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Yes I would be very happy to spend time with my girlfriend rather than wasting my time playing in computers.
Depends on how much they play. can't really expect someone to change their habits but they shouldn't be so involved it hurts the relationship
OMG LEAGUE!!! <3 lol Nope i will never give up on my hobby and if i do i will do it for myself nobody else
only a beta guy would sacrifice his gaming love for a relationship.
I was in this situation before and I usually would not play in front of her because I was always excited just to have her over and that's coming from a huge gamer.
I would not... But then again they are my therapy. My best weapon in fighting the pain.
Umm.. I'd play along... Tho she would know I like to give and not receive.
Never! You can't just stop after you've put so much time into it.
Over my dead body (my girlfriend stabs me, Okay Hun I give up).
Relatable
I'm not a big gamer anyway... so yeah, I would happily give up gaming for her.
Run my hands through her hair and then keep playing the game.
Not necessarily, certainly wouldn't for one who'd try to make me choose
give it up? heck no. make some compromises to have a good relationship? of course.
I dont play them much. So it wouldn't be a problem from the start😂😂
Cut back, sure thing. Also league is not a good place to learn, neither is fortnite.
About the update: that's basically every gamers dream. You'd be treating him if you did that. I loved to to the other way round just as much, especially since she was way competitive
If you start trying to control what he can and can't do, you'll be single very soon.
Never... It's something I am addicted to since childhood and will be difficult to give up overnight
My wife's a gamer lol We play together. It's our favourite hobby (apart from sex).
You are lucky dude
This guy has what just about every gamer wants.
He sounds like my m8
But i guess m m8 will have to reduce how much he playes soon
No.
If she told me to give up something I loved, then clearly I'm not that important to her, and thus, she is not theone.
I would never give them up, it's been my hobby since childhood but I know when is time to put them apart and when not
If you was around I'd find it rude to focus on a video game. But other than that situation I'll do what I like.
Maybe bt not totally we can give up the video games bcz they make us feel hsppy sometimes like girls make us happy 😊
I’d definitely cut back but I can’t just quit altogether. I have too many really good friends I’ve met through games and and still play with now.
I mean, I wouldn't play around her if she didn't like it, but I'm a gamdev, so I can't quit. We'd have to compromise.
Update: Fuck the game
Oh yeah i would. there's a girl i really like now and i would rather spend an hour with her than a hundred on cyberpunk 2077.
Cut baq yes. I am a tabletop and console/pc gammer. I def understand I will cut one out once I find an SO
I couldn’t give them up completely, but I would definitely cut back if it was affecting the relationship
My wife never asks me not to play, but i have cut back to spend more time with her knowing its important.
I don’t think my crush will ever do. He loves the games too much.
Hell no! If you're my girlfriend you should've already known i loved video games. If you didn't want to be in a relationship with a gamer you shouldn't have gotten into a relationship with a gamer.
It's almost the same as asking someone to give up books for your girl friend. Granted there's a scale to everything but as long as time goes to the couple it shouldn't matter.
The real question should be : would you give vidéo game for sex? 😂
I mean «would you give up video game for sex? »
You use sex to control your men?
Wow
Also no. I'd just go get a different girl who still let's me smash even tho I play fortnite and cod
There is no reason for one to completely stop playing games. Some people might need to lighten up a bit on it if they are not paying enough attention to their partner.
Hey girl you don't know how it feels when you are a gamer although he is playing foolish games. He should wait for the right time. I never play an game in front of my girlfriend.
You should try talking to him. Being in a relation doesn' t mean feeling ignored or something like that. But you should also respect what his hobbys are :)
That's like saying would my girlfriend give up make-up, hell Noooooo
Uhh... no it’s not.
How is it not? Both are necessities regardless of whether you think you need it or not. The difference is we want them for different reasons
Neither are necessities. Makeup wouldn’t take away time from you, playing video games would with her.
Yeah I meant they're not, my bad.
Both though are considered important to their respective users and because of that it's asking the same question
'Will you give up something important to you because I want you to?'
Also, in the situation that it takes time away from being with her, why can't she join in and take an interest in something I enjoy, in the same way that if she wants to do something it's almost a requirement for me to say yes? Haha
But yeah to sum up, it is basically the same question as both can be seen as important to each half in the relationship
Lol no. You just repeated yourself. Video games could cause him to ignore her if she doesn’t play them. Makeup doesn’t. They’re both important, but one takes away from your SO.
