Why am I so unpopular with women?

[mactallica]

I'm pretty funny, I'm decently attractive. I'm smart, caring, honest. I'm just a bit of a nerd, and like different music than most people. What is it?

[Nahliability]

It could be partly because of the music. I'm just going to assume that you're into heavy metal based on your looks and so am I. It's a big part of my life and many guys think it's sort of off-putting. Maybe it's the same with girls for you. However, don't change. Do what makes you happy, keep the long hair if you like it, wear eyeliner if you want to. You'll get a girl eventually.

[Anonymous]

Aw, sans eyeliner you remind me of one of my bffs who is a little younger than me :)
Hmmm, I think it’s that people don’t take the time to get to know you—despite the saying “don’t judge a book by its cover” many, many people do. Don’t take it to heart—you’ll find the right one someday!

[Opinion Owner]

And, contrary to others opinions, I say keep the hair :) and if you like eyeliner, have at it and keep wearing it! Don’t stop being you, ever.

[mactallica]

I don't wear the eyeliner all the time, sometimes I want to sometimes it don't

[Opinion Owner]

I feel ya

[designer1]

First impressions are everything. You do seem attractive but it might be the long hair ( and eye makeup?) Have you ever tried a man bun or a man pony tail? I think you’d look great with a hair cut too. and I can’t tell if you are wearing eye makeup but that can send a stand-offish message. Also you definitely don’t have to change the way you look. These are just suggestions but you look fine to me. In the end, the right person won’t care that much about looks anyway.

[X_SilentScream_X]

Situations can affect peoples perceptions of people. How you handle events in front of women can change if they're attracted to you. Plus, women maybe attracted to you, but just not say. Be more open and ask sometimes, confidence is super attractive

[Galemead]

Maybe you cast a "don't screw with me" attitude when you're in public when you don't mean to. Try smiling more often; you'll appear more approachable

[mactallica]

I look mentally handicapped when I smile

[Galemead]

I don't think so. What I mean is sometimes people have that "leave me alone" kind of look to them (I know I do this cause my friends told me). You just gotta try to relax and appear more inviting

[SweetsAndCyanide]

I can't find anything wrong... are you a shy guy? I mean, you are really cute, but some girls don't like shy guys (I personally love shy guys).

[mactallica]

I'm not as shy as I am introverted

[Sawyerblu]

Maybe it’s the hair/eyeliner thing you’ve got going on

[Rosalie28]

Agreed

[shan_shan]

Sorry but i don't understand, Unpopular in which way exactly?

[mactallica]

Dating, I have plenty of friends

[shan_shan]

You tried asking them out and they reject you?

[mactallica]

More or less

[shan_shan]

You look fine its their loss and don't think so much about it or you will start believing there is really something wrong with you when its not

[babybeanboy]

Not sure. I would have to know you in real life, but from what i'm hearing and seeing you seem like a cool guy.

[Anonymous]

I would recommend a different haircut, are you wearing eyeliner? Probably drop that too.

[Harleyonfire]

There might be girls that like you but just don't come up and tell you.

[ElaineS18]

You sound fun to me, I don't know what it could be🤔

[mactallica]

Well thank you

[ElaineS18]

Np and I like the dark hair😉

[mactallica]

Np feel free to dm me