Sounds fair! The reason I asked is because I have met many friends whose girlfriends can’t stand gaming at all.
You know what their problem is? They need to date a gamer girl! 😆I know that's easier said than done, but realistically that would make dating a lot easier for you. I know if I date again, I'm going to make sure he's a gamer. That way if a new game is released and I spend hours playing it, or I have a raid night and I can't spend time with him? He understands.
Where can we meet gamer girls though?
In games of course! For example, I mostly play WoW. I raid on a team that's full of women. But unless you hear us talk in discord, most people assume I'm a guy, lol. Most women don't advertise their gender in game for obvious reasons. Outside of finding one in game, you can meet us at cons, online gaming forums... just don't reek of desperation!One of my coworkers met her now husband in a game- yes, really. They've been together for over 5 years. And they met running in a pug of all things!So yes guys, it is possible to meet and date gamer girls.
This gives me so much hope, thanks a lot for sharing. I sometimes run into women in RDR2 and it’s always fun and exciting when that happens.
See asker- another gamer girl! We definitely exist 😊
@minasama @Cynicaldreamer i apricare you girls! You never know, we might run into each other in some game
I guess the “way too seriously” part is subjective now that I think about it. To some (not me but people I know), it means gaming for 12 hours straight everyday (no showering, no cooking, ordering food from outside, etc.) To me, it means being a little angry when losing in certain games. I would watch conspiracy theories about the developer of the game and why their game is scripted and rigged 😂In any case, I believe gaming should take a small portion of the day, if it was a daily occurrence to begin with. If it starts to become an addiction with someone I know, I would brandish an intervention banner and have a sit down with them.
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That’s cool! Do you like it? I started it last year but had to stop
In the beginning I couldn't stand the gameplay, but now I got used to it
Same! In the beginning it was too hard to fight
Thats annoying! Reminds me of many of my friends.. I don’t get the point of watching other players play. I mean I get t that gamers learn from streamers and all but like you said there are limits. Good on you, you deserve better
The last part... damnnnnn! You did the right thing though. I know a few dudes like that. One of them was my neighbor and his girlfriend literally dumped him last month because of gaming. I heard a lot of fighting and cussing about his PlayStation and his sick addiction to it and then I heard him shout in pain. Later I found out she bit his elbow and left for good 😂
Lol that’s fair, and god bless you for your hard work 💪🏻
One question? What your boyfriend does in the relationship since you are the breadwinner and he does not sound he do much household chores or any work
@hi_it_is_me123 My husband is a full-time law student. He also is the one who cooks all our food because I don't know how to lol
My feet are clean though lol but ya sorry about that. And that’s fair limits should be set
So I want a man with a real life, not a life in a screen.
I understand what you’re saying and that’s a fair ask but even gamers can have a life. By “way too seriously” I meant that he gets angry not that he games all day.
Ahh yeah, either one of those turns me off
Lol yeah I know! It’s annoying to everyone around and to the gamer themselves after they’ve realized what havoc they’ve wreaked
Oh God! That’s actually scary. No I’m not that extreme. I will never ever be.
Lol! That’s good. I think of it this way in the terms of stoners. There’s such thing as a stoner and a burnout. I’ve seen successful rich people smoke pot, but I’ve also seen stoners (burnouts) have no life purpose. So long as games ain’t doing that, I see nothing wrong with it.
That’s a nice way to think of it and I agree. Personally I don’t smoke weed, and I never will, not even once.
I smoked for years when I was in Cali. But I quit. I just try to stay on a path of sobriety now. I miss it tho, as it wasn’t really destructive for me. But after wanting to connect with God more, I stopped for that. You seem like you have a great head on your shoulders. 😁
I don’t judge you at all! We all have our indulgences. It just wasn’t my thing I guess. And good on you, it’s better to quit now than later.
That sounds totally fair. Some games test your limits though and with that nothing is guaranteed lol. I mean worst that could happen is a broken controller.
Right but honestly only people with a dependency on video games is a problem. People that just really enjoy playing is never an issue unless the person they are with are jealous that there SO has a passion
I actually agree with you. My ex was into belly dancing. I always encouraged her. She did the same. It’s important for partners to encourage each other, given that their passion isn’t becoming a negative addiction.
Sounds fair! There’s a thin line between gaming and addictive gaming honestly, so one must be conscientious
Fair enough. A girl who games is the epitome of hotness
Yeah that would be annoying if that was the case
I agree with you!! Problem is I know some people who get so angry when they game that they might throw a vase at the wall or something. 😂
I agree... There’s a fine line between enjoying a game and being controlled by it!
Cool. Gamer girls are the best
Yes, gamer in general are the best ^-^
I loved too. Gaming industry is changing though
Changed a lot. Now u need a new computer every 6 months to play games.
That’s why I just play on PlayStation. At least you have to change it every 7 years
thats waste of money in my opinion
If you’re not gonna use it, sure
Sounds like your last boyfriend was my neighbor. In all seriousness, he got dumped because of gaming
That sounds fair
Haha, sounds like the best kind of life.
Sounds fair 💯
What if he invites you over to game and eat tacos?
I have 0 game skills so it will end up with me watching him and getting bored.
Haha I was only joking because I like your username
Lol unfortunately that’s what gaming is all about these days
being angry? how come?
Yea gamers are so toxic nowadays, in certain games at least if not all. The trick is who gets under the other’s skin faster. It never was like that.
they always have been it hasn't changed, it shows in the competitive games. In mmo's where pvp isn't the focus you'll see it way less
That might be right with the exception of RDR2. It’s an mmo but players are toxic as hell.
isn't there pvp involved there tho
There is yes but that’s the case with all mmos, no?
rdr is more like open world pvp, like GTAV, in mmos like ffxiv they're more like game modes
Oh yes yes, sorry you’re right. Regardless though, it’s interesting to study the psychology of griefers in games like RDR and GTA.
You like chaos?
I do. I must confess that I did grief once on GTA V and didn't regret it, the chaos that followed cracked me up. So now you know one of the reasons why someone would do it ;)
I do it sometimes too! But I would stop in a while. The people I’m talking about don’t play the game. They just grief.
If he only plays games maybe it’s hard but I meant like 2 hours a day tops (with occasional tantrums if he lost in the game lol)
I totally agree! Any man would be lucky to meet a gamer girl
Cool 😎 Girls who game are the best and the coolest
Ooooo, we appreciate girls like you 🌹
Video games mean he's in touch with his boyish side
True! Every man needs to game at least for a certain period of his youth
You're never too old for games
Also true! I believe I’ll be gaming till I fucking die
What games do you play? I have a PS4 and soon will get PS5.
I don't. I just appreciate boyishness
Oh I see! Too bad, I thought you might be interested in joining my RDR2 posse 😂
I'd cheer for you ;)