Just because the objects in the question are slightly different it doesn't make the question any different and neither do the effects that each thing has lol
You just misunderstood what I meant by my original post and I have no idea why we're still talking about this so I'm gonna stop now haba
No. I would not give up a thing I enjoy for my boyfriend
Nobody touches my vidya if they do I'll cut them with my katana
Dress up as league of legends champs and let him destroy your Nexus
I would greatly reduce it bur would not stop in total
Nope. If she's not down to play or watch, she can go.
Don't pretend you've had a girlfriend.
I just got out of a 4 year long relationship and I have two kids with a prior relationship that last 5 years. If you just want to troll, it's fine. But there's plenty of women who like videogames.
Oh, most definitely. I myself even do. Tbh, I kinda assumed you were a younger kid who was trying to make a "funny" post. That is what caused my initial response.
Now knowing that your were not, than I can say that I understand what you're saying. Common interests are good. And you most definitely shouldn't let a partner take away of your hobbies. That wouldn't be fair. Have a goodnight and game on, sir.
@Jacquelinee94
His age is blatantly listed next to his name...
Ok, and today is my first time using this app. I didn't realize that ealier, thus why i didn't know the age. So sorry, but no, i am not familiar with it all yet. You can't instantly be familiar with someone your first learning to use. Also, im gonna have to say that i disagree with you. Only because blatantly obvious would be completely unsuble and highly standing out. Small text, plain black font, displayed off to the side of a profile picture, cannot really be described as being written blatantly. Not trying be rude or anything, but I do have the right to respond to something when someone tries to make an unnecessary rude comment. But thanks for the input tho... Have a great night.
@Jacquelinee94
:: Eyeroll :: I wasn't making a rude comment. I was just telling you. Chill out.
y'all gonna make out or what?
I'm not mad at all. I was just telling YOU. And just some advice, maybe don't tell someone to chill out, because that's definitely not appreciated by many people. I don't know exactly why. But it's true. And come on... ":: Eyeroll ::" ? Really dude? Anyway, once again, didn't say I was mad. All good here. Have a good night.
@weclock
Lmfao. That was great. Sent at perfect timing and almost made me laugh out loud,
Sorry we cluttered your post. Didn't even realize, honestly.
It's chill, y'all have a good night.
Thank you, you too!
I would try to cut back but I wouldn't ever give it up
Yeah there has to be some balance between gaming and you
Fuck if she started going down on me I'd have difficulty to continue playing haha. I'd just stop my game completely for her
If he realizes it's a problem, he will choose the video games.
I would cut back on gaming for her but i wouldn't quit
Second question stop playing
I also mostly play mobile games so yea
My girlfriend is getting irritated that I am playing too much lately
Well Saturdays are for the boys so catch me on a good day
Hell no. Video games are competitive and fun. I've played video games my whole life. If you love me, you'll let me enjoy my games.
I absolutely love video games and would prefer a partner who also enjoyed them but at the end of the day the one I love is more important
Everything in moderation and compromise. There shouldn't be absolutes. No "never" or "always". It becomes toxic.
Would you ask an athlete to stop athletics? I woulnd date some one who was like "its me or the video games!" Id be like bitch are you skyrim?
If she went down on me during a game, id just let it happen and consider it a new difficulty mode!
I wouldn't ask that because I wouldn't get rid of my games for my boyfriend. No thanks.
I don't play as much so I would consider, but she has to be a really awesome girlfriend, not just a regular mean girl that only wants me to stop because she doesn't like it.
Here is one of my cardinal rules about people. We make time for what is important to us.
Fuck yeah. Movies or music, that's tougher, but i'd just try to convince her to join me.
Never
But yes, I'll play them for comparatively less time period
Meh, I'm not nearly as into videogames as i used to be.
It's possible he will grow out of it somewhat. In the meantime you could try to figure out his other hobbies or new hobbies entirely
never that, she can wait, girls come and go. video games will always stay
Cut back yeah give up no... if she gives up what she likes to do then yeah.. otherwise no
I would cum...
No. She would know before dating me that video games is a big interest of mine. So with that being said, accept it or hit the bricks toots!!
no because people play games to relax them selfs, like what would you do if he said your not aloud to do what ever you do
he shouldn't spend his time with you on games, but gaming is very fun so dont cut him from games completely