I mean, you can't force someone to give up something they enjoy doing If a guy asked you to give up make up because he doesn't like you wearing it when he's around, would you? (League of Fortnite doesn't exist) I'm not say a guy can't wear makeup and a girl can't play video games, just putting in an example
LMFAO I wouldn't give up videogames for my boyfriend. So no, no expectation for that. However, I'd expect him to be inclusive if he is going to play around me. Time spent together should be spent TOGETHER, staring at someone play is never fun.
The simple answer is no. Games are the primary source of stress relief for me, and anyone who expects me to give it up is out of their mind. They're always there to pull me out of a rut and transport me to a happier place.
Not entirely, never. But I would not play games in the presence of my significant other than if she would want me to show her or something like that. And I get what you are feeling, you think that he is less interested in you and just wants to play vidya.
haha kinda sucks to be with someone who is waaay to addicted to video games but if we can do both then yayy seriously who wouldn't wanna like cuddle or something and play a nice video game with there bf/gf?
I would never ask my guy to give it up, would talk to him and work out a compromise when I am around where we can play games we both enjoy. There are other video games out there.
If you want your boyfriend's behavior to change, TRY. Attempt to play with him, do your homework about that games he is into... don't dismiss it as a hobby or a waste of time, be passionate about the things your man is passionate about and he will end up being passionate about you, too.
No. Purely because if I was in a situation where my girlfriend wanted that level of control over my life then we wouldn't be compatible. I wouldn't mind cutting back though
You must live a sad existence then. This is coming from someone who used to play them anywhere between 5 and 8 hours a day. I have them up, and I've survived, so you can too.
Iβd never ask such a silly thing! My husband when he has time still plays his computer and ps4 games but I use to be a gamer too so I know how fun it is.
Nope, I'm not changing for a woman. I also, play guitar, bass, write songs, I'm making a bass and guitar. Not giving up anything, she'd better get some hobbies or something
Lol league is so awesome. But indeed guys always tend to play it when im around. But they try to show me how good they are.🙄 Just shut down the internet before they start😂
I wouldn't give something up that I love for my partner, I'm sorry. I love playing games, and I find a partner that loves playing games as much as I do.
Nope. That's more of a thing that typically comes from women around my age. They tend to get upset if their guy plays games much, even when she is busy doing other stuff. If someone asked me to stop playing them I would just tell her to leave.
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I wouldn't. Why give up something that you like just because someone else wants you to? She don't like me playing video games then she can take a hike and I will find a girl that likes them. Life is to short to not do what makes you happy.
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Haha never. I wouldn't date anyone who would make me give up something that beings me joy
Answer for the update on the question: I would try to hear her out, understand where she is coming from.
I mean, you can't force someone to give up something they enjoy doing
If a guy asked you to give up make up because he doesn't like you wearing it when he's around, would you? (League of Fortnite doesn't exist) I'm not say a guy can't wear makeup and a girl can't play video games, just putting in an example
LMFAO I wouldn't give up videogames for my boyfriend. So no, no expectation for that. However, I'd expect him to be inclusive if he is going to play around me. Time spent together should be spent TOGETHER, staring at someone play is never fun.
Also I've given my boyfriend head during league, it was hilarious but he had good self control.
The simple answer is no. Games are the primary source of stress relief for me, and anyone who expects me to give it up is out of their mind. They're always there to pull me out of a rut and transport me to a happier place.
Update: Depends on the game.
Any hyper competitive game I'd say "stop, I need to win this" and then insult the enemy team.
If it's a more relaxed single player game, then I'd just go with the flow.
Stop playing while spending time with her..- HELL YES 😊
Give up playing it - HELL NO 😁
Not entirely, never. But I would not play games in the presence of my significant other than if she would want me to show her or something like that. And I get what you are feeling, you think that he is less interested in you and just wants to play vidya.
haha kinda sucks to be with someone who is waaay to addicted to video games but if we can do both then yayy seriously who wouldn't wanna like cuddle or something and play a nice video game with there bf/gf?
I would never ask my guy to give it up, would talk to him and work out a compromise when I am around where we can play games we both enjoy. There are other video games out there.
If you want your boyfriend's behavior to change, TRY. Attempt to play with him, do your homework about that games he is into... don't dismiss it as a hobby or a waste of time, be passionate about the things your man is passionate about and he will end up being passionate about you, too.
No. Purely because if I was in a situation where my girlfriend wanted that level of control over my life then we wouldn't be compatible. I wouldn't mind cutting back though
I rarely play online games. So I'd just pause my game.
I would never allow my partner to give something up or me. That I'd who he is and it would be selfish as fuck. I love nerdy men and gaming.
Women and men who try changing their partners have problems.
Yes, I agree! My boyfriend loves his video games, but it's never been an issue. It's such an innocent hobby,
Lol ikr, looking cute playin games like a little boy (don't tell them that)
Haha oh yes! Star wars pj pants and all.
No i will never give on video games. They keep me alive
You must live a sad existence then. This is coming from someone who used to play them anywhere between 5 and 8 hours a day. I have them up, and I've survived, so you can too.
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Iβd never ask such a silly thing! My husband when he has time still plays his computer and ps4 games but I use to be a gamer too so I know how fun it is.
I wouldn't give up something I enjoy simply because she doesn't, but I wouldn't let it consume my life. She's more important to me.
I'd most likely let her, unless, in that particular moment, I just wanted to play video games.
Nope, I'm not changing for a woman. I also, play guitar, bass, write songs, I'm making a bass and guitar. Not giving up anything, she'd better get some hobbies or something
There's a pause button
Lol league is so awesome. But indeed guys always tend to play it when im around. But they try to show me how good they are.🙄 Just shut down the internet before they start😂
I could cut back. But my ideal girlfriend would like playing video games, too, so hopefully it wouldn't be too much of an issue for us.
For your update: I would hit the pause button and reciprocate.
I wouldn't give something up that I love for my partner, I'm sorry. I love playing games, and I find a partner that loves playing games as much as I do.
Nope. That's more of a thing that typically comes from women around my age. They tend to get upset if their guy plays games much, even when she is busy doing other stuff.
If someone asked me to stop playing them I would just tell her to leave.
I wouldn't. Why give up something that you like just because someone else wants you to? She don't like me playing video games then she can take a hike and I will find a girl that likes them. Life is to short to not do what makes you happy.