? NO. because everything you say are nasty ugly things about women.

lets be honest, we all know you are not actually a woman. you are a man.

[nella965]

there are also a big number of people who dislike your post.

[Petra150]

@nella965 when you grow up a d become nature enoughf to accept an honest objective comment about , the reality of life , you might wouldn't react so childish and try to shoot the messenger of an honest opinion , most grown up are aware of.

[Petra150]

@ThisIsMyOpinion It could be nice if it were possible to come up with an objective opinion , without gettig haters

[nella965]

@petra150 you're a woman hater.

[Anonymous]

A better question would be: Are men only nice to good-looking women?
An even better question would be: Are old, ugly, fat men only nice to good-looking women?

(hint, hint)

[Hshsbsb]

Why would that be a better question?

[Asker]

Point made

[ChiTown33]

It kind of sucks to be a woman in this area. Act not nice and you're a b****. Act too nice and the guy thinks you're sending him signals. This right here is probably the biggest reason guys get mad at women for being rejected. Because the guy feels led on. It doesn't help though that there are women who deliberately lead guys on for their own gratification.
I like this big bang theory clip because as Bernadette says she's nice to everyone. And Raj being an inexperienced male mistakes friendliness for something more and Howard her boyfriend gets upset about it.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/E2JJ3exxkhM

[Browneye57]

Yes, of course. Unless you're obviously RICH, then she might give you a brief chance as well.
Otherwise, you're just 'creepy'.

Women love opportunistically. As long as they FEEL they are receiving their percieved benefit then they're all in. Otherwise, if she doesn't, she'll shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination.

Guys love idealistically. They'll just hang in there, holding on, just hoping things will improve. When he's reached his limit, only then he might cheat or bail. Guys just don't shut down sexually. In fact, the simple fact that women can do this, scares the living shit out of normal men.

[kmg9150]

All you nice to everyone people are full of it, what you say and what your thinking are only true if their the same. Its not just about what you say or do its more about what your thinking, because if your thinking opposite of what you say, thats rude AF. Its proven science that you will be more engaging to those who have are more appealing to you than others facts... When you start describing what type of person you are and how you act when the question clearly doesn't ask JS about you, rather a group of individuals, you clearly have some self esteem issues that I'm sure borderline that relating being a narcissist...

Yes women are nicer to good looking men (in what their view is good looking). Not one of you can say you never had felt an attraction to someone based on looks. They run hand in hand.

[StarsInTheEyes]

I'm nice to people regardless of how "good" they look, males and females. However, I do believe that some people can be nice or nicer to those who are good-looking.

(I quoted "good" because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.)

[Myou-ou]

They're not exclusively nice to attractive men, but if you're not attractive, the chances of being in a long-term relationship with any woman who views you as more than an ATM or emotional tampon are very slim.

I should note I'm talking about younger men here - those who were adults at the dawn of Tinder hookup culture and onward.

[Christsdisciple15]

women are able to treat men that they aren’t attracted to like human beings and be civil.. I can’t say the same for men though they will literally treat women they’re not attracted to as subhuman and unworthy of respect and basic decency

[jerdanro]

Is this men, or a man? How often habe you seen this and where? How old were the men? It sounds like your talking about highschool boy jocks, not men.

[jerdanro]

You're

[Christsdisciple15]

there’s literally an entire social media trend about this currently. It’s not my just own experience it is several several women so clearly it’s men.

[jerdanro]

Social media isn't reality. You're talking about a small, very specific population. There have and will always be mean men and women. That's not most people. The "men" (more likely boys) online that behave that way are cruel children and most are just miserable with their own lives. The same is true for mean women and girls. by the way. Being 18 or 21 or 25 doesn't automatically mean they "grown up".

[jerdanro]

And saying that women are better in that regard isn't always true.

[Christsdisciple15]

I’m not referring to a “small population” of men online... I’m referring to real life encounters... and it is a shared experience that is way too common for it to be “just a small amount” of men. anyway I’m not arguing over something that’s a fact, have a good day.

[Hshsbsb]

Hahahah how delusional are you? It's obviously the opposite. Are women not able to think correctly at all?

[avicennagal]

I think we tend to notice things we find appealing so we tend to be nice to them. We notice others when they present themselves by talking to us. If you are an unfriendly person but attracted to the good looking man, you will be friendly. If you are not attracted to that person, then you will probably be your usual unfriendly self.

[Splatzonelover1]

sometimes. other girls that did have learning disabilities was always jealous of me since I got the must attention of guys that also has a learning and yep they're even trying to become friends with me just get to ruin my relationship that I did have in college and one outside. this why i don't bother with trying to become friends anymore and thanks that i always as my dogs as friends.

[genericname85]

we generally as humans tend to be nicer to good looking people. because there's psychologically a bleed-over effect, that's called "halo-effect" in psychology. it means that we automatically transfer judgements we made in one area over to our evaluation of other areas. so in this example, when someone looks nice, we also automatically see them as smarter and nicer.

[Anonymous]

Look at it from an attractive woman's point of view: if she's nice to all men, she's gonna have to deal with a constant barrage of guys hitting on her. If she acts cold to the men she's not attracted to and nice to the men she's interested in, she'll have fewer headaches.

[Anonymous]

I think it goes both ways but not all of the time. It’s really more dependent on the person. A generally nice person is nice to most everyone.
Also, some people will treat someone poorly because they’re attractive just like some people will treat someone better because they’re attractive.
It can go either way, honestly. Attractive people seem to evoke more intense responses- positive or negative. It’s like a roller coaster, the highs are high but the lows are low

[kellytheman]

I mostly say maybe be but it does seem a girl want to be nice toa good looking guy but in my experiences I not that good looking but my confidence and charming features usally attract girls. I noticed if the guy is good looking he either has a boring personality or a a**hole. I think women are only nice to good looking guy because there is something to gain sexually.

[EssenceOfLight]

Yes and you can't buy with their niceness anything. I gained 15 kg for a while because I neglected my self after short adventure with drugs and my ex mothered me with sayings "a little bit fat isn't bad." I experienced on my own skin how arrogant some girls can be who flirted every time with me some months before. Forget those snakes, they need a decoration for their ego not a man.

[IveGotNoName]

I mean probably nicER. Of course a SINGLE person naturally wants to ""impress"" a person they're attracted to. If she's in a relationship it would be weird to differentiate though, in my opinion

[TheorionMage]

How many times has an interested male gotten "Uncle/Daddy" Ew-w-w friend-zoned
and gotten "Yes I DO, but NOT with YOU".
Socially courteously 'cold' and at arm's length only?

How many young women ENJOY being relegated to a celibate & neutered 'little sister' status?

THAT 'knife' cuts in BOTH directions~

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Umm, when I put more effort in what I wear and how I look it's definitely a night-and-day difference. But I like the idea of receiving what you put in, (put effort in yourself, and people make effort for you) so you won't hear me complain.

But can't say that's with all women, and it's probably also a confidence thing, as I feel 20X beter going out looking my best. 🤷‍♂️

[doopayo]

It depends on the person, not the gender. Some women are more shallow just as some men are more shallow and value looks more.